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I need a sex position that works for me (and doesn't involve me being bent over facing the floor!!)

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for about 4 months now ( been together for 7) and as we got closer i explained that i only orgasm when my clitorios is rubbed etc.. so now my boyfriend has become obssesed with having sex doggy style as this ...

A.   19 August 2008: i would say the spooning position because that gives access to your area easily with his hands & you can still see each other...not so impersonal like "doggy style"... (read in full...)

I have an urge to explore and experiment, but I don't want to throw away my relationship.

Q.   I am 21.I've been with my bf for 3.5 yrs now and have only ever slept with him. I have this urge to explore and experiment but i don wana throw this relationship away coz im the only girl he's ever slept with too. And he is 23 yrs old now; such ...

A.   19 August 2008: and another thing...DONT let your friends influence your decision by saying crap like "you're too young"!!..lets face it, if you find something sensational everyone is going to want it...b/c all those same friends that were telling ME that stuff in ... (read in full...)

I have an urge to explore and experiment, but I don't want to throw away my relationship.

Q.   I am 21.I've been with my bf for 3.5 yrs now and have only ever slept with him. I have this urge to explore and experiment but i don wana throw this relationship away coz im the only girl he's ever slept with too. And he is 23 yrs old now; such ...

A.   19 August 2008: i had this EXACT problem just about 2 months ago.. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and are around your age (20) & he is also 23 and the only person I've ever slept with in that time..i understand where you are coming from ENTIRELY... (read in full...)

Do women like watching porn? Can they get addicted?

Q.   Do women be addicted to porn and how do they fill when watching all the dirty action?please I prefer answers from female readers only....

A.   20 July 2008: yes, some girls enjoy watching it...i for one love to incorporate it when my boyfriend and i are messing around...and i believe that for some it can become addictive which is why you need to limit just how much your involving youself in it... (read in full...)

He ignored me while we were with his friends! Should I have been more assertive and talked to them?

Q.   I went out with this guy for 5 dates. He's in a meetup.com group and he took me on 3 of the dates to go to the events with this group. On the 5th date he talked to his friends and had his back to me. Then he put his arm around his best friend who ...

A.   20 July 2008: i feel like what he did to you was rude and inconsiderate..he should be a little more understanding about the fact that you may or may not have felt comfortable around his friends....i say talk to him about it & expect an apology...if he does it ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend fellated a guy! How do we have a healthy relationship again?

Q.   My boyfriend and I went on a weekend away with another couple that have been friends with us for years. In a drunken spell, my boyfriend and the other guy decided to experiment and gave each other blow jobs (without us girls knowing this). Later the ...

A.   20 July 2008: i believe that this matter raises some concern to your boyfriends' sexual identity.. i have other guy friends and my own boyfriend of 3 years himself & i know that drunk or not they would NEVER engage in this kind of homosexual behavior... (read in full...)

I need to know urgentyl whose fluid was running down my leg when we were having sex?

Q.   Ok, me and my boyfriend were having sex, and towards the end I started feeling this liquid running down my leg. So I told him to stop and pull out because I thought it might have been cum, but he didn't cum until he pulled out. So I'm kind of ...

A.   30 March 2008: It was probably you, however condoms would solve this problem indefinetly! So i suggest to be absolutely safe get on the pill, or use condoms.... (read in full...)

Should I contact my ex to tell him I want us to remain friends?...

Q.   My bf broke up with me 1 week ago and he said he really wanted to stay friends. He said he still liked me a lot but we just arent 'meant to be'. I guess it's true because we both wanted different things out of a relationship so it wasn't really ...

A.   30 March 2008: YES! Just call him and act like nothing happened, just call to see what's up. Don't necessarily make plans with him right away though because that could make you look desperate, or sad, even if you're not. Just call to see how things are, but don't ... (read in full...)

Such a dilemma! We agreed to keep the baby and now he's changed his mind.

Q.   Im forced into having another abortion...Let me explain About 2 years ago i met this guy when i was 17 and fell in love with him. He was my first love and pretty much first everything even though Ive had boyfriends befre I didnt trust them the w...

A.   20 November 2007: First of all you should be ashamed of yourself that you are letting a man decide for your own childs LIFE. Second of all, abortion isn't birth control, have you ever heard of the Pill or a condom before ending more innocent lives? Or opening your ... (read in full...)

I broached the subject of getting engaged to the father of my daughter and he said he never wanted engagement with anyone, his rejection hurt.

Q.   My boyfriend of 3 and a half years has never discussed us getting engaged or married. He moved in with me when our 11 month old daughter was born. The other day i broached the subject of us getting engaged on her pending first birthday and we ended ...

A.   25 August 2007: You need to approach the real question here which is why he doesn't want any part of the engagement and this needs to be addressed directly with him in person.... (read in full...)

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