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what do guys like in girls..tall, slim, blonde or short, petite, curvy, brunette??

Q.   hi... im a teenager and wanna know, y would teenage guys want a tall, thin blonde girl to go out with? Wouldnt they prefer someone who is shorter than them? Cos my boy mates all always say "oh theres this really fit girl, she's tall and ...

A.   23 September 2006: GUYS SUCK - REMEMBER THAT. THEY ONLY WANT ONE THING FROM US WOMEN. DON'T GIVE IN TO THEM AND THEN THEY WILL RESPECT YOU.... (read in full...)

I used a condom on a one night stand, but it was a bit of a shambles. I had a negative pregnancy test, but could I still be pregnant?

Q.   i had a drunken one night stand about 2 weeks b4 my period was due...we used condoms, but it was a bit of a shambles because the guy was pretty impotant. so therefore he kept slipping out and the condom slipped around a bit but as far as i know it ...

A.   23 September 2006: I don't want to be rude but I think one night stands are pretty pathetic and a waste of time in general. Sex should only be between two people whom are in love.... (read in full...)

I saw my friend's boyfriend with another woman. Should I tell my friend? It was obvious they were very intimate.

Q.   I travel a lot for business. I was out of town recently and saw a friend's boyfriend with another woman. They didn't see me (it was a dark, hotel bar). I doubt the other woman was a business associate or casual friend. It was very obvious that...

A.   23 September 2006: I believe that honesty is best policy and if you keep this from your friend you may regret it later. I agree with Toria - that you should confront the boyfriend first and he should tell her first but if he refuses then you should go ahead and tell ... (read in full...)

How do you know if someone is using you?

Q.   How do you know if someone is using you?...

A.   23 September 2006: It does really depend on the situation. Explain more. Do you think you are being used by someone close to you? Girlfriend/Boyfriend, a relative, friend, etc.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend wants to date others to see if I am what he really wants. How am I supposed to react to that?

Q.   I am in a realationship with someone that i love with all my heart. He loves me but wants to date others to make sure I am truely what he wants. How do I react to that? any suggestions?...

A.   23 September 2006: I am going thru the exact same thing. Well, my boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me in Jan. 'cause he said he wanted to "experience" other women sexually. So, the first thing that hit on him he went home with and afterwards he said he deeply ... (read in full...)

I'm a 15 year old male and I'm attracted to my 25 year old aunt! How do I go about flirting with her..to let her know?

Q.   hi im a 15 year old boy from canada over the years ive been attracted to my aunt who is 35 she is so sexyy i want to start a relationship with her she is single and not married but i cant find a way to flirt without making it to obvious at first cuz ...

A.   23 September 2006: First of all you are 15 and second she is your aunt. You need therapy or something kid.... (read in full...)

After making love with my boyfriend, I usually cry and start thinking about my ex of 7 years. Why is this happening to me?

Q.   My boyfriend of seven years broke up with me about a year ago. I have a new boyfriend but there is a problem. After we make love I start thinking about the loss of my other relationship and get quite upset...I usually cry. I just do not understand ...

A.   23 September 2006: 7 years is a long time. It's pretty much like being married and getting divorced. My boyfriend just broke up with me about 9 months ago and we were together for 4 years. I could imagine what it's like now to get a divorce. I can't even think ... (read in full...)

Why spend so long trying to get back with someone when you dont really want them?

Q.   I just dont understand men, well one particular one anyway. Can anyone enlighten me? Why would someone spend weeks trying to get you to go back to them, being kind and doing nice things for you. Then say they want to be with you and want you...

A.   23 September 2006: I think it is a power trip and a rejection thing. Guys can't stand to be rejected and cleary if you were rejecting him, then he would do anything to get you to "want" him. Guys seem to get what they want and then never want it again. It's like ... (read in full...)

Cant understand why I suddenly feel like cheating when not with my girl ???

Q.   I have been with my girlfriend for a few months now, we are happy together and things have been going very well. She says she is inlove with me and I feel that I am inlove with her. But there is one major problem that I just cant figure out! I am ...

A.   23 September 2006: Guys are just wired differently than women. Men are always on the hunt 'cause I think it's a natural instinct for men to want to conquer what is not theirs. To taste what they have not tasted. You get it. Men seem to want more of the physical ... (read in full...)

Why does my boyfriend keep avoiding the subject of marriage? Should I find somebody else because I am not getting any younger?

Q.   i been with my bf for nearly 2 years now, he know exactly what i want. and that is to get married. i ask him one time and funny that he said he need a time. its sound hurt for me because he is supposed to be the one who ask me to marry him but its ...

A.   23 September 2006: It sounds like he does not want to get married to me. I went thru the same thing. I was with my boyfriend for 4 years and deep down I knew he did not want the same thing as me but we were in love and I didn't care as long as we were together. ... (read in full...)

Should I wait 9 months to tell the guy how I feel, or should I be saying, "hit the road Jack" and dating other guys?

Q.   Hello, Just looking for advice. Okay...so, I'm seventeen years old and a senior in high school. And I've developed some serious feelings for one of my very good guy friends, Jack. Problem is, he lives a bit far away at the moment, and the next...

A.   23 September 2006: Only you can decide what makes you happy. Don't listen to what other people say because they are not going thru the same feelings you are. Yes, you are young but who really needs boy drama. I wish I had my head on straight like you when I was ... (read in full...)

He says he misses me when we are apart. Does this mean that he is in love with me?

Q.   If a man says that he has missed me when we are apart,does that mean that he is in love with me? I have been seeing a fella for 2 years but he doesn't say the love word unless i say it 1st....

A.   23 September 2006: Explain a little further. Are you saying that you are dating a guy for 2 years and when you two are apart he says he misses you? What do you mean by apart? Broken up?... (read in full...)

How can I get the bad feelings regarding my girlfriends past to go away?

Q.   I recently broke up with a girl I was with from 22 to 26, we're both the same age, and she was the my first serious girlfriend really. I got an urge to break up as I kept getting a feeling that I missed out in my teen years as I didn't get a ...

A.   23 September 2006: Just curious, when you broke up with the person you were with between 22-26 was it on mutual terms? I just went thru a breakup. My boyfriend and I were together for 4 years. Most of it long distance. Anyways he broke up with me 'cause he said ... (read in full...)

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