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I am straight forward and to the point. Whether it's what you want to hear or not, I speak my mind. If what I say helps, good. If what I say offends you, oh well, get over it. With my knowledge, sticks and stones may breaks my bones, but ratings will never hurt me...

If you want to see the more sensitive side of me, keep reading the columns. My wife is also an Agony Aunt. She refuses to let me say who she is, because she doensn't like the way I express myself. Go figure. She is more gentle with her advice.

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I cant take his lies anymore. He says he will change but he doesnt. Any advice?

Q.   have been dating my boyfriend on and off for about four years now. he is a good guy and i love him, and he still tells me he loves me. we have had our problems but usually we work things out. recently though he did something that made me feel very ...

A.   6 January 2007: Did you ask him why he did not call you? Did you ask him why didn't he spend the holiday with you as he promised? I feel that you should not end this relationship without at least getting these questions answered. I would be curious to know how ... (read in full...)

I like them all! I'm torn as to who to pick..what do you all think?

Q.   This girl I work with told me her friend likes me, and her friend is very attractive and cute. However, I like the girl I work with as well. Unfortunately, her friend has to go back to school next week, so I'm torn now to decide who to pick. Also...

A.   6 January 2007: Yes, stop the hurt. Pick anyone else in which you have mentioned. This will cause friction amongst friends. Save yourself pal, choose someone not in the click.... (read in full...)

My ex and our baby are living w/ me. I've found new love, but my ex says she'll move out and never let me see the baby again!

Q.   a year ago i had a baby with my now ex partner.we split up.After a while she had no where to live so i agreed that they could both live with me till she got somewhere else as i would never see my child on the streets. I have now found new love but ...

A.   6 January 2007: Any court will tell you that you cannot hold a child as ransome. And that is what she is doing. You need to keep your child because the officials will never allow a parent to go out into the streets without a place to stay and care for a child. ... (read in full...)

I am worried that my relationship is stagnating sexually! Any good advice?

Q.   I am worried that my relationship is stagnating sexually because we are both so exhausted from overwork and job and family stress. I don't want us to evolve into a cozy, sexless beer drinking friendliness. Ugh! Please help! I barely have t...

A.   6 January 2007: Both of you need to sit down and MAKE some time for each other. And don't knock the beer...it helps sometimes to relieve the stress of a hardworked day. My wife and I both work. We always make it a point to find the time for each other, even if ... (read in full...)

She lies, she drinks , she says hurtful things--what can I do about her?

Q.   ive recently split up with my partner of 5 years,we have a 3 month old baby boy. She has always had a bit of a drinking problem, not so much an addiction, but when she starts she get carried away and on occasions has got violent and may or may not ...

A.   6 January 2007: Well, this is my advise to you. There is no changing her, she will continue to hurt you by drinking and being unfaithful. It's her nature from which I can see. So, you need to move on. There is someone out there that will treat you the way you ... (read in full...)

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