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... Send helpful girl a private message | | | helpful girl's profile:Hello i like helping people because i have been through a hard time in 19years of my life and i had no body there for me to pull me through or give me the answers i longed for. I attend to help the best i can. Im in a long term ralationship with an older bloke than my self 21 years older than me actually. I live in birmingham smithswood west midlands. What makes me mad is these perfectick little boys trying to be big men or the little girls trying to be big girls e.g sleeping around with different sex partners and thinking its ok to have a baby at a age like 14 because they will never have to work other than that if they are girls who know they want to work as well as have a baby nothing wrong with that as well as these sick rapiest. I think the main thing to keep your self from getting into any kind of trouble is think before you act. if you would like to email me on my email address then please do at bootonkelsey@yahoo.co.uk
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I want time alone with him but he keeps having his friends round! This is really upsetting me. Help plz.
Q. i've been with boyfriend for 3 years(i'm 30 hes 38) and we live together. he's out of work and ive got a stressful job.we love and trust each other.problem is his friends.one visits daily and he sees others regularly.i see friends too but my shifts ...
A. 18 January 2007: well maybe explaining to him completely that you would like time alone with him and that may be he could see his freinds when your at work instead, instead of just saying i want time alone with you explain in detail how it makes you feel and the ... (read in full...)
How comes no one has replied to my question? What's goin on?
Q. Hi. Last week I posted few questions on the website’s other option of “just post my question without registering”. By now I still have not receive any reply. Again here are my questions. Whether registered or not and when posting questions, can ...
A. 18 January 2007: you can write long questions there isnt a limit of words, and i dont think you can write just to the agony aunts unless you choose to send them a private msg, which there for to do that youll have to click onto an agony aunts picture then you will ... (read in full...)
My friends make fun of my bf b/c he's a bit overweight and not incredibly attractive. But he's a lovely guy!
Q. i have just started dating a guy who i really like.my friends make fun of him though because he is a little overweight and not the most attractive guy.these comments that my friends are saying really hurt me because he is such a lovely guy and they ...
A. 12 January 2007: DONT TRY FORGET IT, IN A FEW MONTHS/YEARS TIME THEY WILL BE WITH SOME ONE WHO TREAT THEM LIKE DIRT BEAT THEM AND GOD KNOWS WHAT ALL BECAUSE THEY CHOSE LOOKS OVER OERSONALITITE AND THERE YOULL BE WITH HIM MAYBE AND BEI9NG TREATED LIKE A QUEEN BECAUSE ... (read in full...)
I can't climax in any position - any suggestions?
Q. In any position whatsoever i cant ever reach a climax, can someone give me some advise...
A. 12 January 2007: some times it is the fact that you are doing it with some one that you are not use to there for you dont find it easy to relax around. maybe getting in a long term relationship then trying sex say round about 2~4months after, that way you will be ... (read in full...)
My bf ignores my calls and stands me up. I've been told he's cheating - but when we're together it's great! Should I just move on?
Q. My boyfriend ignores my phone calls, he's always late to meet me but always comes up with a good excuse and he sometimes stands me up, i get told a lot he's cheating on me and i sometimes find texts from girls on his phone that he acts suspicious ...
A. 5 January 2007: your only young and it does seem as though he is cheating on you, the way he is. so you shouldnt be asking a silly question like this just move on youll have more boyfreinds to come in the future!... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and pregnant! My bf wants to keep the baby, but I don't know if I'm ready.
Q. Me and my boyfriend have only been together for 4 months and im 16 and pregnet! I dont no if im ready to have a baby but he rele wants one he is 18 and has lived his teen life and mine has just started but i no that i want to be with him but im ...
A. 5 January 2007: he hasnt lived his teen life yet it isnt over yet for him. you become a young adult at 21 so i heard. maybe have a deep discussion about it, and going through all the options like adoption, abortion, see weather that changes his mind. but this isnt ... (read in full...)
His gf cheated on him twice and I like her bf. I'm friends with them both, so should I say something to him?
Q. I've been friends with this guy and we hang out every single day. He has a girlfriend that lives in austin and I know things about her bc she tells me. She ended up cheating on him twice. And I feel stuck in the middle bc I don't know whether to ...
A. 5 January 2007: honesty is always the key to everything sucessfull in life. and the truth always comes out, now if he is to find out and he knows that you knew how is he going to feel towards you then?. you could ask him not to tell her you told him may be he wont ... (read in full...)
He broke up w/ me and I feel he still cares but is too proud to admit his mistake. Can I get him back?
Q. Bf and i split 8 mths ago. I was devastated. We're still very close. Slept with him in aug and dec. He bought my shopping over when ill 3wks ago. He came for dinner on 1st jan. I hoped he'd stay. He didn't. He left my place of wk yest. We never said ...
A. 5 January 2007: im sorry to say this but it is the truth that you need to hear. by the sounds of it the only thing he has for you is sexuall attraction, he sounds like the kind of person who realised he didnt want to settle down nor commitment, and now he just ... (read in full...)
My husband and stepson have physically abused me. I want to leave, but fear hurting the children we have together. And where would I stand financially?
Q. I have been married for 17rs and have suffered some physical abuse from my husband and from my stepson, whom my husband stuck up for. We no longer have any common interests and i need the courage to leave but am frightened to lose everything. We ...
A. 5 January 2007: well do you have a job? if you dont mind telling me. and is that a job a good wage? how old are your children and is it a brought house?. if your children are under 18 and it is a brought house then you get to keep the house untill your child ... (read in full...)
My bf broke up with me out of the blue! What should I do?
Q. my boyfriend borke up with me on new years eve via sms, one minute he sends me I love you, the next we should break up, we havent spoken face to face yet, I dont understand why he broke up with me, there was no signs nor fights! What shall I do?...
A. 5 January 2007: he must be a very weak person to do it over sms, and well all us girls need a strong man, i say forget him get out there and enjoy your self keep your self busy and move on time's a great healer. he is not worthy of your thoughts nor your careing ... (read in full...)
He's my boyfriend but he's not....how do we work things out??
Q. I dread being alone. My boyfriend who is not my boyfriend the same way as was real seem to think there's a real possibility we could get back together as a couple, though he's been seeing another girl "occassionally." But in the mean time, ho...
A. 5 January 2007: its ok any time any days.xx... (read in full...)
He's 30-I'm 17. Is the age difference a big factor here? And he does this weird thing with his eyes..what is it?
Q. Well, i am 17 years old. I met a guy at college and we get along really well. I like him alot but he is 30. I sometimes think the way he acts around me that he might like me but im not sure. He smiles alot when he is around me and if he sees me in ...
A. 5 January 2007: just build your courage up and start off by asking him for his number if you receive it well if its a mobile text him first if you get a reply then you reply with asking him if there is any possibilitie you 2 could meet up privately. if he says yes ... (read in full...)
We broke up and became good friends, and now I want him back as a bf!
Q. please help me i went out with this boy and he is the whole package but then i broke up with him because we neva saw each other but now i have figured out that im in love with him and want to go back out with him but if i ask him it might ruin our ...
A. 5 January 2007: well maybe if you havent already explaining to him why you broke up with him then seeing what he says, if you have well obvously he wont do nothing about it so the question you have to really ask is do you think you could be with some one you ardly ... (read in full...)
My ex said he thinks of me and misses me, too. Does this mean something?
Q. Okay, I have written on here about my ex who broke up with me suddenly after 9 months stating that he couldn't see spending the rest of his life with me. Well, I finally have left him alone. Except, on Sunday I texted him just asking to pick up ...
A. 5 January 2007: well if he cant see a future with you i would say theres a lot of negativity in your ralationship so there for pointless in even thinking about you 2 getting back together. remain freinds, and nothing more.... (read in full...)
How do you flirt without looking desperate?
Q. How do you flirt with a guy without looking desperate? I really like a guy and want to show im interested but im not very experienced and dont want to scare him off because I really like him!! thanks!!...
A. 5 January 2007: well just get to know him for a while first find out what hes like if you still like him then simply ask for his number, if theres male freind you both know when your all together give him a hug and a kiss on the cheek say hi then chat and dont give ... (read in full...)
Is sweating part of puberty?
Q. is sweating related to puberty? if it is then does that mean that i will grow out of it?...
A. 5 January 2007: ye it is, you wont grow out of it but just carry deodrant around in you bag with you, and spray it on mornings if it is from the pits, also try takeing showers/baths every night or morning or even both,... (read in full...)
I can't stop flirting with the girl at work, but I'm happily married! What do I do?
Q. Ive been working in my new place for about 18 months now. My department is great and we all seem to get on. Im happily married and there is a younger girl in our department and things have gone where they shouldnt have. I like her and get on ...
A. 5 January 2007: love ummm? love is a totally different thing you would never dream of hurting loved one's and i garantee shell be preety hurt if she knew. also in wedding vows isnt it to love and honor through sickness and in health, your not doing known of that ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with two boys!
Q. What do you do when you fall in love with two boys? please help me...I fell in love or I love two boys! Can that even happen? I'm 17 I really love my ex boyfriend but I'm not with him anymore(long story) and know I have a new boyfriend and I real...
A. 4 January 2007: the thing is you may love 2 people because you are still not fully over your ex which soon enough you will be. so for now try consontrateing just on what you have with your new boyfreind and not what you had with the ex, you do need to look towards ... (read in full...)
He takes forever to come, am I doing it wrong?
Q. am i doing somthing wrong? everytime i give head (which has only been 5 times in my life) how come it has taken ages! for my BF to cum???...
A. 4 January 2007: well some times it is normally the reason of not being with that person very long and not knowing what their use to which beleive it can take a while to get what their use to and how they like it.or if not that well it may be lack of expereince i ... (read in full...)
I think she is still having sex with her ex, it makes me sick!
Q. i have gone out with this girl for about a month or two and we realy care about eachother very much but i still think about her and her ex boy friend having sex and what they done when i really shouldnt think about that because its just weird but ...
A. 4 January 2007: i once went through that not so long back im in a 18months ralationship now with a guy 21years older than my self he was with his ex 21years, a few months back all i could think of was them 2 haveing sex. but gradually i realised past is past sod it ... (read in full...)
I can't stop thinking about my ex, I think I'm obsessed, help!
Q. i cant get over my ex!im 18 and hes 25. and its been 6 weeks! even when im out with my friends i try my best not to think about him but i cant help it! i cant but think how much i wana be with him! when we were together it was amazing! and now its ...
A. 4 January 2007: no your not obssessed its normally happens to many people when they split up, all you can do is may be get a new hobby like e.g if you like painting then paint, writting then poetry thats how i started my poetry, think of thins you like to do and do ... (read in full...)
We found out we like each other through friends, but now things are awkward between us!
Q. hi i fancy this boy and he fancies me too cos both our mates got it out of us that we like eachother. anyway today was the first time i saw him since we both found out we fancy eachother. and now its very akward between us and we dont talk! w...
A. 18 December 2006: well obvously both of you are very shy people. may be just saying hello next time you see him to see if he replys if he doesnt then you can say theres no need to ignore me i ent done nothing wrong he may reply then. if he does reply then ask him how ... (read in full...)
All these feelings from a past relationship, keep interfering with my new relationship! What can I do?
Q. my ex is with one of my mates now, and all though i dont won't him back cause he's a bad person, i still get horrible feelings towards her and stil think about him and its intefering with my new relation ship will this ever end?...
A. 18 December 2006: yes it will. it just takes time getting use to him actually being your freind. what this is is jealousy u may not want to admit it but it is and some times you can get that jealous over silly things and things you dont even want and thats what you ... (read in full...)
Her bf is away a lot and I slept with her! I don't know what to do...any advice?
Q. i have really let myself down, i dont know what to do, i have a friend, whos bf is away alot and i have just been dumped. we got close and i ended up sleeping with her after a night out, i really like her and she does me, but it is hurting both me ...
A. 18 December 2006: are you sure she likes you and not just the attention, as her boyfreind does work away alot so she ardly has attention of any one and she may get the attention she desprately been craveing for from you! but if she is not happy with her boyfreind and ... (read in full...)
Friendshp or love?
Q. How do I know if I want to be in a relationship with someone I've been friends with for nearly 3 years? We get on really well and there definitely is a chemistry between us but I'm not sure if my feelings for him are strong enough. He has told me ...
A. 18 December 2006: well compare the feelings you have with him to your other freinds if its the same then purely freindship, if you feel something more then obvously something more. try writting it down on a peace of paper pick 1 freind and him then say what you like ... (read in full...)
Should I ask him out-with all the stuff goin' on in his life?
Q. I have really liked this man at work for the past year, this week will be my last before I move due to a promotion. I was all set to tell how I feel but while out for our office party on friday night we really talked which was great but it ...
A. 18 December 2006: maybe asking him if he would like to go for a drink with you after work 1 night and just showing him you are there to help him. explain to him if he ever needs to talk about anything youll always be there! that way youve shown him suport and that ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to go out with a guy younger than me?
Q. im a girl and i like a guy who is younger than me, most people say its wrong to go out with guys who are younger than you and im worried what people will say. should i just forget him or is this acceptable?...
A. 12 December 2006: you like the guy go 4 it. older or younger what does it matter age is just a number. my mate is 26 her feller is 19 they have been together 3years have just had a baby and are due to get married.... (read in full...)
We're both 13 and we've had protected sex. I'm scared of pregnancy and STD's though. Any advice?
Q. im 13 should i have protected sex with my bf and we both luv each other i mean its been 3 months he is 13 and we r both ready for anything im just scared ill get pregnant or will get stds...
A. 12 December 2006: all though your 13 and i really shouldnt be saying this and before i do i will say wait untill another 3 years but if you wont listen then please listen to this use a comdom that way no way in hell can you get std's nor get pregnant.... (read in full...)
He's 30-I'm 17. Is the age difference a big factor here? And he does this weird thing with his eyes..what is it?
Q. Well, i am 17 years old. I met a guy at college and we get along really well. I like him alot but he is 30. I sometimes think the way he acts around me that he might like me but im not sure. He smiles alot when he is around me and if he sees me in ...
A. 12 December 2006: im with soem one 21years older than me his 40 im 19 he also has the same thing with his eyes it is through to nerves, my fellers nick name is actually twitchy lol. but you do get use to it, it isnt nesasarrely drugs unless you know his takeing them ... (read in full...)
Do you have thoughts of the first person who took your virginity?
Q. Okay this is more of a psychology question... My two cousins and I feel the same about this situaion. We all have lost our virginities and are dating other guys, but we all still have thoughts about our firsts. Is that normal? Is it a psychology ...
A. 12 December 2006: lol your not nuts it is preety normall i still have thought of my first luke his name was, man i still miss him. that was 5years ago. but time moves on. preety normall yes.... (read in full...)
I hardly see my live-in gf anymore - when I asked her to spend more time at home, she said no!
Q. I have asked my live in gf to spend more time at home so we can spend time together but she seems unwilling. She said she is going to hang out with her friends once a week and if it makes me mad than shes sorry. she has two jobs so between them ...
A. 12 December 2006: well considering this girl is doing 2 jobs thats a lot of energy took out of her. and well she may like seeing her freinds as they cheer her up after a hards day work. what i think is if she cant spend more time with you due to the 2jobs, and you ... (read in full...)
Two months ago he was talking of marriage, but now says he can't see me in his future! How do I cope?
Q. Having a hard time coping. My boyfriend of almost a year broke it off with me. This came as a shock. At first he said that we may get back together. He just couldn't picture spending the rest of his life with me, and he needed time to think. ...
A. 12 December 2006: well i am sorry to say but heres the options rather 1)he was tryin gto force him self in to being with you but ended up faceing the fact that he just cant, or 2) men are very fusy people and never know what they want like woman too, and ther for ... (read in full...)
Can a guy possibly be too shy to make a little move like messaging mr first? What's going on?
Q. Im always the one who messages or contacts him, but his the one who suggested we hang out one day. Can a guy possibly be to shy to make a little move like a msg? What's going on? xx...
A. 12 December 2006: to be honest i think hes got use to you always messaging him first which is why he hangs about waiting. i dont think his shy if he asks to hang out 1 day. he probaly thinks i wont message her because shell be doing that in a bit so ill just wait for ... (read in full...)
What's a good present to give someone who has everything?
Q. xmas present? i've been with my boyfriend for about a year, actually a little over, and i am trying to find something amazing to give him. but he has everything he needs, hes up to date on the latest gizmos and gadgets, so id end up giving him so...
A. 12 December 2006: well my nephew has everything to so this year because i cant think of what to get him that he hasnt already got i put some money in the card instead, that way he can choose what he wants with that money. instead of me thinking my little brain off.... (read in full...)
He texted another girl that he wanted to be bad! Should I dump him?
Q. My boyfriend always locks his cell phone in his truck and one day he brought it in so i looked in it and he had sent sum emails to another girl saying he wanted to be bad and what did she think of that? and now i dont know what to think of that. ...
A. 12 December 2006: well if he sent an email like that to some one, the question you really need to ask is as he had the time to actually be bad to some one? if so then imagine how many times hes done it. if he hasnt then maybe its just stupid meaningless emails. why ... (read in full...)
I'm nearly 16 and he's 22, is that too much of a gap?
Q. I like this 22 year old man and i am turning 16 soon.. is that too much of an age difference and how do i explain it to my parents?...
A. 9 December 2006: no dont be silly is 21years to much of an age gap no it is not cus im happy. just simply tell your parents nothing untill theyve met him and talked to him and you know they like him. also before they meet him tell your b,freind that you havent told ... (read in full...)
To parents out there--would you put your 16 year old daughter on the pill?
Q. would you put your 16yr old daughter on the pil...
A. 9 December 2006: obvously havent got a 16year old daughter as im only 19. but yes i would rather be safe than sorry. and if she suffers with horrible period pains or heavy periods it may help with that too.... (read in full...)
I'm a bi male, age 23-would a committed relationship with a woman, work out for me?
Q. Is it possible for a 23 year old guy who has professed to be bi (has been with 7 women and 9 guys) survive in a committed monogamous relationship with a woman (which he started)? Should I be worried? Please post your comments!...
A. 9 December 2006: it is possible that people bi gay or staright sleep around and that because they havent met any one to settle down with, my man for e.g hes slept with a fare few people and he use to drink alot and smoke when he met me he quite smokeing hates ... (read in full...)
How do I get the bullying to stop?! I'm so fed up!!
Q. i'm being bullied in school and i'm fed up of it i get in trouble from things i didn't do and its really getting to me i don't know how to stop the bullying i want to stop them i've told my mum and she's like had a complain with the school but its ...
A. 9 December 2006: inform the police their soon stop then bet you. tell your mom its still going on and you feel like playing truant but you dont want to because you dont want to disapoint her but you want to inform the police. or you want to change schools. if i ... (read in full...)
What should I get my bf for our first Christmas together?
Q. I want to get my boyfriend a gift for Christmas and I want it to be special because this is our first Christmas together. We have been dating for about 4 months and I don't know what to get him. I need help, what do you suggest?...
A. 9 December 2006: ask him in a conversation just say if you could wish to have something what would it be? then he will reply what he wants and if you can afford it get it him. ... (read in full...)
He's my boyfriend but he's not....how do we work things out??
Q. I dread being alone. My boyfriend who is not my boyfriend the same way as was real seem to think there's a real possibility we could get back together as a couple, though he's been seeing another girl "occassionally." But in the mean time, ho...
A. 13 October 2006: well if you have any chance of getting back together first you are to work on communication that is the key to sucesful ralationships, so maybe you could try by explaining to him how you feel, and how you want to know whats going on! when ... (read in full...)
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