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My boyfriend is best friends with both of his ex's and it upsets me!

Q.   I need help!!! my boyfriend is best friends with both of his ex's (yes there are two and they both have boyfriends) and it really upsets me. I don't want to be the type of girlfriend that doesn't allow him to be friends with whoever he wants but ...

A.   17 January 2008: Hey- I know this is a tough situation! I suspect you feel really uncomfortable (and possibly a bit jealous) because these two ladies have intimate knowledge and secrets of him in the past, before you came along. Maybe you don't trust him enough. ... (read in full...)

Why haven't I gotten my period in a week and half?

Q.   My husband and I have been trying to have a baby for about 3 months now and we have not had any luck. But this month when I was suppose to get my period it never came. Now I am about a week and half late. This morning I tried a home pregnancy test ...

A.   17 January 2008: There could several reasons why you haven't got your period.. If the first test came out negative, you need redo a week later, because you may not have enough hormones circulating in your blood for the test to pick up, assuming that your period hasn... (read in full...)

My man is a fratboy who treats me like dirt, is there any hope?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend a year and a half. He stopped hanging out with his Fraternity friends for a long time because they were bad influences and he was so nice to me. Now, he has started again and is emotionally abusing me!! He says he wants ...

A.   17 January 2008: This man of yours has no respect for your feelings and is abusing you psychologically. By staying around him, you are giving him the message that it is ok for him to do so, and he can get away with it. This is not love, and a relationship with ... (read in full...)

Have been trying to lose weight but my partner is unsupportive!

Q.   I have been desperately trying to lose weight since the birth of my son 5 years ago, when I gained a hefty 30 kgs. I have lost 12, but have struggled to lose anything else. Recent blood tests revealed that I have Insulin Resistance and a sluggish ...

A.   13 January 2008: Thank you for your great advice, I am feeling much more supported now because you were caring enough to share your thoughts with me. Interestingly enough, since my partner and I had that conversation, although he reacted angrily at the time, he... (read in full...)

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