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Does this sound like a happily married man?

Q.   I am 35 single female never married, has a crush on a manager 35 (he is married with 2 kids under 7) in the same office building. We connected on linkedin and after that it was non stop emails from him to me telling me about at first how he(only he ...

A.   9 November 2013: Just sounds like someone wanting to connect with others about his interests and hobbies rather than his responsibilities as a father and husband. What are you hoping to achieve? you think the crush could lead to the outcome of him leaving his fami... (read in full...)

Due to my past experience with acne, I am worried that my boyfriend is trying to tell me something. What do you all think?

Q.   I am someone who went through a severe bout of acne when I was younger. I have been left with scars (no acne now) and have been seeing a dermatologist regularly to get filler and laser to deal with it. Its better, but I do still have scars. Anyh...

A.   9 November 2013: Just started seeing? how long? maybe he has skin breakouts now and then and wanted to sound you out on how you would feel if his skin broke out. Are you obese? no so his comment was not at you but just in general about his turn offs. Sounds like... (read in full...)

Which man do I choose? Passion or security?

Q.   Hello! I have to make the biggest decision of my life and I need some advice! I love two very different guys that have different things to offer and I don’t know who to choose. With Guy # 1 I will be able to stay home with my future kids and be the ...

A.   9 November 2013: My observations Sounds like neither to me. There will be a third one. What do you feel you are bringing to the relationships or do you feel the man must provide for you? ... (read in full...)

His story put me off -- am I just naive?

Q.   So I met this guy and I'm trying to decide if he's dodgy. He said he went on holiday to a 5 star hotel which was practically empty because it was a front for money laundering, so they have fake guests staying in suites for 2000 a night, staying for ...

A.   9 November 2013: I agree with Aunty Em. But maybe he was nervous and just trying to impress. I would go with my gut feeling. I'm sure most of us, in the past, have not gone with the gut feeling and given the benefit of the doubt, only to find out months / weeks ... (read in full...)

Are there people who just don't like texting?

Q.   Silly question but do some people just not like texting? I was/am seeing this boy. have been since end of july. When I see him hes lovely! We get on great, he shows me a lot of attention and clearly likes me and enjoys spending time with me. I'...

A.   9 November 2013: If you like him just accept him as he is. he isn't a great texter. He clearly prefers face to face contact and giving people his attention. He said 'where?' in his text so showed interest and willing to continue the conversation so relax and enjoy. ... (read in full...)

How can I help him feel comfortable with physical contact?

Q.   I'm in love with a guy who is around 4 years older than me, which (considering my own age), is a difference blatantly big enough to make some people care about my 'safety', and just the general 'its wrong' that I get from some 'friends'. Okay, maybe ...

A.   9 November 2013: You mention your need to be with him etc but what about his need? he obviously likes you but at the moment is not comfortable with anything else for various reasons.I don't think there is a lot that can change this at the moment. Only time spent as ... (read in full...)

Should I just forget about him and try move on?

Q.   I met a guy on a night out with some friends, he was really nice and we hung out most of the night and he asked for my number. He text me every day without fail, and not just one or two texts it would texting from morning till night, we went on two ...

A.   9 November 2013: Sorry but sounds like he is just not that in to you. Other things may be going on for him and where as he may feature largely in your life, for him it sounds very different. To set you mind at ease you could just try a casual text, see if he ... (read in full...)

How do you feel about the woman proposing to the man?

Q.   This question is for everyone: How do you feel about the woman proposing to the man?...

A.   9 November 2013: She proposes, he proposes or they propose together. Every relationship is different and people have different expectations. I do not see a problem with it.... (read in full...)

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