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What qualifies me to help people is the fact that i have been through a lot things in my life and found the strength to get up and still be the sweet wise woman and mother that God made.i live in south africa in the town of pretoria.i love to laugh and dance and sing,i just love good fun.i dont like fake people.im currently involved with a wonderful man who respects me.

What first? Remaining a ladyboy or castration?

Q.   my age is now 18 i want to be a female please say me what i have to do first is achieving feminity possible or only i be remained as a ladyboy please say to me about castration also please...

A.   25 October 2009: hi before you take anything or do anything consult get therapy and understanding of what it entails 2 change your sex.research over the net all the good and the bad stories.find a board certified doctor-surgeon who will cater for your specific ... (read in full...)

I'm tired of being the sweet, pretty lady. Can you help me?

Q.   Please help.im breaking down slowly inside.this whole year has been totally rough for me.my love life is just pathetic.im a beautiful lady with a beautiful heart and great sense of humor.im giving but all i receive is heartache.ive been broken so ...

A.   19 October 2009: Thanx guys 4 the advice.i am a confident person by the way,hence the beautiful statement..thank u the most satindesire,it seems u get it the most.i do want the kind of relationship,marriage and friendship that u have.i will definately take ur ... (read in full...)

Diamond in the midst of trouble?

Q.   ok before anyone reads my plea for help.bear in mind that everything happens for a reason and that u might find a rough diamond hidden in the mist of trouble.please dont reply if u are not going to look at the picture.ok. a few weeks ago i ...

A.   24 December 2008: As u know me and him have already had sex.but i decided to take ur advice and slow down.i will just be his friend and see how his situation turns out.u r right there is nothing wrong with hoping.but i have this gutt feeling that if i take it slow ... (read in full...)

Is there anything I could do to get boys to like me?

Q.   i can't get a boyfriend my problem is that no lads what so ever are interested in me and i'm feeling left out all of my friends have boyfriends and i have no one and always feel like the goosberry when we go out i think it's because i'm on the ...

A.   7 April 2008: Hi.before you get a boyfriend you need to love and like yourself.no decent guy will go out with someone that puts themselves down.this dating thing has nothing to do with your size.how do you love yourself.1stly you need to start doing thing that ... (read in full...)

My bf's ex is haressing me....should I tell him and if so how??

Q.   Hi...my ex's new girlfriend is harassing me. Should i inform him of her behaviour. We have a child together. I have kept quiet for while now but it gets worse as the days go on....should i tell him and if so how should i inform without sounding...

A.   7 April 2008: Hi everyone.i did it i told him and i didnt get a response,but that girl got a response.he dumped her.but got a new 1 same time,what bugs me about this guy is that he is just not stable & wants to expose our child to these crazies.i refuse ... (read in full...)

I'm a 11 year old girl(almost 12) this year. I've been depressed for a year and half.

Q.   I'm a 11 year old girl(almost 12) this year. I've been depressed for a year and half. At school none of my friends talk to me anymore. I feel like i lost of all of them and i dont know how to get them back. I'm a very shy girl in school so that ...

A.   3 April 2008: Hi.how are you today?i know what its like to be alone all of a sudden when you had friends and they turn their backs on you.its not easy.i even wanted to do stupid things and hang out with the wrong crowed.i was shy too.you must know there is ... (read in full...)

Boys consider me ugly and I feel very low about it, whereas the school regulation does not allow make up or other forms of embellishment. What can I do?

Q.   i am really ugly, i am dark and my hair is sooo curly and frizzy... my face gets so oily and it looks really bad..we wear uniforms in school and not allowed make up although i do put eyeliner...and im not allowed to straighten or colour my hair or ...

A.   16 February 2008: Hi there.i want you to know what u are going through and at some point in life it will get easier.for now lets work on the sele esteem.firstly for your skin you need to drink at least 8 large glasses of water.eat all oily staff with moderation and ... (read in full...)

My bf's ex is haressing me....should I tell him and if so how??

Q.   Hi...my ex's new girlfriend is harassing me. Should i inform him of her behaviour. We have a child together. I have kept quiet for while now but it gets worse as the days go on....should i tell him and if so how should i inform without sounding...

A.   15 February 2008: I would like to thank those who replied (particularly rcn, duskyrowe, laura1318, irish49). Your answers came so quickly. I'm greatful cause they helped, I will definitely update you about the outcome.... (read in full...)

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