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How Does The Dumper Feel After Dumping You?

Q.   I was dumped three months ago, not really on bad terms; I just didn't see it coming. I frequently see questions from those dumped; pleading for a way to help the pain to stop. They need comfort and a shoulder to cry on. They feel wretched and ...

A.   3 August 2013: Couldn't really pick out my ex gf personality in here but got to say this has to be one of the best articles i have read. Keep up the good work.... (read in full...)

Your Ex Is Sending Mixed Signals

Q.   Many of us may be in recovery from a recent breakup, or you are several weeks into the no-contact period. You broke up months or years ago. There is this dull pain in the pit of your heart. You're going about your life. You relapse and cry ...

A.   3 August 2013: Wow! Parts of that have really come to light thank you ... (read in full...)

Cant get my head round my Ex girlfriend please help 

Q.   Hi Me and my ex girlfriend have both admited we both still have feelings for each other and we could never hurt each other. And both admit that we were proud to say we are/were each others partners. i just cant get this part of the conversatio...

A.   7 May 2013: sorry should have pointed out ! she bitched about me before she said that comment thats how i think after 3 weeks of no contact she did that to get my attention .... (read in full...)

Did she cop out of the relationship and choose her career?

Q.   Did she Cop out ? We were together for 1 year and like any couples we have our ups and downs.Im not perfect and never claim to be but then again who is? The last 4 months have been a right test for both of us because we were going to move in toget...

A.   2 May 2013: Thanks guys ! I have done what everyone has said and just left her alone i even shut down my facebook for a bit so she cant see what im upto! I think after this 1st week i realised i'm devestated more than upset.I said to her before about picking up ... (read in full...)

Have I done the right thing

Q.   Hi Basicaly me and my girlfriend have had what i would call a little lovers tiff. We recently celebrated our 1 year aniversary of dateing but i have noticed that her attitutude has changed. She lives a busy life with work, her studies,...

A.   20 April 2013: Thank you ! my only problem with that is my gf owned her own florist for 2 years and everytime men would come in for flowers it was always because the cheated on their partner or a sign of guilt lol so my gf has a bleak view of when men give flowers ... (read in full...)

How do you handle being around someone who doesn't like you?

Q.   This isn't really a relationship question but what I would like to talk about is how to deal with being around someone who doesn't like you/you don't like them. I usually get along with people and when I find out that someone doesn't like me it re...

A.   18 April 2013: Imo it could be shes jeleous of you for some reason ! Comming from a mans point of view when sombody does not like you for no reason its normaly down to them being jeleous or insecure (or have a secret crush lol)Your friends are your friends for a ... (read in full...)

Have I done the right thing

Q.   Hi Basicaly me and my girlfriend have had what i would call a little lovers tiff. We recently celebrated our 1 year aniversary of dateing but i have noticed that her attitutude has changed. She lives a busy life with work, her studies,...

A.   18 April 2013: Really do ! want to speak to her on this level i really love her so much all im worried about is that she is not speaking to me atm since i told her why i havn't been in touch i havn't dumped her or anything and i know her well enough to know if ... (read in full...)

Should I back down in the face of my Gf mother refusal to have me in her home?

Q.   Hi in light of my previous question I posted over a month ago I would like to ask if I’m right in thinking to stick to my guns . Basically My Gf Mother will not let me in the house because over 2 months ago my gf and I argued over something p...

A.   30 March 2013: I think the closet way to explain my story is by the anonymos reader on march 29th thats basicaly everything in a nut shell. But everyone here has said the same thing if i can get my gf to move out i will but finance is tight atm for both.I will ... (read in full...)

Should I back down in the face of my Gf mother refusal to have me in her home?

Q.   Hi in light of my previous question I posted over a month ago I would like to ask if I’m right in thinking to stick to my guns . Basically My Gf Mother will not let me in the house because over 2 months ago my gf and I argued over something p...

A.   29 March 2013: I think what i should do is just take little bits of advice from everyone. .Just let it go .Apologise ( and be overly nice but dont go inside) .Hold my breath and count to 10 .Get her out/move out of the house to de-stress (gf) .Give it time... (read in full...)

Should I back down in the face of my Gf mother refusal to have me in her home?

Q.   Hi in light of my previous question I posted over a month ago I would like to ask if I’m right in thinking to stick to my guns . Basically My Gf Mother will not let me in the house because over 2 months ago my gf and I argued over something p...

A.   29 March 2013: Basicaly my gf is 25 we were moving in together in feb her mom was to move and go back to her husband. my gf, step dad and me and her were to rent that house as a couple..of course then we argued (as couples do from time to time) Her mother shown no... (read in full...)

Should I back down in the face of my Gf mother refusal to have me in her home?

Q.   Hi in light of my previous question I posted over a month ago I would like to ask if I’m right in thinking to stick to my guns . Basically My Gf Mother will not let me in the house because over 2 months ago my gf and I argued over something p...

A.   29 March 2013: Ok thank you guys just for the record I'll tell you what I said to my girlfriend. We were planning to spend the day together and every time we made arrangements something would spoil the plan. In the space of a week we had the .cars break down (bot... (read in full...)

My b/f doesn't want to go on facebook and say we are back together or give me his password to it. This troubles me!

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. A couple of months ago we broke up for about one month, then decided that wasn't the right decision and have gotten back together. Well, there is a problem that has been bothering me a ...

A.   16 March 2013: On a positive note.I agree you dont need facebook to know your together i know a few couples where one partner is on facebook and the other isn't. Me and my partner have each others psswords but like you guys we just one of those couples where we ... (read in full...)

She's cancelled twice on me and I'm afraid to ask again!

Q.   Hello, I am really unsure what to do about this crush I have. We both attend the same school, and share some classes now and then. We have always been on friendly terms. However, in the beginning when I barely knew her, she showed all the sig...

A.   15 March 2013: Ask your self this !why she cancelled on you ? Once is OK. Maybe her story about having family business or a busy schedule is true, a girl is going to find a way to go out with a guy she’s interested in like you said you spent the day together and ... (read in full...)

Is this age difference too much?

Q.   What is the biggest age gap relationship you have known of? I am 26 years old and massively attracted to a 45 year old man. I can't help it it's getting me down, my family wouldn't approve....

A.   15 March 2013: If you like him and he likes you go for it ! see what happens cause you never know until you try whats the worst that can happen ? your family should respect your choices for a partner as your an adult just take it slow go out on a few dates an... (read in full...)

Really Stressed or she dosn't love me anymore

Q.   HI! Been with my girlfriend now for nearly a year (11 months to be exact)like any couple we have our ups and downs but latley im having trouble trying to work out if she still loves me or just really stressed out. she has become difficult to tal...

A.   14 March 2013: Thank you again ! i spoke to her last night for about an hour did everything in both advice colums before i read the latest one i didnt back down "she explaind shes proud its amatter of pride and wants to do things like this on her own steam she ... (read in full...)

Really Stressed or she dosn't love me anymore

Q.   HI! Been with my girlfriend now for nearly a year (11 months to be exact)like any couple we have our ups and downs but latley im having trouble trying to work out if she still loves me or just really stressed out. she has become difficult to tal...

A.   13 March 2013: Thank you so much ! A lot of what you said i have thought myself before i post on here it was good to know that it just isnt me. When she told me what happenened to her i thought she was building a wall to stop getting hurt again i have been thr... (read in full...)

Really Stressed or she dosn't love me anymore

Q.   HI! Been with my girlfriend now for nearly a year (11 months to be exact)like any couple we have our ups and downs but latley im having trouble trying to work out if she still loves me or just really stressed out. she has become difficult to tal...

A.   12 March 2013: Thanks for that ! can i add another part to this story ?in the past she was in a abusive relationship 3 years before we met! her boyfriend of 2 years (at the time)beat her up ,locked her in their house,cut the phone wire ,read her msn and emails, ... (read in full...)

Is my friend interfering in my relationships? Or am I over thinking here?

Q.   hi, i know this might sound silly but when my friend is texting i think it is one of my ex's or boys i have met. i know your probley thinking im paranoid but let me explain lol. when i was 15 i was with this boy for about a year and as soon as i ...

A.   15 October 2010: This guy is not worth it! Sounds like he's givn you the run around and have the best of both worlds . As for your friend I think you should ditch her and find new ones this will cause problems in the long run if she done this to you since you were ... (read in full...)

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