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We're living together and I keep house for him. Is this all there is?

Q.   Been living with this man for 2 years. His mom came to live with us and I quit my job to take care of her. There never was a hot romance. Just two people who came together out of a need for each other. Problem is I miss being treated like a woman. I ...

A.   27 October 2005: Sure sounds like it, honey. What do you get out of this relationship?! And he has an ex wife. I say, get out now unless you really can't imagine your life without him, or have a little fun of your own and if you can stand it and handle it - then why ... (read in full...)

Seeing a married man. Am I just a fling?

Q.   I am sort of seeing this guy at the moment who has been married and has three kids. I would like to see more of him and get to know his kids better. Do you see this getting serious or just a fling?...

A.   27 October 2005: He is basically having his cake and eating it. Please wake up. No matter what he says to you, he will NEVER leave his wife and 3 kids - if he has 3 - I'm presuming they're pretty young. He just wants a bit on the side whilst his poor wife is ... (read in full...)

How do we stop from growing apart?

Q.   I've been with my gf for 15 months but we have started to grow apart. I love her and she loves me. We really want to stay together but don't know what to do, as this is out 1st serious relationship. Help...

A.   27 October 2005: You haven't really given me much to go on! Age sometimes is important but not always. In what ways have you started to grow apart? Do you still have a good sex life? If that's what's wrong, i.e. it's boring - you can easily fix that...there are ... (read in full...)

I want to hurry up and marry my fiancee...

Q.   My fiancee wants to marry me but he wants to wait later rather than sooner. How do I speed the process?...

A.   27 October 2005: Have you asked yourself why you're in such a hurry to get married instead of placing the blame with him? If you're going to get hitched - hopefully, it's going to be for life - so what's the rush?! It's the biggest decision you're ever going to ... (read in full...)

Was my friend hinting around that he's interested in me?

Q.   I went out to lunch with a guy that I'm just friends with(but have suspected that he has deeper feelings for me). He started to ask me all sorts of questions, mainly about where I was going to find the guy of my dreams, and that prince charming ...

A.   27 October 2005: Yes, I do think that he was hinting that he likes you, especially if he was giving you that sort of eye contact and asking those of 'leading' questions! But, the question is, are you into him? Could you imagine him being more than a friend? Would ... (read in full...)

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