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Broke up with my boyfriend of 2years today, and already I'm talking to another guy

Q.   I broke up with my boyfriend of 2years today, the main reason being because he was texting and flirting with this girl and I just didn't feel I could trust him anymore seen as he;s cheated about 4other times. We've ended on pretty good terms, well ...

A.   18 May 2010: That is fast. Take it slow, and don't tell him everything. I know that you're probably hurting right now and could use someone to talk to, but he's not the one to talk to about it. Slow and easy is the best. Fast and firey starts, make for fast... (read in full...)

33 year-old male virgin

Q.   As a 33 year-old virgin who has never been in a relationship and has never, ever had sex how can you learn how to court a woman, flirt with her, ask her out, that sort of thing? That said, how can you learn about women generally? Are there ...

A.   18 May 2010: I would not suggest reading romance novels like the woman who posted before suggested. It might show you passion, but it will give you an unrealistic view of all aspects of a relationship. Most of the women I know would be creeped out by someone out ... (read in full...)

I lust after my boyfriends best friend?

Q.   iv been in a relationship for 3 years he's my best friend nd i love him dearly but our sex life is v.stale, there is no passion or lust nd iv tried so much to inject some. problem is iv resently been spendin more time with his best friend and ...

A.   18 May 2010: Good luck with that. When you're attracted to someone, it's very hard to just "turn it off". Your best bet is to talk about the lack of passion with your boyfriend, and try to come up with solutions together. It has to be a joint effort, not one ... (read in full...)

I'm a guy and I'm scared of sex...

Q.   hi, I'm a guy and I'm scared of sex... Before anyone asks, no I'm not a virgin but being a guy, there's a whole lot of pressure to achieve... And if you don't, there's that horrible look (and sigh) of dissappointment. Not only that but girls nearly ...

A.   18 May 2010: I can't say that I agree with having sex before marriage, but that's your choice. I do have to say, had you been married before you had sex, you wouldn't have to worry about this. However, barring that: You have to have sex for you. It is fruitles... (read in full...)

Attraction killers for men?

Q.   Someone asked a similar question about what men typically do that would kill the attraction a woman may have felt for him. So I felt curious to ask, What kind of things can a woman do that would make a man lose desire for her? I look forward ...

A.   18 May 2010: A woman who does not care for herself, including a lack of self-respect and dignity. You need to know who you are, and what you want, without flaunting your body to get it. If you can't even respect yourself, then how can you expect the men you ... (read in full...)

Can we be highschool sweethearts forever or will our love fade I'm scared please help if you have relationship experince

Q.   i never wantedlove until i met my boyfriend at 17..but surprisingly weve fell deeply in love at a young age weve been together 1 year and four months and have been threw alot...its going great..im 19 now and hes 18 i have a promise ring that he got ...

A.   18 May 2010: I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but from the short little bit you just posted... you have about a 1%-2% chance of success with this guy. I've seen it time and again; and trust me, it's going to hurt bad when you break up. I recomend reading ... (read in full...)

I don't want my ex back but the tie is still emotionally intense

Q.   My ex and I were together 2 years and living together for one year before I finally gave up on feeling that he was the right guy for me. He was openly seeking out sex partners throughout our relationship eventhough he knew that I could not deal with ...

A.   18 May 2010: I recomend doing what your current boyfriend suggested. A toxic relationship with an ex will only harm any relationship that you will have in the future. You need to metaphorically "cut the head off the snake" and end it clean. Don't be rude, but ... (read in full...)

I need to get him to get over me!

Q.   Hi guys, i'd like you to be brutally honest because I really need some help. There is this guy I got with at a party a while ago, not much happened other that spending the night together and a bit of kissing, anyway the next morning I woke up and h...

A.   18 May 2010: Tell him the truth. Truth is always better than lying. It might hurt more now, but it's much easier than later. If you are interested in keeping him as a friend, tell him so, but make it very apparent that that's ALL you want. As men, we are very... (read in full...)

I want to break up but her birthday is next week!!!! Help!

Q.   Hi there I am wanting to break up with my girlfriend but there is a catch her birthday is a week tomorrow. Part of me feels i should wait till afterwards but another part asks how long after. A week? Two? I just don't know what to do. Any help ...

A.   18 May 2010: She's going to know that you're unhappy and want out. It's going to hurt like a blighter, but the best thing to do is to get it over. It might seem mean, but in the long run it's meaner to wait.... (read in full...)

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