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Am I still protected if I changed my contraceptive pill brand?

Q.   Tonight my boyfriend and I just had sex-and he came inside of me, but he had a condom on, however when he pulled out the condom was still inside of me, and all the fluid came out of it and went everywhere. I've been taking birth control for a ye...

A.   11 June 2010: Changing the pill brand will not have any effect, they all contain the same ingredients. However, using your pill at irregular times will have an effect. You could still get pregnant because you're not protected for the days that you didn't t... (read in full...)

Still bleeding 3 days after losing my virginity!

Q.   hellow there, the thing is im kinda confused right now. i lost my virginity 3 days ago , and im still bleeding right. i dont know how normal is this, and i dont know if the virgin blood could have got mixed with my period blood, because im EXTRE...

A.   31 March 2010: It sounds like having sex has triggered your period. I wouldn't worry about it too much unless it goes on for more than a week.... (read in full...)

Should I try and start a relationship with him despite the age difference making it illegal?

Q.   This is something I really need help with. I'm only 15 and I'm very interested in a 21 year old. Yes, I completely understand it's illegal but do laws bury my feelings for someone? No. We've yet to begin a relationship but we've already had sex. Now ...

A.   5 February 2010: If you're boyfriend had any "true" feelings for you he wouldn't have jumped straight into bed with you, he would have waited until you were in a proper relationship. And if he loved you he would have also respected that you're underage and wait... (read in full...)

How much birth control is necessary?

Q.   I am not on the pill but really want ot seep with my boyfriend, is it ok just to use a condom?...

A.   6 August 2009: While either the pill or a condom on there own will be fine, it's always best to "double up" and use two methods of birth control (such as a pill and a condom) just to be on the safe side.... (read in full...)

Why does he lose his erection when he's about to ejaculate?

Q.   The sex is great but y does he loose his irection when it's time to cum. The only way he does cum is by oral or a handjob. It's frustrating he can't finish inside me. What can be wrong ? ...

A.   6 August 2009: Are you using condoms? If not he could just be affraid of getting you preganant and it's causing him to become a little inhibited.... (read in full...)

I'm not very experienced sexually but I want some interesting ideas to try with my boyfriend in the bedroom!

Q.   Heya So I've been with my Bf for 3 months now and we've been sleeping together for a while. Recently he asked me if I had any fantasies or if there was any particular things that I wanted him to do to me or that I wanted to do to him. Problem is ...

A.   6 August 2009: How about some simple role play? Nothing kinky like family roleplay (ewwww, creepy! Lol) but stuff like sexy nurse and patient, or doctor and nurse (you could both dress up for that one!). Or maybe something a little naughtier such as policema... (read in full...)

How is this even possible?

Q.   I just read an article about a young woman who came forward several years after some guy had supposedly forced her to give him a blowjob at a party. She claims that when this alleged assault was over with that most of the semen ended up in her ...

A.   6 August 2009: Unless a semen sample was taken at the time of the alleged incident then there is no way that reliable DNA evidence can be lifted from the woman many years later. In fact, there is simply no way scientific way to prove that the semen found no... (read in full...)

I'm in love with an 18 year old I met on the internet. He told me he wants sex, and I do too.

Q.   I am 14, and have fallen in love with an 18 year old over the internet, we have been on webcam, shared pictures, text and call eachover. he is already in a relashionship with a 16 year old but i love him andd he feels the same, he wants to come and ...

A.   31 July 2009: Honey, he doesn't want you or a relationship (he already has one!) and wants to have sex with an underage girl in his car! I think that says all you need to know about what a loser this guy really is. Report him, move on and only lose your v... (read in full...)

Women only: Oral sex or intercourse?

Q.   This questions is for women only: This might sound like a weird question but just think about it for a minute. If you had to choose between really good oral sex or actual intercourse - Which would you prefer, a really good tongue licking you dry all ...

A.   26 July 2009: Intercourse is much more pleasurable for me. Simply because of the closeness of a guys body over mine and the intimacy of having him look me in the eyes etc.... (read in full...)

I want to have sex with my girlfriends step sister without my girlfriend!

Q.   Ok, first off i have been with my girlfriend for almost a year and i am in love with her. One night a while back my girlfriend, her stepsister, and i were at my apartment drinking... Now my girlfriends stepsister is VERY attractive might i ad, ...

A.   26 July 2009: If you really love your girlfriend as much as you say you do then you already know what the answer is. Concentrate on the relationship you already have and leave the step-sister alone. If you sleep with the step-sister then you'll only hurt you... (read in full...)

I'm afraid I'll regret it if I don't act on this feeling,,,!

Q.   If I don't act on my physical attraction w/my husbands friend how on earth will I get over the overwhelming aching attraction? Should I live my life always wondering what it would have been? I am talking about 1 night not a relationship. And yes he ...

A.   26 July 2009: Instead of thinking about screwing some guy behind your poor husbands back why don't you try working on your marriage (and trying to make the sex better there instead of looking for it elsewhere). Besides are you really willing to risk your mar... (read in full...)

Food play during foreplay!

Q.   Ok this may sound like a silly question... but; my boyfriend (of 2 years) and I want to introduce food play to our love making but are unsure of how to go about such things. For example; we want to feed each other grapes during foreplay but we ...

A.   26 July 2009: Thanks satindesire, I'll be sure to check out that website! Thanks too LazyGuy!... (read in full...)

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