Should I continue to "take" from him?
Q. Oh this is so strange, the guy that I have been dating, now every couple of weeks for 2 years is in the hospital with a clogged stent in his plumbing?.. I mean those were the words he used and honestly I am not in love with him and well I don't know ...
A. 29 March 2009: He lied. I found out he lied. I dont feel bad..I asked him about his heart and he specifically said it was not his heart. So he lied. I used to justify taking from him because I would say this man is sitting here and lieing to me and I would pass it ... (read in full...)
Convict? or cop?
Q. I am a 38 yo single woman with high IQ and very practical. Here is my issue. I broke up with Ryan a few months ago because he was living with another woman and didn't seem ready to make that step. He is the perfect image of responsiblity, lawful, ...
A. 29 March 2009: I say go with the stable one if you feel you need that. They other one sounds like way to much troube and a pain in the butt. Who needs it..
If you are not in love with the "good boy" then spend some time alone. there is more than one fish in the ... (read in full...)
Secret rendezvous with my ex's mum, is that OK?
Q. It was my birthday yesterday and my ex-girlfriend's Mum called me to wish me happy birthday. We have always got on so it's not unusual for her to call me. During the call, she said that she was preparing a surprise for me and would send it to my ...
A. 26 March 2009: It is not your fault but that is so not cool for that woman to do that to her daughter. I mean being a guy its not your concern but try to find that lil ounce of like something and dont do it..its just plain weird for a mom to like send someting ... (read in full...)
Should I continue to "take" from him?
Q. Oh this is so strange, the guy that I have been dating, now every couple of weeks for 2 years is in the hospital with a clogged stent in his plumbing?.. I mean those were the words he used and honestly I am not in love with him and well I don't know ...
A. 26 March 2009: You know I asked him if it was his heart when he had said he had a "clogged artery" or "plumbing problems"..I said well when a man refers to "plumbing" I assume they mean "down there" but when he said artery and stent..I thought heart..I mean men ... (read in full...)
Proper grammar please!!!
Q. this is not to do with relationships or anything like that but i just had to point it out: why doesn't anybody use grammar properly on this website or anywhere else! nobody seems to know the difference between to and too or between there, they're ...
A. 26 March 2009: It is an informal site. Alot of people who come to this site have to be formal all day so I think some of them like to not be formal. Others just are so used to writing that way, it is not a chore. In any case, its a nice venting spot for people and ... (read in full...)
Is there anything I can do? I really like him.
Q. What do you do about a man who is absolutely perfect in every way; kind, attentive, romantic, intelligent, everything really, but who says he doesn't do relationships because he is selfish and loves himself too much? I get the impression he's had ...
A. 26 March 2009: let it go. If he likes you he will come around. At least he khows how you feel.... (read in full...)
What do I do? Should I believe him?
Q. my boyfriends co-worker told me that he is planning on braking up with me in july and moving in august and that he stopped caring about me 4 months ago, he told me no to everything and that him and his co-worker had words almost fighting. my boyf...
A. 26 March 2009: I would take into consideration how long you have been dating and weather or not he has ever lied to you before.
That is a big factor if he normally doesnt lie to you than you should believe he is telling you the truth. I would be suspicious of a co... (read in full...)
Ranting about my life
Q. Just stressed out. Need no advice just a matter of waiting. I am one of they unemployed Rhode Islanders awaiting my unemployment benefits. Going back to school in the meantime..to finish. I am at my width end. I feel like since I got divorced...
A. 23 March 2009: Thanks guys. Your support and advice was good comfort in crappy times. ... (read in full...)
I look at and scrutinize everything she has done from then to now
Q. I have a live in girlfriend that I have been with for over a year now and I love her with all that I have. My problem is that 2 months into our relationship we were out having drinks and she drank too much and does not remember the events of that...
A. 22 March 2009: Thats tough. Well being a girl I have had similiar probs with an ex boyfriend of mine..he used to think i was "flirting" when I wasnt and it got to the point where I could not even go out with him in fear of looking teh wrong way or smiling the ... (read in full...)
How can get over my ex girfriend after she dumped me for some other boy?
Q. i am 16 my gf is 14 and it al kicked of on wednesday afternoon me and my gf were sat in my room kissin and stuff and she got my name wrong i was hurt and upset and after a while of her talkin she told me she liked this outher boy who she had been...
A. 22 March 2009: Thats sounds horrible. I am sorry that happened. You are so young and am sure that you dont want to hear that.
If you are still in contact with her i would tell her its best you stay away from each other a bit. You guys are to young to be cons... (read in full...)
My partner wants us to have sex with other people.
Q. My partner wants us to have sex with other people. I like the idea for myself, but my skin crawls at the thought of him doing it. It scares me he won't come back and I would not be able to contain my jealosy. I know this is selfish, but has anyo...
A. 22 March 2009: He wants you guys to swing or he wants you to have an open relationship?
If you think it is ok for yourself to date and not him well that is not fair.
If it is about just sex then it is understandable that you would be jealous and I wouldnt ... (read in full...)
Is this a long time to have gone without having sex? I feel... distinct.
Q. I'm uncertain about something. I've gone without sex for 10 months and I'm starting to feel a LOT of withdrawal. Feels like I'm the only person on the planet that isn't having it. It got me thinking... is 10 months a long time to go without...
A. 5 March 2008: It has been 3 years for me. Since my last boyfriend. I think it's just one of those thing's.... (read in full...)
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