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I've had anal sex for the first time and think I'm pregnant but my mom does not know this and she'a making me take a laxative, can it harm my unborn child?

Q.   Ok here goes, I've had anal sex for the first time and think I'm pregnant but my mom does not know this and she'a making me take a laxative, can it harm my unborn child?...

A.   1 April 2008: if u r pregnant from vaginal intercourse then yes a laxative will harm the baby so please do not take consult with your ob/gyn or where ever u go for prenatal care. for future reference u can not become pregnant from anal sex theres no way. talk to ... (read in full...)

I want my best friends ex bf! But she still loves him! What can I do?

Q.   Well, I have e problem...I have a bestfriend. Shes been my BFF since 6th grade. Her and her ex broke up over a year ago.. but she loved him and claims "she always will...he was her first love". Well, now I LOVE him, i dont know what to do, I love ...

A.   21 February 2008: this is there just a lil comment yes,husbands are suppose to be forever but a boyfriend hell no they come and go. these days husbands and boyfriends are neck and neck (look at divorce rate) as I said b4 and will say again if she's been your friend ... (read in full...)

I want my best friends ex bf! But she still loves him! What can I do?

Q.   Well, I have e problem...I have a bestfriend. Shes been my BFF since 6th grade. Her and her ex broke up over a year ago.. but she loved him and claims "she always will...he was her first love". Well, now I LOVE him, i dont know what to do, I love ...

A.   21 February 2008: DON'T BREAK THE CODE! YOU DO NOT GO AGAINST THE FRIENDS CODE NO MATTER THE CIRCUMSTANCES. My question is how do u call her your bff if you wanna talk,mess,f**k her man,her ex,or anyone she has ever carried on with, you just don't do that to your ... (read in full...)

Will I ever get another chance to be a mother?

Q.   When I was 21 I had to make the most difficult decision of my life, to have an abortion. Myself and my partner have been trying for a baby for over a year. Because I haven't conceived yet, we are both blaming ourselves as he suspects he maybe ...

A.   22 January 2008: yes I agree with all answers. if the abortion went ok with no complications then there no reason y u can't. I've experienced this as well and had a beautiful baby boy 3 years later. stop trying so much and just have sex for fun without the thought ... (read in full...)

This 23 year-old guy gave me my first orgasm - I'm 38 and married. Should I move out to India to be with him?

Q.   If anyone out there can help ME GET MY HEAD STRAIGHT please do. At the end of Dec 2007 I met the most lovely, handsome and charming Indian man - problem is he is 23yrs old - 15yrs younger than me and I am married,I have always been faithful to...

A.   17 January 2008: yes you are acting like a teenager. you say you never cheated on your husband and now since you got an orgasm you are ready to throw how ever long a marriage away WOW! my advice to you is f**k that don't give up on your marriage over something as ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend wants a threesome, he's willing to do it male/male/female; should I give him a male/female/female one with my sister?

Q.   my bf of 9 years wants a threesome I told him if I give him one that I want a mfm which he is fine with, he is getting his best friend cuz he say he can trust him. should I give him a fmf with my sister? if anyone has tried this what should I ...

A.   6 December 2007: it will be a one time thing for me. as for my bf he prolly would like to once a month or so but thats not gonna happen. no I don't find his best friend sexually attractive. I asked my bf and sister both if they found each other sexually attractive ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend wants a threesome, he's willing to do it male/male/female; should I give him a male/female/female one with my sister?

Q.   my bf of 9 years wants a threesome I told him if I give him one that I want a mfm which he is fine with, he is getting his best friend cuz he say he can trust him. should I give him a fmf with my sister? if anyone has tried this what should I ...

A.   2 December 2007: I wanted to thank you all for your help. I did go through with it I can say that I did have fun it full of bs though cuz he payed her a lil bit more attention then we wasn't suppose to do anything dat we do together u kno certain things, but he did ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend wants a threesome, he's willing to do it male/male/female; should I give him a male/female/female one with my sister?

Q.   my bf of 9 years wants a threesome I told him if I give him one that I want a mfm which he is fine with, he is getting his best friend cuz he say he can trust him. should I give him a fmf with my sister? if anyone has tried this what should I ...

A.   30 November 2007: anonymous - with my bf and his best friend it will only be vagina/oral no anus action my bf suggested that I go first or do both same day but I don't know if I want to thats a bit much but to be honest I prolly would rather do his first to work up ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend wants a threesome, he's willing to do it male/male/female; should I give him a male/female/female one with my sister?

Q.   my bf of 9 years wants a threesome I told him if I give him one that I want a mfm which he is fine with, he is getting his best friend cuz he say he can trust him. should I give him a fmf with my sister? if anyone has tried this what should I ...

A.   27 November 2007: to answer some questions it was my idea to ask my sister she seem to be ok with it because a fmf is her fantasy and she would be able to try it out first with someone she trust. I wanna try it but don't want a negative outcome I prolly would not ... (read in full...)

Will I trust again?

Q.   I have just found out that my finance that I have been with for over 12 years has been cheating on me for about 1 month. I found out when I received the cell phone bill and this odd number was all over the bill. He denied it so then I really ...

A.   23 November 2007: I agree I've been there I've come to realize that its life, bad stuff happens people make mistakes sometimes more than once (male or female) u both just need to talk about it and if U is where he wanna be than u both will have to work at it and ... (read in full...)

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