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Why is he being cruel? Is his ego just bruised?

Q.   I was getting along well with this man, and even agreed to go on a date with him. He made it pretty clear he liked me as more than a friend, although nothing had ever happened between us that went beyond talking. The night before our date, a mutu...

A.   4 September 2013: Yikes! What a psycho! Glad you called it! I think your instincts are right. This guy seems a little unhinged so take care and walk to your car with others if in a social situation with him around. Good going!... (read in full...)

Boyfriend treats me like his personal assistant! Advice?

Q.   I've been dating this guy for almost a year. He treats me like his personal assistant, and I am finally sticking up for myself. But he is so sensitive that when i do he acts like Im hurting his feelings. For instance he wants me to make and cancel ...

A.   4 September 2013: Dump him or just learn to say, "no I cannot do that because I am really tired from working all day but I would LOVE if you would run some errands for ME during the week! You would really be saving me so much stress!" If he says yes then say, "You're ... (read in full...)

I'm feeling excluded from meeting his child and wondering if there's more to his relationship with the child's mother

Q.   My boyfriend of 9 months has a 2-year-old child with another woman. This woman won't allow him to take the child out of her sight. She also won't allow him to bring me around, so he has to drive up there (1.5 hours away) every Saturday to see her ...

A.   4 September 2013: You are too immature and you should make no apologies for that. You are young and child-less and yes I think there is always a chance for reconciliation between a father and mother that share a great love for their mutual creation: their child. You ... (read in full...)

Why is my height so unattractive?

Q.   I have been rejected by hundreds of girls offline and thousands of girls online and have lost heart and all sense of my 'physical' self-esteem. It is very difficult to remain confident after that. My track record keeps me from trying now as I have ...

A.   4 September 2013: I suggest you stop finding evidence that your height cannot find you a mate and instead search for evidence that it CAN. You have created a HUGE story in your head that this is the way it is so do the opposite. Be the story that many men your height ... (read in full...)

How do I know if we are just "dating" or in a relationship?

Q.   How do you know if your someone's "girlfriend" or not? I've been going on dates with this guy since the beginning of January.A few days ago,I went to his house and he made dinner for me(which i thought was VERY sweet) and we watched movies.H...

A.   4 September 2013: Oh girl you are just free cheesecake now. It may be too late to ever be his girlfriend. ASK him after your next kiss (before sex), "Does this mean I'm your girlfriend? (With a smile). If he says no, then he has no respect for you for sleeping with ... (read in full...)

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