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In the three years since the baby she's lost all motivation

Q.   I've been married for 3 years and we have been together for 6 years. We have 2 children together and she has 3 of her own. Here's my question. Since our daughter was born (3 years ago) my wife has no motoviation to do anything. She won't clean ...

A.   25 June 2010: She is a stay at home mom. I work 10-12 hours a day as an electrician. I do come home and clean. In addition, when I get home, I take care of the kids. I get them through their homework, doing their choirs and bathing the younger ones for bed. ... (read in full...)

I don't get why and when I squirt!

Q.   I squirted before during sex but I didn't know I was it just happened but now when I have sex I dont why do you think so? ...

A.   25 June 2010: I believe it use to be rare that women could squirt. It is happening a lot more these days. I have actually learned to almost give any women the g-spot orgasm and if they don't hold back, they will squirt. It's differently a technique that you ... (read in full...)

I'm shy! How do I flirt with him?

Q.   Hi i need abit of advice. How do i act more interested and flirty with my friend? Its strange but people think he likes me but is to shy. hye fines with any other girl or person he will join i9n talk to them but me...nothing. People have told me to ...

A.   25 June 2010: Why waste time? Wouldn't it be better to just walk up to him and start a conversation. Look at it this way: "Your not together now, but your interested in him; You want to flirt and show interested, but don't know how; If you just start talking to ... (read in full...)

Is it normal to become wet when aroused?

Q.   I'm 16 and I'm a virgin. I've been with my boyfriend just over 8 months. Whenever I'm with my boyfriend and we are making out or whatever you like to call it I feel myself getting really wet. So when he starts to touch me (outside of clothes) I feel ...

A.   25 June 2010: You shouldn't worry about it at all. AS stated by others who answered this question, most guys think it's an incredible turn on. It's a sure sign that we (guys) are doing something right. Any guy who says it's a turn off has a problem. Don't ... (read in full...)

What's the hang-up on swallowing?

Q.   It probably has been answered already, but what is the real hang up on women not wanting to swallow a man's ejaculation. Taste? Contents? Etc. Also, if you are going to let them cum in your mouth, what's the difference? Men go down on women and ...

A.   24 June 2010: Actually, I have no problem with my own. I will french kiss a girl who still has it in her mouth. It's mine. I can't expect her to swallow it if I didn't know what it was like. I'm not into guys, so I can only speak of my own. I never said they ... (read in full...)

I'm only 21. Why do I refuse to believe I will find happiness?

Q.   Hi, I'm beginning to worry about being alone. But the crazy thing is, I've been single for just over two weeks! I recently came out of a relationship that lasted for 9 1/2 months. It was an okay relationship, but I've know for a long time that m...

A.   24 June 2010: Use positive affirmations. Look it up on the internet. There are several sites that have free ones. You can read them or listen to them. Always have a positive outlook and the universe will give you a positive return. As far as relationships, ... (read in full...)

How can I get him to stop looking at adult websites?

Q.   Hi, sisters..We married last year after six month dating. He is a wonderful man who is hard worker and caring his family. But one thing is bothering me very much is he's sexual behavior. He having pantyhose addiction and want sex all the time. Many ...

A.   24 June 2010: You cannot and will not be able to stop it. If you are satisfied in the marriage, then it shouldn't be a problem. I personally have a very high sex drive. I want sex all the time in some form or another. When I don't, I resort to porn and ... (read in full...)

Can a man last too long? What can be done if you have this problem?

Q.   Ladies...how long do you like your guys to last in bed? I'm in my first new sexual relationship in a very long time, and my partner says I have the longest staying power of anyone she's been with. Most partners she was with she did quickies only, ...

A.   24 June 2010: I feel you man. I too can last for up to 2 hours. I have only had one lover who could even keep up. I just got use to not cumming or for the oral finale! I learned that I was over thinking everything. If you concentrate on every little ... (read in full...)

Does it feel the same?

Q.   Hey, up until now I've only had an orgasm through simulating the clit without intercourse, out of curiosity is the feeling of a vaginal orgasm the same, I mean through intercourse?...

A.   24 June 2010: There is differently a difference between a clitoral orgasm and a vaginal orgasm. Every woman is different, so know one can tell you exactly how you are going to feel. As a man who ensures a woman gets hers, over and over again, I can only advise ... (read in full...)

Fiance's tight vagina makes sex great with her, but now I want to last longer so that she finds it more satisfying too!

Q.   My fiance has a very tight vagina, almost that of a virgin. She however is mother to 3 children, 2 of whom were C-Section deliveries, obviously leaving her with a very tight vagina. Furthermore due to the C-Sections her vagina has minimal scarring ...

A.   24 June 2010: You have to learn your own point of no return. Usually you do this through masturbation. When you feel like your going to come, stop and push all of your blood into your penis (flex it). Learn to use your kegel muscle. The same one that makes ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend wants a BJ all the time, but I'm not enjoying it...

Q.   ok..i love my boyfriend to death and i waould like to give him what he wants but...he wants to get a blow job all the time..i dont like the taste of cum and i dont want to use a condom...what can i do??...

A.   24 June 2010: If you familiar with your partner's peaking point, when he comes, just let it run out of your mouth while your moving up or down on him. If your not familiar, learn the signs. His balls will pull upward and the head of the penis will be the ... (read in full...)

Do women worry about their parts the way men worry about theirs?

Q.   I love the female form. There are so many variations of the female genitalia. What is the reason some women's labia majoria is hidden and others are larger and seem to hang out. Secondly, do women get hung up on there vaginas like men do with ...

A.   24 June 2010: I already knew women obsessed about their breasts. Like I stated in the question, I love the female form and was only asking for your personal opinions. I am very oral and love to see, smell, taste and watch a woman's knees shake. I always tell a ... (read in full...)

"No hair down there"

Q.   "OP Own Title" What is the deal with women shaving their pubic area? I don't mind it being trimmed up and shaved on the sides, but all of it? It use to be a sign of maturity. What gives?...

A.   15 June 2010: Glad to see I'm not alone. I don't think I have ever ask a woman to shave it. I do shave my testicles though. Mostly due to oral sex. I love to have them sucked and having no hair makes it even better. I am a hairy guy though. Chest, legs, ... (read in full...)

Opinions on curved dicks?

Q.   Hey, I've seen this question argued before, but what do women think about curved dicks? I mean, I have one.. it starts out straight, then has a gradual curve downward, about 45 degrees. Is that a problem? I guess I can point it up, but the curve ...

A.   15 June 2010: I have the same thing and it hasn't been a problem. However, your's sound worst, only because you said it causes pain. Sound like: "Curvature of the penis is an abnormal bend in the penis that occurs during erection. It is also called Peyronie's ... (read in full...)

Too much body hair, how much will he care?

Q.   Hello, I am a 16 year old girl with too much body hair... My back and stomach. I have a boyfriend, he's amazing. He thinks I am so hot and I have the perfect body. When he goes to rub my tummy or my back, I pull my shirt down. He always asks why...

A.   15 June 2010: As a guy, I don't mind body hair on a woman. In fact, I like hair on the arms or down there. Just let your inhibitions go and let him touch you. ... (read in full...)

I really want this threesome!

Q.   hey im 26 and my girlfriends 20 . we have been together for 3 years we had our ups and downs but we are pretty good now. we have a baby together. i wanna have a threesome. perferably another girl. but i wouldnt mind if it was another dude. im not ...

A.   15 June 2010: The only way that it won't wreck your relationship is if it's someone you both don't know and won't see again. Best if it's done out of town. Otherwise, you, her and the other may want more from the other. Don't risk it if you don't want to lose ... (read in full...)

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