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We broke up 6 months ago but I haven't moved on from my ex. Anyone know why?

Q.   My ex and I were only together for two months. As stupid as it sounds, it was kind of like The Notebook romance. Short, but very very sweet...maybe so sweet in fact that I will forever have a cavity from it. I felt with him things I have not felt ...

A.   4 April 2013: I think you are not moving on because you are still hanging onto this romantic fantasy. You just have to try distract yourself with other things and go out and meet new people. Time does heal everything... (read in full...)

This constant love/hate thing we have going on has me so confused. I need some advice!

Q.   Ok, this might be long just as a pre-warning. I'm not really sure what I am asking here, just people's opinion of it really. A few years ago I had a really messy break up and honestly thought I would be alone for the rest of my life. It took me ...

A.   4 April 2013: I agree with both of you to be honest. Truth hurts sometimes but I think you are right about maybe being addicted to the drama. I'm going to cut all contact, again. & make sure I never ever go back there. Thanks guys... (read in full...)

I'm scared he's just using me till he sorts himself out and goes back to his ex!

Q.   sorry this is pretty long but i'd love for someone to give me their thoughts on this. I have started seeing a guy who I really like but I have a feeling he is still really into his ex. He's been straight with me and told me from the be...

A.   4 April 2013: I think you should try back off from him for a bit. It annoys me so much when guys are like 'I just don't feel like I can commit at the moment'. If he seriously wanted to be with you then he would. It sounds like him and his ex had a bit of bum... (read in full...)

Why would he cheat if he is happy with his girlfriend?

Q.   Me and an old time friend have slept together more than once weve have known each other for 12 years but problem is he has a girlfriend! I really like him a lot why would he cheat if he is happy with his girlfriend? Does he actually have real ...

A.   3 April 2013: I've been in this situation myself. (Although I hadn't known him 12yrs!) You try to make yourself believe that it all must mean something and that if his gf was so important he wouldn't cheat on her. Thing is, it's sort of like having your cake and ... (read in full...)

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