My wife thinks she is in love with another man yet our marriage is still good!
Q. My marriage is in trouble again. My wife had a fling last year with a guy she used to bump into while out clubbing, all very casual, but destructive and hurtful nonetheless. I gradually uncoevered the whole thing, and...I forgave her. She said she ...
A. 24 April 2009: Thanks for the advice...it's a lot more complicated than I could ever hope to put down in written words but thanks anyway.... (read in full...)
I've lost my sex drive... what can I do?
Q. I am 53, and in the last month I have lost my sex drive. What can I do?...
A. 13 November 2008: Need a bit more information from you really my friend, it could be anything!
If you're in a steady realationship, are you insecure about your partner? Has sex got boring and samey? Are you depressed or on medication?
Depression has a big effect... (read in full...)
Is my wife cheating on me or not? I have to know!
Q. My wife slept with someone behind my back some time ago. I found out about it, and I have forgiven her. Then more recently she saw the guy out in a bar, a chance meeting according to her, and talked with him. Again, I found out, she says, they just ...
A. 13 October 2008: OK, some time has passed now, I think it's all sorted now. She was NOT seeing this guy intimately. One of her skanky friends is. She is married to a policeman and is juggling three guys behind his back, she has two kids! I wish my wife wouldn't as... (read in full...)
I have what seems like white skin all around the vaginal opening, is it because I've used soap and shaving gel to clean my inside? Sex is uncomfortable and I'm panicking!
Q. This is going to be long so ill apologize in advance! Im really embaressed about this, and im sorry but im going to have to tell you everything to get the answer as im going on holiday tomoro and im panicking! Ive been with my boyfriend for...
A. 12 October 2008: White skin tags around the genitals usually turn out to be genital warts, why hasn't anyone metioned this yet? You don't have to have had unprotected sex to get them - get checked out to be safe.... (read in full...)
I;m self conscious because of my sexual history - is there any way to get things back to normal 'down there'?
Q. Okay so I used to party all the time and now i have a bad reputation for being a slut. Im actually a very loving, smart, good person. I regret everything I did and I wish i could take it all back. I think about it everyday and I feel bad about ...
A. 1 October 2008: Unless you've had children, I very much doubt you're any different "down there".
Get yourself checked for STI's, then put all your past behind you. You can't change the past, but you can change the future!... (read in full...)
Is my wife cheating on me or not? I have to know!
Q. My wife slept with someone behind my back some time ago. I found out about it, and I have forgiven her. Then more recently she saw the guy out in a bar, a chance meeting according to her, and talked with him. Again, I found out, she says, they just ...
A. 27 September 2008: The answers you guys have given me have shaken me to be honest. I really don't want to lose her, I'd never meet anyone like her again, she really is that good a catch.
This rocky spell started a long time ago, see my other questions if you want... (read in full...)
Caught up in lies and deceit.....how do I come clean??
Q. I am bordering on desperation, I have read the articles on your site, my situation is at this stage hopeless, I am so caught up in deceit, lies and cheating I don’t know how to come clean. I’m 46 married to my hubby for 28 years he is 60 years ol...
A. 9 September 2008: The only way forward is to tell him everything you have the bravery to tell him, but tell him you don't want to leave him. Its sounds like you want a purely platonic relationship with Edward, he must know deep down this is what you want.
If he... (read in full...)
I need help dressing slutty for my husband!
Q. Any advice for me to dress slutty for my husband? I do not have the "body" I would consider to look good in slutty clothes. I'm 5'1, 142 pounds..........
A. 6 September 2008: From a man's point of view - emphasize your good points. If you have good sized boobs, put 'em on show...same if your legs are quite long. If your ass is big, squeeze it into a tight skirt. He'll wanna rip it off!
Slutty means different things t... (read in full...)
She'd had enough of me being depressed, and during our doldrums she cheated. Now we want to save our marriage but she is too resigned, maybe remorseful, to take us seriously?
Q. Hi everyone. Forget the last dilemma - that's all sorted out. Things are worse now... About three months ago my wife and I talked about splitting, after 17 years together, eight of them married. She'd had enough of me being depressed, going...
A. 6 September 2008: Interesting couple of answers. She won't cheat agin, I'm sure of that. In fact, if she wanted someeone else she'd come out and say it. Sex is still amazing, and the ironic thing is that we were talking about threesomes, swaps, etc to keep things ... (read in full...)
Should we have a threesome with this girl??
Q. My wife and I recently went through a "rough" patch in our marriage, she basically was on the verge of leaving me because of my depression and generally feeling sorry for myself. That's all sorted out now, I'm walking on air and we are better than ...
A. 9 August 2008: Tellulah - I like your style, say what you see!
All I asked was - should we have a threesome to get it out of our systems, have a serious talk about it all together, break off the friendship and ditch her, or just leave it as it is and enjoy th... (read in full...)
Can he really fancy me if I am 10 years older?
Q. I am 33 and have recently become very good friends with a 23 yr old guy who calls and texts me all the time and I am attracted to him but he is really good looking and cannnot imagine that he would fancy me but am getting mixed messages.how do I ...
A. 8 August 2008: Go for it, but take it easy. He's probably gagging for you but a little intimidated because he assumes you're a lot more experienced than him and he doesn't want to mess up.
Guys in their thirties tend to be obsessed with work, physically out of s... (read in full...)
My wife wants to have a MFM threesome, but I do not want to...
Q. my wife of 10 months wants to have mfm threesome but i dont think i want to. what should i do?...
A. 8 August 2008: Is it just the thought of more "man" during sex that does it for her, or does she really find other men attractive and wants to have one of them under the guise of a threesome?
If it's the first option, well there's a lot you can do with sex toys... (read in full...)
Should we have a threesome with this girl??
Q. My wife and I recently went through a "rough" patch in our marriage, she basically was on the verge of leaving me because of my depression and generally feeling sorry for myself. That's all sorted out now, I'm walking on air and we are better than ...
A. 8 August 2008: I had to keep the question brief, but it's a lot more complicated than I have space to go into.
She's not a babysitter, I just said we trust her with our kid. My wife was out of the country recently because of a family disaster, this girl was the ... (read in full...)
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