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How do I get over the pain of the relationship and be able to date again?

Q.   About three months ago my girlfriend of about 5-6 months broke up with me saying I don't want to be in a relationship at the time. The following day She went out with my friend and she insulted me when I told her it upset me and so did my friend. ...

A.   31 May 2010: ight bruh 6 months isnt a long time (no offense) anyway what she did was fu**ked up but u gotta let go of the past man. its already been 3 months since yall were together. honestly i think the pain shoulda stopped by nw; but the easiest way to g... (read in full...)

He doesn't trust me, now I've broken up with him.

Q.   I just broke up with my bf. Cause my feelings for him were sort of gone. But now i feel bad for him. Should i get back to him? But 1 things that he doesnt trust me sometimes and which made me sure to break up with him. But now what should i do ?...

A.   29 May 2010: Hun dont ever get back with someone just because you feel bad. if u dont have feelings for him anymore its not your fault.. people grow apart all the time. if you get back with just because u feel bad you'll just be stuck in a relationship with a ... (read in full...)

He is putting his friends before me and it's getting me down.

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 yrs and living together for 2(high school sweethearts). We are both 23. Lately all he ever wants to do is be with his friends playing ball,music,fishing or hanging out at the tennis courts. He doesn't come ...

A.   29 May 2010: sorry but nothing you do is going to make realize how good he has it. he needs to grow up. he needs to learn that your more important than is friends. (no offense) your in a relationship with a boy not a man. he should be supporting you. not ... (read in full...)

I feel like it's ending and I've fallen so hard for her.

Q.   I knew my current girlfriend in the beginning of this year, in February. She lives in the the countryside, in a city that i used to live and it's where my mum lives as well. So I go there almost every weekend or fortnightly.. after almost three ...

A.   29 May 2010: sorry to hear about your troubles man, iv dealt with something similar and it sucks majorly. as to your question, its very simple what u should do next week. dont contact her at all. if a she wants to talk to u she will call or text or some... (read in full...)

Why do men like fake breasts so much?

Q.   I just think they look so silly, I mean, it's rare you get a slim woman with naturally big breasts, yet men seem find this so sexually attractive. Just wondering why? Breasts aren't supossed to defiy gravity! And big ones on such small women look ...

A.   28 May 2010: me personally.. natural breast are more attractive than fake ones... (read in full...)

What can I do to win my ex back, I really want to be with her, all advice appreciated?

Q.   Hi, I just want to be with my ex, she's slowly starting to talk to me again, but very slowly, she just seems to hate me right now. By the way she is pregnant and it is mine. I just cant stand being without her, it's physically hurting now, everyday ...

A.   27 May 2010: this mainly depends on who broke up with who... if she broke up with you then let her contact u, if it was u that broke up her then let her know ur sorry and yea. itll take time for her to forgive or she may never forgive u idk... (read in full...)

I'm too controlling in this relationship, please help!

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years, since I was 16 and now am 20 going on 21 and we live together now. I have always been "the boss", perhaps I can say... In my relationship! meaning that, its mostly all about me. I am a very bitchy mean ...

A.   27 May 2010: wow... ur lucky he stayed that long. (no offense) the reason y he didnt check ur stuff is because he trusts u. obviously u dont trust him. and after a while u get the result u got. the good thing about all this is u identified the problem (ur ... (read in full...)

It's getting hard to wait

Q.   i like this guy and he claims he likes me back but every time i see him he is with his neighbor. when i ask him about it he claims there just friends. and when shes not around he flirts with me....... also he used to like my bff and then he broke up...

A.   27 May 2010: ok hun sorry to break it to ya but if he hasnt asked you yet... he isnt going to. to me it seems he only tells u he likes u just because its what u wanna hear. and the main reason y u r putting up with the way he is acting is because humans only ... (read in full...)

Instant sparks but he seems to be distant.

Q.   i met someone and we both had sparks at first site. we havent gotten anywhere in relationship i think because i turned him off by coming on to strong. He says that he was with someone whom he really cared for whom just recently broke it off with him ...

A.   27 May 2010: do you know how long he was with the other girl? if they were together for a while then, he does need time to get his head straight. the only thing you can do is give him some space and express to him that you are there for him if he needs anything. ... (read in full...)

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