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I am an easy going bloke with a good sense of humor and a lot of life experiance to share with the rest of the world. Been in and out of relationships for the last four and a half years with a lot of different twists and turns. I have been the one that has broke off the relationships, the one that has been told to take a break and also been cheated on and have learnt a lot especially in my earlier years. Single now but just secretly, still trying to find the girl of my life (don't tell anyone!) and have come to this site for a bit of advice giving and advice taking.

Crush on my boss at work...

Q.   I have been working at a new job for a few months now and since day one of my interview I've had a major crush on my boss. He's about 15-20 years older then me but I cant help but find him attractive. He has a lot of charisma and is passionate about ...

A.   10 October 2009: Well it's really up to you on what you really want to do but do please look at a few aspects.. Are you single too? If you do something with him, is it going to be casual as well or something more? How's it going to affect your work aswell? ... (read in full...)

Could this tale be the beginning of something even greater?

Q.   Yeah so had this real good friend of mine for 4 years and we have always shown affection to one another, yet never have done anything about it. We are at the stage of our friendship where we are both real comfortable with each other and tell each ...

A.   10 October 2009: Ha ha, thanks but I think it gets a little bit more complicated than that. Cheers for the reply.... (read in full...)

He says I'm amazing, but doesn't show it. Does he really like me?

Q.   hey guys! im 20 years old. I've been talking to this boy for like 3 months now, he's perfect, sweet, and stoburn there's times we fight a lot but we make up right after I have never felt so right in my life....problem is that he only says that he ...

A.   9 October 2009: If a guy says something like "I want you" and especially in a flirtacious overtone then yes he does want you. I definitely wouldn't say someone is amazing or that I adore them unless I knew there could be some chemistry between the both of us. Maybe ... (read in full...)

Does he really like me?

Q.   ok i liked this boy and he liked me and we were flirting now we sit in diffrent seats in class and we cant really talk that much anymore but we still talk though my friend says he look at me and i know he does how do i tell if he likes me. does he ...

A.   9 October 2009: Given all signs and the fact you said that he liked you, I'd say yes he does. Back when I was around your age, the only way I could really show a girl that I liked her from being shy was to look at her all the time in class and try to sit near the ... (read in full...)

At what age can a girl get pregnant?

Q.   at what age a girl can get pregnant?...

A.   9 October 2009: From the age a girl becomes sexually active and has a sexually active partner as well. This can happen as early as the age of 12 or 13 as a lot of third-world countries do have children giving birth at this age. I really do not recommend having ... (read in full...)

How can she accuse me of being clingy when we rarely see one another?

Q.   Ive been going out with a girl for about 1 and a half months, not that long, but we have been friends before this and it seems recently that she just doesn't take me seriously at all. This started about the time we hit 1 month, she acts as if m...

A.   9 October 2009: When I was around your age I did the exact same similar things. Do you call or text her more than 5 or 6 times a week? do you show that the only thing that matters in your life right now is her? these are things you might think are healthy for a ... (read in full...)

How do I find a girlfriend without having to go out?

Q.   I'm at university and hate "going out". I seriously hate it, but I do it anyway so that people don't think I'm a hermit. I was at a big party, and our group split up all around the club. I felt retarded since I hate clubs and paid to get in, so I ...

A.   9 October 2009: This sort of thing can happen anytime. Don't just look at yourself and blame just yourself for her not texting you.. many things could have come into the equation. Maybe she has just gotten together back with an old boyfriend? maybe something has ... (read in full...)

Is this a sign of possessiveness?

Q.   Hi, I've been out with this guy about 10 times. However, I wouldn't consider us to be "in a relationship" yet. Well, I just recently got out of a physically mentally and emotionally abusive relationship, so I'm really sensitive about things. Wh...

A.   9 October 2009: Honestly, I would say it really isn't anything to be worried about. I say "my girls" and "my ladies" to my friends that are females all the time. They know I don't actually mean they are mine and such, it's just a figure of speech. If anything, it ... (read in full...)

Are watery eyes while giving a blowjob a turn off?

Q.   Is it a turn off if a girl's eyes are super watery after/during a blowjob? I'm excited because I finally got the hang of deep throating and I can fit my boyfriend's entire dick now. And don't worry, I wasn't forced to learn or anything; my ...

A.   8 October 2009: Haha certainly not a turn off. Any guy would be happy knowing he is getting a headjob in the first place! You know, even for some guys, it could be a major turn on knowing that you are trying that hard to give him head in the first place. Don't ... (read in full...)

I still miss my first love after 2 years... is this normal? How can I fix it?

Q.   Drunkenly I've looked at an old girlfriends profile over facebook. We've not spoken for about a year and half and separated over 2 years ago... yet, having read that she's in a relationship brings up strong feelings of sadness and envy. Surely af...

A.   8 October 2009: Yeah this is normal. It had taken me awhile to literally stop feeling heartbroken to a 100% level with one girl that I would say was my "first love" too. As a lot of other fellas here have said know that it ended for a reason and the fact that she ... (read in full...)

Male attention makes me timid and self conscious. How can I get past this?

Q.   What's wrong with me? Every time a guy seems interested in me I get really shy and self conscious. It's like I go from being confident and independent to completely timid. And if a guy looks at me too long I automatically blush. Also, if a guy gives ...

A.   8 October 2009: Haha, The good old days of innocence! I love it. Everyone goes through this kinda stage at one point in their life and sometimes it can take a few years to even calm it out. Don't worry about it too much. It's all about your experiances with the ... (read in full...)

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