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My relationships with men are abnormal, what is wrong with me?

Q.   What the hell is wrong with me? I'm smart and pretty and I have confidence but when it comes to men i have some bad habits and I have no idea why. I crave male attention in an unhealthy way. I'm not slutty at all but I like to be noticed by ...

A.   2 June 2011: Thanks for your reply! I used to be quite quiet and not that pretty (a bit of a tom boy) when I was younger so I never really had the attention, but recently no one has turned me down. I like being accepted by men, but if they were to ever rej... (read in full...)

Help me to figure out why I behave this way

Q.   Hello! So I'm posting this question to just get some anonymous advice about something. I have been friends with a guy for a while and I kind of knew he liked me more than just that. But I kept feeling like I wasn't really into it. He finally ...

A.   21 February 2011: I am exactly like you! When I can have men I don't want them but when I cant for whatever reason they become all I think about. I think its partly to do with attention and the attention you lose when guys go out with other men because their at... (read in full...)

My 19 year old boyfriend wet the bed! Why?

Q.   PLEASE TELL ME WHATS WRONG! Me and my boyfriend are sort of living together for like 2 months. And he has an early shift so he gets up 06:00AM. (we sleep together). He woke me up and told me that he peed the bed! AND HE IS 19! HE seemed really f...

A.   14 February 2011: I know this isn't a great situation to be in but this is actually more common then a lot of people think. Girls stop wetting the bed at an early age, however, lots of men have trouble with this until a late age. (Usually stops in their twenties) ... (read in full...)

Am I looking too much into this?

Q.   On a recent trip out of the city with my sports team, I realized I had a major crush on this guy. Now thing is, I barely met him this year and we're not close but we do talk to each other. I don't know if I'm reading too much into this, my wishful ...

A.   14 February 2011: I think the action to take here is to stop over-analising situations because it can become unhealthy, not to mention usually incorrect. There could be a million reasons why he didn't put his hands on your legs - he could really like you and could ... (read in full...)

My wife now wants a threesome. Who exactly will be the third person? Not me

Q.   My wife has stated she would be open to a threesome encounter with a male or female. I'm not interested in being the third person in this. What can I do?...

A.   14 February 2011: If you are having even the slightest bit of doubt about whether or not you could be the 'third person' in your sex life then something needs to be addressed! Don't ever let anyone pressure you into doing something unless you are 100% comfortable... (read in full...)

My feelings seem illogical...

Q.   My ex-boyfriend broke up with me months ago. We don't speak to each other anymore [he kind of just cut me out]. I feel like I'm moving on, but... I know I wouldn't want to be with him anymore, but it bothers me thinking of him with another gir...

A.   13 February 2011: This is quite a normal feeling to have after a relationship. Don't worry it will pass. ... (read in full...)

Should it bother me with how many different guys she has slept or had sex with in the past or am I just being greedy and selfish?

Q.   I have a girlfriend of about 17 months now and I love her very much. She is about 2 years younger than me and grew up in the city while I grew up in a small town, two completely different settings. She was the pretty girl in high school that ...

A.   13 February 2011: No. Although it does create insecurities if you've had fewer sexual partners, as long as she is trustworthy and treats you well you shouldn't let it bother you! Her number probably isn't as bad as you think!... (read in full...)

Feeling left out - female and male friends becoming close.

Q.   I find it hard to be friends with guys without developing an attachment to them, and i feel its unhealthy as i'm jealous of their female friends and girlfriends because of how close they seem to be. perhaps because I fell that I don't have that kind ...

A.   13 February 2011: I think what your feeling is insecurity. The women who fancy everyone and are 'less-picky' about their choice of men, I find, are the women who have low-self esteem and usually feel like they aren't worthy of a lot of men. (which comes from them ... (read in full...)

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