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Is there any way to get over jealousy over my wife's sexual partners?

Q.   I am 46 years old. My wife is 37. About six months ago, we were doing a book together called "All About Me", as a way to build intimacy. Unfortunately what the book did was practically ruin my life. A portion of the book asked what our number of ...

A.   31 July 2011: We need to look at the feelings that jealousy creates. Jealousy is ultimately a fear of being abandoned because you don't measure up. It also is stronger as the value you place on the other increases. Of course jealousy may seem very illogical when ... (read in full...)

Is there any way to get over jealousy over my wife's sexual partners?

Q.   I am 46 years old. My wife is 37. About six months ago, we were doing a book together called "All About Me", as a way to build intimacy. Unfortunately what the book did was practically ruin my life. A portion of the book asked what our number of ...

A.   29 July 2011: Jealousy is a fascinating emotion. I can feel crazy jealous about my wife having sex with 25 guys before me but feel much less jealous about her talking to guys in the present and I don't imagine crazy scenarios like I do about her past. Maybe the ... (read in full...)

Is there any way to get over jealousy over my wife's sexual partners?

Q.   I am 46 years old. My wife is 37. About six months ago, we were doing a book together called "All About Me", as a way to build intimacy. Unfortunately what the book did was practically ruin my life. A portion of the book asked what our number of ...

A.   20 July 2011:  Rectroactive jealousy, and any jealousy for that matter, is about self love and preserving the ego. It is also a fear of abandonment which makes RJ even more irrational since it is due to past events. Somehow because my wife is now part of my life, ... (read in full...)

Is there any way to get over jealousy over my wife's sexual partners?

Q.   I am 46 years old. My wife is 37. About six months ago, we were doing a book together called "All About Me", as a way to build intimacy. Unfortunately what the book did was practically ruin my life. A portion of the book asked what our number of ...

A.   20 July 2011: Let me clarify. We didn't do the book because we were having intimacy issues. It was just a way to get to know each other better. In retrospect, I now know that certain information was hard for me to digest, the number of her sexual partners, but I ... (read in full...)

Is there any way to get over jealousy over my wife's sexual partners?

Q.   I am 46 years old. My wife is 37. About six months ago, we were doing a book together called "All About Me", as a way to build intimacy. Unfortunately what the book did was practically ruin my life. A portion of the book asked what our number of ...

A.   20 July 2011: Alot of people, don't seem to understand that those suffering from this don't choose it. Why would I choose the pain that comes with this kind of jealousy?... (read in full...)

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