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28, single and lost

Q.   Hi, I'm 28 soon and a single lady. I've never dated, have no sexual experience, nor any really. I feel quite alone in finding a partner and a bit lost. Most of the guys I've liked have been 10-15 years older, I feel comfortable and share the same ...

A.   3 February 2012: you didn't say why you haven't dated. if there is no issue with that, try an experiment: resolve for one year to agree to a date with any man who asks you (who does not repulse you). a date is not a commitment, it's a get-to-know-you session. you ... (read in full...)

It's been 5 days.....should I text him or wait?

Q.   i met a guy at a bar 5 days back.He came to talk to and gave me lots of compliments and we both had a good time talking, drinking etc.He said he was new in town and didn't have any friends and I offered to hangout.He took my number and then text me ...

A.   3 February 2012: forget him. he isn't going to call. he was a stranger anyway. and he was nice and polite about it. but promising to call and not doing it is pretty standard to avoid an awkward conversation.... (read in full...)

I feel like I owe it to my husband to have a threesome.

Q.   My husband has been wanting a threesome with another women, i was for it at first but after his pushing and searching I started to have my insecruities. I feel tho, it needs to happen. I was unfaithful to him. I kissed a guy. (it might not see...

A.   3 February 2012: don't do it. you don't want to. what more justification do you need? how is this going to assuage your guilt over kissing another man? it won't. it will make you feel worse about yourself and your marriage. sex is not meaningless and trying to treat ... (read in full...)

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