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Worried about the pain of first-time sex with my boyfriend...

Q.   I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 16 and I really love him. We've been together for a while and I really want to lose my virginity to him. I'm really scared about the consequences though. I dont want to end up pregnant. I'm not on the pill and I'm not ...

A.   7 March 2006: hmmm. it depends how big he is and that will tell you how much you bleed, also the pain does go quite quickly just have a bith str8 after but only in water, getting the pill is confidential so your mum will not know. just be careful on your decision ... (read in full...)

I'm 14 and may be pregnant! What can I do?

Q.   Hi my name is Jessica im 14 and i think i might be pregnant.but i dont know im too afraid to go to a clinic and get checked out so i know for sure.I am like 4-5 days late and i dont want to tell my mom because she might like hate me and stuff.I cant ...

A.   7 March 2006: well first of all periods come at different times for different reasons, you may not of started bcoz of stress or just bcoz of hormones... its best to get checked out... the ladies in the clinic do not judge you and definatly keep it all ... (read in full...)

Girls my age think I look too young, but will I be asking for trouble to go out with a 15-year-old?

Q.   I'm 19 and I've became good friends with a girl who is 15. I know she fancies me. I really like her back and we have so much in common. We are perfect for each other. The only thing is the age difference is holding me back from asking her out. I'm ...

A.   1 January 2006: you have nothing to worry about my boyfriend in 19 and im 15 for a matter of fact and at first yeah we had the name calling and now 7 months later we are fine and nothing wrong is happened. its just like we are the same age we act as a real couple ... (read in full...)

Bored with my 5-month-old relationship. Any comments from readers?

Q.   I've been in a relationship for 5 months now and I'm kind of getting bored. I don't get those butterflies anymore. I'm an indecisive person and she knows this but she still asks me questions to something I can't choose. Then when I decide to do ...

A.   1 January 2006: every woman feels as if they aint loved and you have to show her you are more than once. but the fact that ur bored already might be because you have not put 100% into this relationship. both of you need to sit down and have a talk before this gets ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend wants to get married and we love each other a lot, but I can't help dwelling on my past mistakes!

Q.   Hi, I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year, and we went out and bought an engagement ring recently which we are both thrilled about. My problem is, I am disgusted at my past- who I have slept with, mistakes I have made, and subsequently...

A.   1 January 2006: first of all congrats on the engagement!!! what you need to do is take one last look at the past and throw it away. you have future ahead of you with this guy who loves you. you should feel ecstatic and dont let that past of yours stop you. You do ... (read in full...)

I'm not sure what to do to become more comfortable about sexual intimacy with my boyfriend...

Q.   Hi, I'm 15 and dating this really great guy. We can talk about anything and are pretty comfortable with each other. My problem is that when it comes to being 'intimate' I freak out. All we've done is make out but I think he'd like to go further ...

A.   1 January 2006: from experiance, it took 3 months before i did anything with my boyfriend except kissing because i was not ready and didnt feel right. ur body knows when your ready and you have to be careful to what you say yes to, dont rush into anything to ... (read in full...)

Will my girlfriend want to go further in our relationship?

Q.   Hi! I'm 17 and have been with my girlfriend a month now. I've never been happier. But there is one issue that I find hard to overcome. My girlfriend was told by other people at the start of our relationship how far I had been with other girls, ...

A.   1 January 2006: All i can say is dont rush her ok she will tell you when she is ready, every girl has to find her confidence in the guy she is with and her self. it ay take longer than a month if she and you feel happy right now then you have to wait and not bring ... (read in full...)

My bf admits he put his hand up her skirt..how do I handle this situation?

Q.   hi i just wanted some advice, my boyfriend admitted to putting his hand up another girls skirt a couple of months ago. i was shocked of course but don't really know how to handle the situation. we have been engaged for a year and currently live ...

A.   1 January 2006: First things first he shouldnt of done it. but then again if you think about it he admitted it to you which shows he wants your respect and he wants to be honest. he may of been going through a time where he thinks he needs a new girl but doesnt ... (read in full...)

How much is too much?

Q.   can you masturbate too much? I'm really addicted to it, and think about it all the time. And I'm only 13. Can you help me? ...

A.   1 January 2006: There is no such thing as too much but youcan figure it out as being to much if it starts to hurt in some way. just dont let it affect your social life.... (read in full...)

I got dumped after a week with my boyfriend. Now he's not sure if that was the right thing!

Q.   I started my new school in September. I love it. There's this really fit boy there. I went out with him, then after a week he dumped me. I don't know what I did wrong. I asked him why and he said I don't know why I did it. I still really fancy hi...

A.   1 January 2006: to me this guy is acting his way as if he dont know what he wants right now and he is jumoing around from wanting one girl from another. But then again he may be saying he wants you at the end of it but what you dont know is he may be saying the ... (read in full...)

An old email has made my girlfriend think I don't want her as much as I do!

Q.   My GF is great. She is the mother of my daughter and she also has one son. She was recently looking through my computer and found an e-mail that was sent to me by someone. It was very detailed and romantic. I no longer have anything to do with ...

A.   18 July 2005: first things first if you have nothing to do with that person anymore then why did you keep the email! The only way this can be worked out is in time.... You must still have something for this person or atleast feel special when you read it but ... (read in full...)

Other boys are attracted to my girlfriend, because she's so pretty and friendly. What can I do?

Q.   I and my girlfriend have known each other for a year. She is very friendly and pretty so she has many friends. I love her very much and she also love me so much too. Everything should well but I have some problems about her. Due t...

A.   18 July 2005: well i think you have no need to worry about your girlfriend, like you said you love eachother and she is very friendly which means she would not do anything to hurt you or jepridise your relationship. If you have a problem about her being close to ... (read in full...)

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