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Disagreeable neighbour who is now being disrespectful to my daughter. How do I keep the peace and endure this nasty neighbor?

Q.   hi everyone,i need some help here,i have been neighbours with this women from 2007 and her husband is my husbands friend. in 2009 i saw her husband. I greeted him. He ignored me. This happened several times. I asked my husband about it ,he said he ...

A.   3 September 2012: try to tell your daughter not to greet with them anymore they are not good people etc ..... (read in full...)

Why did he play me like this?

Q.   'Hate' is a strong word but right I 'hate' my life..I don't know from where to begin my hands are shivering as I type this.. I met this wonder guy about a year ago at a french class I was taking,over the weeks we grew closer to each other he asked...

A.   30 August 2012: what you can do for your good future is to completely forget about him and the things that relates with him .. things that reminds you about him or what he'd done with you ! just cut that part from your life that you've met that guy spent your time... (read in full...)

What does it mean when a friend tease and then say he is just kidding?

Q.   I have a friend for almost two years now. We have a good friendship and we trust eachother alot. He is just the one but I never had the courage to tell him. The problem is that I can not understand what goes with his mind. We have strayed twice ...

A.   11 August 2012: see... here is an example .. A guy wants a girl .. they r good friends .. guy wants to change their friendship in relationship .. he always looks for the reasons when he can propose that girl .. like when the girl is emotional or happy .. he... (read in full...)

A year after our break up he wants me back. Did I do the right thing by ending our relationship?

Q.   Hi there. I was in a live-in relationship with a guy. I loved him more than my life. I would help him in every possible way. He said that he loved me a lot and it seemed so,too but we had lots of fights over his drinking ( daily), smoking weed and ...

A.   10 August 2012: you were right dear .. don't worry .. :) forget about him :)... (read in full...)

What does it mean when a friend tease and then say he is just kidding?

Q.   I have a friend for almost two years now. We have a good friendship and we trust eachother alot. He is just the one but I never had the courage to tell him. The problem is that I can not understand what goes with his mind. We have strayed twice ...

A.   10 August 2012: yes he is interested in you .. and he is checking if you are also interested in him or not .. but if you are serious to spend life then forget about him .. coz this kind of guys are not for one girl ! but if u just want a relation/BF then yes u ca... (read in full...)

I want to move our LDR toward marriage ...

Q.   Hi aunty, im in a long distance relationship now. for a year. and we knew for two years he loves me and i love him too, its just the situtaion so difficult hes so frustrated about our distance that were far away from each other, the situation is im ...

A.   10 August 2012: while reading this I was thinking of my ldr gf .. ;) I thought that the question is asked by her.. in every line .. same what she thinks of me .. well.. you just need to confirm that he is interested in marriage or not ? maybe he is just interes... (read in full...)

Does talking about sex make me a slut?

Q.   Hey guys...I had been dating a guy for the past one year. We broke up. I did not sleep with him but we talked about sex and even had orgasms while talking about sex. Will he tell his friends about it? Am I a slut?...

A.   10 August 2012: No You're NOT !! usually all couples talk about these things .. and if he'll tell his friends bad things about you .. this doesn't mean that you are **** neglact that ... u'd not done dis .. ;) if anyone aks you say tha he is lying.. NOT... (read in full...)

Long term friends. We had sex. Now it's changed the relationship. Has he now lost interest in me?

Q.   Hi. Recently my best friend of 6 years and I had sex. It wasn't a complete surprise because the attraction has always been there and we always talked about it. Well now that it's finally happened, we both enjoyed it very much and when it came...

A.   4 August 2012: then try to talk about anything except "sex" .. if you feel things r as usual .. you'll be happy ..... (read in full...)

He is seven years older and treats me like trash!

Q.   Should I leave him? Im a 24 yr old woman I have been with my boyfriend for about 6 yrs now things havent been perfect i must admit we have gone through a lot, and it seemed all is behind, we have a 1 yr old daughter and she is my world, main rea...

A.   4 August 2012: leave him with his porn .. this will be better for you and your daughter too .. :)... (read in full...)

A misunderstanding between us has got out of control. Was it the way I acted? Or is money another issue here?

Q.   I met my bf 2 days ago. As it was already evening we decided to go to a supermarket and go back home. I bought some chocolates and he just picked some $1 battery so I paid them with my things. While we were leaving he started his bike and as I wa...

A.   4 August 2012: well done .. he is using you for completing his financial needs .. don't be a silly little girl.. its too shameless for a guy to borrow money for his college fees from her gf .. but he doesn't feel any shame .. you must leave him ! just try one ... (read in full...)

I can't say "I love you" out loud!

Q.   I have been with my bf for a year, and I havent said ' i love you' ITs now becoming an issue...and he seems to be getting upset by it. What should I do. I just dont feel the need to say it, never said it before to a man, I just show love by...

A.   3 August 2012: Try another guy ..... you'll find one to whom you can say "i love u" ;)... (read in full...)

I want to be good friends with my brother-in-law, how do I express this?

Q.   u may think it may wrong , im 29 years old and i got married ihave a kid, my question is about my relationship with my brother inlaw who is elder brother of my husband he is really a nice man who 'slikes and dislikes are as like as me, we are same ...

A.   3 August 2012: Don't think about it ! Try to find this interest in your husband ! if u can't stop to think about him now then How will you control yourself to be not ruin your and his relation with your husband and ur b_in_law's wife ??... (read in full...)

I booked to see him 5 months in advance, and now he tells me he will be working most of the time!

Q.   what would you do if after planning to meet up/ visit your boyfriend hoping that he will make the time to be with you for the two weeks off that u took from work, he tells you he will be working and that he has got the long weekend to be with ...

A.   3 August 2012: long distance relations r usually just for timepass.. don't be serious for dis kind of guy who could not find a girl near his place ..... or maybe he'd found ... but still hes wid u .. leave him and find one near you !... (read in full...)

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