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I'm a bit ashamed that I cant afford to buy her expensive gifts, should I tell her I don't have much money?

Q.   Hi,i'm 22 and my girlfriend is 21 well we are dating together already 5 months, i'm 2 year university but shes already 4 year and working. We really like and even love each other. Recently she wrote me several letters that she's completly in love ...

A.   30 November 2009: I don't think she really cares. From what you say, I think she already knows you don't have much money. You probably don't have to tell her that. If she didn't know, why would she offer to pay for your things? If it makes you uncomfortable for her ... (read in full...)

Am I right to feel distant towards him for the way he treated me?

Q.   My boyfriend of almost two years came with me to visit my mother and brothers for Thanksgiving. The first 3 days were great, he was sweet, he did not accuse me of anything or call me bad names. Then on the third night, he needed cash at a...

A.   30 November 2009: OK first of all, he hit you. HE HIT YOU. Why is no one commenting on this? I have no idea. I don't know how it happened. I wasn't there, but you need to think about whether or not he is physically abusive. Has this happened before? Has he ever ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is convinced I'll leave him, but puts me down all the time too. Why is he acting like this?

Q.   My boyfriend of a year started acting weird a month ago. He puts me down a lot verbally (that's I'm fat, act dumb, etc.) and I tell him that it hurts my feelings but he just says "you know I'm only kidding, I love you for you and wouldn't be with ...

A.   19 November 2009: My boyfriend does this too. I know how you feel. We even have a similar situation where we broke up for almost two years while he recovered from his drug adiction. He even attracts girls like flies just like your boyfriend. I think my boyfrien... (read in full...)

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