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Should I persue this guy, or stick with my long-time boyfriend?

Q.   I was drunk and met a guy that I felt very strong feelings for, but I have a boyfriend of 2 years. Should I hang out with this guy again just to see if I really do have feelings for him and it wasn't the the booze talking, or should I not let it get ...

A.   29 June 2011: you have to ask your self who you love more first, your current partner or this other guy. and then you have to ask what the other guys after, a fling a long term ralationship. no point in throwing a 2yr ralationship away for a fling. and after ... (read in full...)

How do I get with him?

Q.   A few months ago i met this guy, and we became friends straight away, i knew straight away that i liked him as more than a friend but he was going out with someone at the time. But a few weeks after meeting him he split up with his girfriend. It h...

A.   29 June 2011: okay if your that nervous maybe explaining to him on a text message or email how ever else you can do it with out explaining face to face i mean thats if you to nervous to explain face to face. im sure hell understand and then hell know to take it ... (read in full...)

Is this age gap we have really that much out of line?

Q.   Im a 40 year old divorced mother of 2. Recently I have begun dating a very nice guy who just turned 32. We seem to have a real connection to each other and have alot of fun, our sex life is great. The only problem is alot of my friends seem to ...

A.   28 June 2011: no age is just a number. im 24 and im in a 6yr ralationship with a 45 year old we are due to getting married in 8 days but when im with him i dont see an age hes my best friend as well as my hubby. and im sorry but i thought a ralationship was just ... (read in full...)

In love with someone 30 years older.

Q.   For just over 2 years now I have had feelings for a woman about 30 years older than me. At no time over these two years have i at all understood these feelings, she is like a best friend and a second mother to me. I dont want to feel anything other ...

A.   28 June 2011: hi its nothing to do with age so i will not tell you to find a gf your own age. first things first shes happily married so there for best to put your feelings to the back of your mind as you may lose her as a friend then realise it was just a crush ... (read in full...)

Should I confront my former friend about the comments he made about me online?

Q.   My friend at least I thought they were and I got into a huge fight. We kind of had crushes on each other but things got really bad between us. I really made him mad. I tried apologizing and giving him space. The thing that hurt me is that after I ...

A.   28 June 2011: dont confront them while your angry because then they will know its bothered you and will proberly make more comments. aproach them calmly and just say why did you need to put the comments you did? i saw them. i didnt write anything nasty about you ... (read in full...)

My fiance's sisters think they're going to be bridesmaids at my wedding but I don't want them to be! How do I tell them?

Q.   How can I tell my fiance's sisters that they're not gonna be bridesmaids at MY wedding?! They think they are!...

A.   28 June 2011: tell them in the nicest possible way e.g im sorry to tell you this but i asked who ever is going to be braids maids to be bride maids ages ago, im sure you can think of something else they can do which is important but not a brides maid maybe sort ... (read in full...)

I've been seeing him for 2 weeks - do I buy him a birthday gift?

Q.   Seeing a guy for about 2 weeks been on quite a few dates and chilled at his house a bit too, its his birthday this weekend, do I buy him a gift??? ...

A.   28 June 2011: yeah, why not? think of something he likes maybe hes favorite after shave e.g. no harm in buying a pressies for some one.x... (read in full...)

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