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We love each other to bits but I'm desperate for a child and she is totally against it!

Q.   Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 2 years now. We both said we love each other and are planning to share an apartment together. We have talked about other things in the short term and the long term. The problem we have is probably one of the ...

A.   24 May 2007: you deserve to be happy and she is not going to make u happy you will end up resenting her for not giving u the child you want get out now.... (read in full...)

He is old fashioned and expects me to do EVERYTHING around the house just because he has a full time job. Is this what marriage is supposed to be like?

Q.   Further to my previous questions, I am at yet another hurdle in my relationship.... my partner just worked a 7 x day week, and came home last night, tired, hungry and cranky, he mentioned the fact that he had not eaten a thing ALL day and needed ...

A.   21 May 2007: a marrige is a partnership and everthing should be 50/50. i was married at 19 and had 3 children by the time i was 23 my self and my husband worked and everything was split the childcare and the house work and even the cooking. i am now 28 ... (read in full...)

He says he wants a future with me, but he has still not figured out the details. Is it even worthwile to stick around?

Q.   ok so heres my question. The love of my life lives two hours away. We've been on and off for 4 yrs. The distance kills me sometimes. Him:never married, no kids, me: one child, divorced. He works all summer fourteen hrs a day. In the fall though...

A.   21 May 2007: i would sit him down and tell him its decision time u need to no were the relationship is going as u cant take it any more. and if he cant give u what u want its time to get out... (read in full...)

Is this "breakthrough bleeding" due to the pill or the sex ?

Q.   Hi, I just went on a birth control pill last week. My boyfriend and I were having sex last night, and I started to bleed. Is this a common side effect of the pill? He was not exactly thrilled when he saw the blood - it was kind of gross......

A.   28 March 2007: hi dont panic somtimes u can get breakthrough bleeding when u start the pill it is due to the hormone levels it can take your body a while to get used to it i had the same problem if it continues see the doctor you may need a different pill it ... (read in full...)

Lost my hubby 6 months and now am dating again! Is it too soon?

Q.   i am 28 with kids and my hubby died 6months ago i met a great man 2 months ago he is 15 years older than me it feels right but is it 2 soon 2 be in love again?...

A.   26 March 2007: thank you very much... (read in full...)

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