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The baby was born 11 months after I was home, is the baby mine?

Q.   I have a question when i was home from Iraq last year 2008 the last time me and my wife had sex was april 4th 2008 when i cam back from iraq ahe told me she was preg and then on March 1st 2009 our son was born her due date was feb 26 2009 now is ...

A.   29 November 2009: 9 months... If her due date was feb 26th the baby would have been convieved around the end of April, beginning of May... If you are unsure then you can ask for DNA test. Hope everything works out well for you. And good for you for being over there... (read in full...)

I am a girl crushing on my Lady teacher

Q.   i think im in love with my teacher but i dont now the only problem is shes a girls and older than me im confussed and need help ...

A.   29 November 2009: Its a crush, you will feel how you feel and get over it when you meet someone else. You're not in love don't worry. I know it can be so confusing at your age, you don't know what you want or who you are and you question yourself so much! But it... (read in full...)

My sick boyfriend is ignoring me, so I am ignoring him back

Q.   My boyfriend has been ill all week, but he's just started to ignore me. For the past couple of days he hasn't replied to my texts and I haven't heard from him at all. I stopped texting him about a day ago because I thought he was trying to tell m...

A.   29 November 2009: Just chill like you said, if you panic and badger him then you are sure to push him away and I can tell you love him and don't wanna do that. Maybe he just needs a bit of space and that's ok, you can use it for space for yourself too, spend some tim... (read in full...)

She trusts me but wont say she loves me

Q.   well i dont really know where to start. I'm 17 years old, she is 18 years old, we started out friends, then good friends, then two weeks before the end of school last year i finally grabbed her hand and kissed her like 10 minutes later lol. now 6 ...

A.   29 November 2009: I think by the sounds of it you are already making her a happy girl! It doesn't matter if she says she loves you, you sound like you have an amazing relationship. I think you just need to wait for her to be ready to tell you. It sounds like you see ... (read in full...)

After four years I am still in love with my ex girlfriend

Q.   Going back 4-5 years ago i had split with my ex and we both went on our own ways. both she and i have had a few different partners and am willing to look past that obviously, its a long time. the hard part here is that ever since we split as i go...

A.   29 November 2009: Nobody here will know if you have a chance or not. We don't know what your relationship was like, or how she reacted when you broke up with her... But it sounds as though she may like you too if she kissed you at this party. I think the only way... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is losing interest, what can I do

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years now and we are both 17 and we love each other very very much, the only problem is im the loving and caring type and always want affection, when he shows it when he wants to, i mean he is a great ...

A.   29 November 2009: You have to talk to him about this, its the only way to sort it out. If u let it carry on then u will forever be unhappy. Tell him how u feel... And communicate with him to work at it. Good luck, be open and honest, you've been with him for so long ... (read in full...)

I need a point in the right driection! What shall I do? Does he like me?

Q.   Heyy all! I come to this site often, the advice is always amazing. So here i am, back again! Well im 17 and in college doing my A levels, in august i broke up with my boyfriend of nearly two years as he was abusive and basically i felt i couldnt k...

A.   28 November 2009: Tbh it could be yes or it could be no. Here's what I think... Yes he likes you, he didn't know you when he first started, hence why he said the other girl was the only girl he liked. Now whilst talkin to u he realises that he does like u... But he... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my best friend despite her sexually messy past

Q.   I am 26 and have been best friends with a girl of the same age for 10 years. If people see us, they assume we are a couple, we are in contact every day and see each other as often as we can, maybe several times a week, for food, shopping, or just to ...

A.   28 November 2009: I think you are completely right. All you can do at this time is the just be there for her as the friend that you have been for the past ten years. You sound like such a lovely guy and she sounds like a lovely girl and I think given that you are ... (read in full...)

I'm tormented by the fact that she's had a 'bigger' man than I

Q.   My girlfriend has just recently told me (because my dum ass ask) that she was with a guy so thick she felt pain and once had to see the doctor. to me is like (lucky bastard) i guess i think that's like every man's dream to be able to just do that to ...

A.   28 November 2009: Why would you want to be so big that you cause your girlfriend pain? Its not a good thing to be like that. She is more than likely telling you she enjoying sex for the first time because she genuinely is! The biggest turn off is someone who is u... (read in full...)

If I say we can't be friends, will he then chase me for more?

Q.   Okay so my ex and I went out for a year and broke up a year ago. I was the one to leave the relationship and he agreed. I tried to get back with him really hard a couple days after the break up but he didn't want to take me back. He also said he ...

A.   28 November 2009: Oh I completely agree with you about friends with benefits being wrong all together!! I just didn't want to offend anyone, but you are correct it is an opinion and everyone is entitled to one! Well forget about him then! Everything happens for a re... (read in full...)

Things changed for him when we moved in together, he went and I am left holding the bag

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend since February. things were going great. he came to my mums wedding, held my hand when i was in hospital recently and we moved in together 5 weeks ago. he's an only child and has lived away from home before now but i...

A.   28 November 2009: You couldn't have seen this coming, he agreed to move in with you and at the time he probably thought he did. Sometimes things don't work out. But that's ok. Its a learning curve. Ask friends if they wanna move in, or ask to move back into your hous... (read in full...)

I drank, I kissed too many, now they call me a slag

Q.   im so confused, im a girl of 16, i went out with a friend last night and had a bit too much to drink, i ended up kissing my ex's best friend and one of his friends,infront of each other, then my ex's friend kissed my best friend straight after. Then ...

A.   28 November 2009: That's alright don't worry about it!! You know what you are and so do your friends so that's all that matters! Don't get wound up about it, that will only spur people on to keep saying stuff. Just be true to yourself and don't let others get to y... (read in full...)

If I say we can't be friends, will he then chase me for more?

Q.   Okay so my ex and I went out for a year and broke up a year ago. I was the one to leave the relationship and he agreed. I tried to get back with him really hard a couple days after the break up but he didn't want to take me back. He also said he ...

A.   28 November 2009: Honestly, I would forget about him. Once you've forgotten you will feel so happy and free. A huge weight will be lifted off your shoulders and you will finally feel like you can relax!! It sounds to me like he likes you but like he said, he does... (read in full...)

My teacher told me he loves me too much to have a relationship with me.

Q.   Hi. My teacher told me that he loves me too much to do anything about it. I'm 14 and he is 30. He has taught me for the past 2 years. It started just basic flirting really, he stares and smiles at me, touches my shoulders, hands etc. He asks my ...

A.   27 November 2009: You seem very mature for a 14 year old. So I'm sure you know that this relationship is wrong. You should walk away, you have your whole life ahead of you. And you would enjoy it much more with someone closer to your age. It probably doesn't seem ... (read in full...)

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