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I really want to have sex, but I don't want to rush into things!

Q.   I've been going out with this guy a month now, and he's the best thing that has ever happened to me. he is lovely, caring and he is just a sweetheart. to celebrate our 1 month anniversary, we gave each hand jobs. it was great! but now i real...

A.   30 November 2010: Sure, there are many ways to keep that romance alive! I had manyy boyfriends in high school and still kept my 'v-card' until i was 19. The longer you wait for something, the more special it will be. When i was your age i dated someone for 6 mo... (read in full...)

I have secretly been in love with my best friend's husband for 20 years.

Q.   I have secretly been in love with my best friend's husband for 20 years. I have never told anyone this and I have never acted upon my feelings. Recently I felt that he may have feelings for me too! He hasn't directly told me so or made a pass at me ...

A.   30 November 2010: There are some things that you just simply must let go. I am sure you have already realized and asked yourself this question "How would I Feel if i were in my best friends shoes". Obviously you would think that your best friend was not your frie... (read in full...)

My wife won't have sex with me any more...

Q.   No sex anymore My wife and I are in our early 60's and we are on really good terms but for some reason she will not indulge in any sexual activity with me. This has been going on for several years now and I am becoming more and more frustrated ...

A.   30 November 2010: It's a shame that this passion has been lost in your relationship. Being a female, i know that with age, our bodies change. She may not feel confident like she used to. I know that i sometimes do not want to have sex with my boyfriend because i ... (read in full...)

I am not satisfied with my wife...

Q.   hi i am 34 years of age married man from amravati, india. we have been together since 3 years. Why i dont know i am not happy with my married life. I alway think some thing is missing in my life. My wife doesn't understand my feeling and my fantasy ...

A.   30 November 2010: This is difficult to respond to. If she is not comfortable doing things sexually, I do not think you should push her into doing anything. Try to find joys in other things. I assume that this was an arranged marriage? If so, I think you need to ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend likes to make me jealous to make himself feel better

Q.   I am 22-years-old and I'm in a relatively new relationship with a guy. We are going on 4 months together, and we've already said "I love you" to each other and I really feel like it's true. My question is about his possesiveness. The other day I ...

A.   22 November 2010: you brought this on yourself. It's called respect, not trust. If you 'love' this guy then you wouldn't go to a club where guys would be looking at you when he could not go. Yes you didn't dance with anyone or do anything with anyone but you did ... (read in full...)

Where is the best place to look for a "decent" guy?

Q.   Hi guys I would like some advice please. Every guy I am interested in, sadly has a colorful past. Way too much for my taste. I have tried different environents even at church! And those men still have secrets that you can't imagine! Anyway, I ...

A.   20 November 2010: try the internet. Their are many online dating sites where you are matched with people who match your interests. It may seem odd to do this, but i have been in a great relationship with my girlfriend for a year and a half now. We met online.... (read in full...)

It takes a long time for me to ejaculate, is this normal?

Q.   hi i m man 25yrs old i have strange situation here often when i start sex with my gf i have 1st sperm shoot fast 10 min 2end i take so long time 1 hour or more is that normal i m worry sometimes when i have shoot my penis still stand should i go ...

A.   20 November 2010: My friend, you say you're from the U.K. where the national language is English, which you seem to have little grasp of. But as to your question, you're fine, if you are masturbating before hand and/or regularly your situation is perfectly normal. ... (read in full...)

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