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I found out my husband has been watching gay porn!

Q.   I just found out that my husband of 13 years has been watching gay porn on our computer when I go to bed earlier than he does. I'm completely floored and haven't talked to him about it yet. We do have sex but not as much as I would like. I don't ...

A.   12 February 2008: As said before, who wants to live as a "warden?" I can not live like that. My husband in now in counceling and it is helping.....we are learning lots. Check their past. Many, but not all of these men have been abused by an older cousin, or ... (read in full...)

I found out my husband has been watching gay porn!

Q.   I just found out that my husband of 13 years has been watching gay porn on our computer when I go to bed earlier than he does. I'm completely floored and haven't talked to him about it yet. We do have sex but not as much as I would like. I don't ...

A.   20 December 2007: dear confused wife, this forum has been really helpful for me. However, I can not begin to tell you the anguish that you will go through if you don't confront him. It doesn't have to be bad, but if you do not, then everything he does, (even ... (read in full...)

I found out my husband has been watching gay porn!

Q.   I just found out that my husband of 13 years has been watching gay porn on our computer when I go to bed earlier than he does. I'm completely floored and haven't talked to him about it yet. We do have sex but not as much as I would like. I don't ...

A.   27 November 2007: thanks for all the new replys. I do want to clarify that I wasn't spying on my husband. I had gone to bed early one night, and had gotten up to see if the kids had gotten home yet and walked in on it. He tried to x out before I saw, but I saw ... (read in full...)

I found out my husband has been watching gay porn!

Q.   I just found out that my husband of 13 years has been watching gay porn on our computer when I go to bed earlier than he does. I'm completely floored and haven't talked to him about it yet. We do have sex but not as much as I would like. I don't ...

A.   19 November 2007: anyone else out there? IT's been a while since I have seen a post.... (read in full...)

I found out my husband has been watching gay porn!

Q.   I just found out that my husband of 13 years has been watching gay porn on our computer when I go to bed earlier than he does. I'm completely floored and haven't talked to him about it yet. We do have sex but not as much as I would like. I don't ...

A.   8 November 2007: things are going well here too. My husband had a complete "breakdown"- everything else in our marriage is really good. I look at all the good in it.....he is going to see a councelor today. I think there is way too much stuff wrapped up in his ... (read in full...)

I found out my husband has been watching gay porn!

Q.   I just found out that my husband of 13 years has been watching gay porn on our computer when I go to bed earlier than he does. I'm completely floored and haven't talked to him about it yet. We do have sex but not as much as I would like. I don't ...

A.   31 October 2007: what if everything else, including sex is great? ... (read in full...)

I found out my husband has been watching gay porn!

Q.   I just found out that my husband of 13 years has been watching gay porn on our computer when I go to bed earlier than he does. I'm completely floored and haven't talked to him about it yet. We do have sex but not as much as I would like. I don't ...

A.   29 October 2007: This is really frightening as your problem is the EXACT one I have. I just found out the EXACT same things. Down to the work computer, how he travels some for business, etc.... (read in full...)

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