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Did rough sex cause me to bleed abnormally, or did it jumpstart my period?

Q.   Last night I was at a guys house (we've been sleeping together on and off for over a year now) and we had a quickie; however, this time it was a bit rougher than normal. I got a text from him later that night while on my way home, with his swearing ...

A.   28 June 2011: No its not your fault first off and yes he could have brought your period into activation even tho your not bleeding heavy and sometimes like you said if the sex was rough it could have caused u to spot a little and u shouldn't fill bad or dirty it ... (read in full...)

I lied to my best friend to try to help her, and it backfired!

Q.   My best friend and her boyfriend have been dating for the past 3 years. It is a really unhealthy relationship. He mentally abuses her and is very controlling and manipulative. The last year they have been through so much. Off and on. It has gotten ...

A.   28 June 2011: I think u should come clean to your friend because she knows that u told him she's not crazy she was probley trying to see if u would be honest now she probley thinks your jealous u must be 100% honest if u want a chance of saving the friendship an ... (read in full...)

What should I do? My boyfriend's sister is always bitchy towards me no matter how I try to make it work with her.

Q.   I am sick and tired of my boyfriends sister! She's a complete bitch! She is the youngest one and it just drives me crazy that we argue about her because she is constantly complaining about me and I dont know what to do anymore!? She never talks to ...

A.   28 June 2011: It sounds like shes intimidated by wat u guys have and that she may be afraid of losing her brother are maybe she's just trying you but you should continue to show respect but don't beg for her friendship because your in the relationship with her ... (read in full...)

I just need closure!

Q.   how do i get closure without talking to him? i text him but he never texts back. i am still sad but not as bad as the day it happened. i was literally in so much physical pain i just couldn't do anything but sit there and cry. now i am doing better ...

A.   27 June 2011: I totally agree with Dorothy Dix I've recently experienced the same thing an didn't realize why things happend like they did but as time passed I noticed things I would have never seen while he was still in my life so I cried my heart out cause it ... (read in full...)

I think my man is gay but not sure. What do you think?

Q.   when we first got together i just knew he was my husband sex was never an issue but everything changed when we moved n together he was super controlling we argued everyday we only had sex once a month n if i wanted more sex he would say i was ...

A.   26 June 2011: Well thanx for the advice but i really couldnt go into detail cause it was only so much i could write but i told him to leave cause every thing i did had to be perfect and he was to controlling i couldnt go no were, i couldnt work,i couldnt open the ... (read in full...)

Is my partner secretly gay? Even his mother thinks so!

Q.   I'm 30 years of age and my boyfriend is 34, we have been in a relationship for 2 years. I'm concerned that he maybe gay. The thing is my partner is a mans man someone you would never think is gay. He has a reputation as a ladies man and craves ...

A.   26 June 2011: I think hes gay how do u be in a relationship for ten years n not want to be commited in his mood swings are a big sign in it dosnt matter if his male friend is single r not how much do they go out then his mother says she thinks hes gay not good ... (read in full...)

Is there any hope for this relationship or is Gambling Addiction the real problem?

Q.   My boyfriend and I recently broke up over some confusing circumstances. Background : We had been together just over a year, I am 28 he is almost 24. After first meeting we were together practically 24/7 and we were very happy. 7 Months into the ...

A.   26 June 2011: I think that this is a classic case of i thought wrong u loved him but he cared a little an that could never work together you were very much matured than he was an not only wasn't he committed but he didn't want responsibility Im not saying he ... (read in full...)

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