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Upsetting breakup. then the silent treatment. Is she putting up emotional barriers just to push me away?

Q.   So my ex broke up with me 3 months ago after I broke her heart by writing a goodbye message to her and ignoring her for two weeks, then showing up like nothing happened. (I was angry at her for a number of reasons, which I should have talked to her ...

A.   22 December 2012: Leave your ex alone. You've already broken up with her. You ended it. It's over. Quit harassing her and move on and grow up some.... (read in full...)

My LDR seems sweet and gentle. I'm a virgin. Last night I found out he's into sadistic/masochistic sex. How do I deal with this?

Q.   I'm going to try and keep this as brief as possible. Last night I learned that my long-distance boyfriend is into sadistic/masochistic sex. I'm really surprised, because he's a really sweet and gentle guy. I'm a virgin, with zero sexual activit...

A.   22 December 2012: You could try finding a "SDR" (short distance relationship, a.k.a conventional relationship) with someone who shares your sexual interests and with whom you have an emiotional connection. Remember: there are over 7 billion people on earth.... (read in full...)

The Classic Love Triangle

Q.   Compared to some of the other situations I have read about on here this may sound trivial, but I feel the need to get an outsider's understanding on the situation. Recently I started hanging out with a new group of friends. One of my friends intro...

A.   22 December 2012: Sounds like he's mad because he's had all this time to make his move, but didn't, and now you've come along and are hitting it off with his love interest. That's a shame, but that's his problem, not yours.. Don't live your live waiting for others ... (read in full...)

We work in the same building. She initiated the conversation. Could there be a chance that she's interested in me?

Q.   I work in quite a large organisation in a big office building. For the past 3 days I have walked from the car park into the building behind the same girl. This has been purely coincidental however I won't complain as she is very beautiful. Tod...

A.   22 December 2012: Don't read more into a situation than there is. If she's actually interested in you beyond small talk, she'll let you know. Or not. But don't assume a hello and little joke means you've bagged your future wife. Seriously.... (read in full...)

What do I do? Who do I choose? Please help!

Q.   I have a dating problem. I'm 16 years old and I've been dating this guy and have been for 7 months. The problem is that I like another guy who lives on the block down from me. We've known each other for seven years and I've liked him for quite ...

A.   22 December 2012: I don't understand what your choice is...you either stay with the guy you don't like, or you move on. How does this friend of yours factor in, if he has a girlfriend? Did he say he'd break p with her to be with you? If not, find someone who you can ... (read in full...)

I laughed when he said he loved me - even though I love him too.

Q.   ok so I have been talking to a really good guy friend of mine of late and we are really close. we joke about everything and flirt all the time and last night whilst he was drunk he told me that he was serious about loving me. today I asked if he ...

A.   22 December 2012: If you like him, why you you wait to tell him? What do you gain by keeping quiet about your feelings?... (read in full...)

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