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Is my boyfriend worried about prison or not interested?

Q.   I hooked up with a guy I'd known for a while this summer. We had a geat time and saw each other quite a lot for about a fortnight. I had recently moved back to the area he lived in but was working away a lot so we didn't see each other again til the ...

A.   13 December 2009: To anyone who read or wrote back, this is the latest. I ended up biting the bullet and we had a heart to heart. My lover said the last thing he wanted was to be in love and going to prison, but he couldn't help the way things had gotten quite ... (read in full...)

I need advice about my feelings for my teacher!

Q.   This is probably going to be long, so bear with me. To start with, I don't want to hear how wrong you think/know these kind of relationships are, and how they will not work out and only cause trouble. I know this already. I'm old enough and matur...

A.   18 November 2009: Hi, I think I mentioned this but I really advise you to go to student support and get practcal help with organising your workload and planning essays and assignments for this course. the emotional stuff needs time and depends on other people... (read in full...)

Do I have too much libido?

Q.   I wanted to see if i was over sexed so i kept a journal. In 1 yr i had sex with my wife 187 times and masterbated 263 times. And the sad thing is i want more and i dont think i do it enough. There is times even after i please my wife i am still horn...

A.   11 November 2009: you masturbated 263 times in 1 year? So what about the other 102 days? part-timer. Seriously though, what is over sexed? You don't indicate that your sex drive causes you problems and if you and your wife are both happy then why worry? ... (read in full...)

I am isolated from friends and family, and my boyfriend doesn't seem to care about me.

Q.   I am in a relationship that I am not happy in. I feel that my boyfriend does not love me or care about me. He does not treat me well. He hits me and says stuffs to me. When he does it he says he is either joking or was angry but if i do anything ...

A.   11 November 2009: Please don't stay with someone who hurts you just because you feel you have nowhere else to go. If you really can't turn to anyone else you could seek refuge at a centre for women who are suffering domestic abuse. good luck to you x... (read in full...)

Is my boyfriend worried about prison or not interested?

Q.   I hooked up with a guy I'd known for a while this summer. We had a geat time and saw each other quite a lot for about a fortnight. I had recently moved back to the area he lived in but was working away a lot so we didn't see each other again til the ...

A.   11 November 2009: I agree with you wholeheartedly Q, thanks for taking the time to write... (read in full...)

Does he love me or is he stringing me along?

Q.   hi i've been seeing my boyfriend for a couple of months. everything seemed to be going really well. It seemed as if we both liked each other but I noticed that he seemed a little distracted with his phone, he seemed to be always texting someone ...

A.   11 November 2009: You should never spy on someone!!!!!!!!! I can't believe he took that from you and lets you keep checking his phone. what a mug. I have to admit I've done that in the past though (to an on/off ex, not a 100% lover) and I'll tell you why. I didn'... (read in full...)

Is my boyfriend worried about prison or not interested?

Q.   I hooked up with a guy I'd known for a while this summer. We had a geat time and saw each other quite a lot for about a fortnight. I had recently moved back to the area he lived in but was working away a lot so we didn't see each other again til the ...

A.   11 November 2009: not at all q, I like your style and I agree, I've just been losing sight of myself and what I find acceptable, but realise I have to adjust that now, be humble and take my ego out of the picture at least til this blows over. I always knew it was a ... (read in full...)

Is my girlfriend controlling?

Q.   Hi All Please help My girlfriend of one year has these traits. She is too bossy * Says I do everything wrong around the house * Housework and cooking have to be done her way * If i clean kitchen but leave milk or sauce out she complains ...

A.   11 November 2009: mate, she might or might not be controlling but she's definitely unhappy. I reckon she's henpecking you, trying to force you to go because she hasn't got the balls to walk out on you. She's turning you in to something she can dislike to make it ... (read in full...)

Why does no one want to kiss me in spin the bottle?

Q.   Ok, what to do what to do: I am going on a bus tomorrow with guys. It is a soccer team so both teams are going usually we play truth or dare or spin the bottle but when it comes to me almost no guy wants to kiss me. It is not that I am pretty. ...

A.   11 November 2009: i reckon they do want to kiss you really ;) thing is with lads, especially your sort of age, is it's all about looking cool and running with the pack. If a guy kissed you and he wasn't very good you might say something and he'd be forever known as... (read in full...)

Is my boyfriend worried about prison or not interested?

Q.   I hooked up with a guy I'd known for a while this summer. We had a geat time and saw each other quite a lot for about a fortnight. I had recently moved back to the area he lived in but was working away a lot so we didn't see each other again til the ...

A.   11 November 2009: nice 1 q1605! Just needed to hear it from someone else, you know? His brave face is so good you kind of forget how major it all is. ... (read in full...)

I need advice about my feelings for my teacher!

Q.   This is probably going to be long, so bear with me. To start with, I don't want to hear how wrong you think/know these kind of relationships are, and how they will not work out and only cause trouble. I know this already. I'm old enough and matur...

A.   11 November 2009: If you think it would help, mention to your tutor that you're distracted because there's someone in your class that you have a crush on. You don't have to say it's your teacher. It also sounds like you don't have a "study buddy" which you seem to be ... (read in full...)

Does my cousin fancy me?

Q.   My cousin is two years my senior but when we was younger he went to live in another City with family... We lost contact for many years and recently got back in contact! We chat about everything and go on camera to one another and we always smile ...

A.   10 November 2009: I am in touch with a few of my cousins and we have never, ever, EVER discussed anything even bordering on the realm of falling in love with a family member. I would say there's a reason that you two are engaging in such conversations, without ... (read in full...)

Should I be alarmed by the timing of her personal grooming?

Q.   I am a 44 y/o male engaged to a 42 y/o woman...we have been together for 1.5 yrs., our relationship has had it's ups and downs, however, we profess our commitment to each other. She seems to wear her ring with pride. Although, lately we have been in ...

A.   10 November 2009: Parry, I like your question. I can only speak from experience and I guarantee it that the only time I groom "down there" is when it is expecting some action. Don't think you're just getting paranoid either, there's a reason you noticed this gro... (read in full...)

Things went well...until she blocked me on Facebook! Any advice?

Q.   Morning all, I'm in a dilemma and I think I did something to blow a potentially good thing. I have been talking with a girl for the last month or so, and everything was going so well -- chatting, chemistry and what not talking on the phone, plus ...

A.   10 November 2009: I wouldn't even e-mail her. If she wants space give it to her. She asked for space then rejected your attempt to resolve so it doesn't sound like she likes to be pursued. Whatever you do don't make facebook friends with her daughter... (read in full...)

How do I approach her about having an 'exclusive' relationship?

Q.   I am at my wits end! I'm gay... not that it really matters for my query! I met the most amazing girl online just over two months ago .... we've talked on MSN and occasionally the phone nearly every single night, we also send each other a few te...

A.   10 November 2009: I think you should see each other a bit more and then decide. You might find the subject comes up naturally in face to face conversation or when you're hanging out together. It sounds like you rely on MSN and text, both of which can be a bit ... (read in full...)

He's going on another 'lad's holiday' next July and I am against it!

Q.   hello, im a 19 year old girl, been with my boyfriend for about 4 months, we have a good relationship, however he has a big ego he does love himself to bits, he has an extremly good job for his age of 19 and is a good looking guy, however he told me ...

A.   10 November 2009: Firstly July is a long way away so take it easy. Bring the issue up nearer the time if you have to. Secondly you can't expect your boyfriend to avoid all parties unless you're there. One of mine once ended up at a party with an orgy going on in th... (read in full...)

Is there any hope he and I will date again?

Q.   Well, my boyfriend broke up with me three days ago and whenever I look at him my eyes tear up and I just can't be around him. We still talk but I just can't be just friends with him. I still love him so much, I need to know if there is any hope that ...

A.   10 November 2009: I was absolutely heartbroken when my ex left me in March (especially since he still lived in my room but that's another story... :)). I cried, pleaded and argued about why we should stay together but he was very stubborn. I had "got over" him to ... (read in full...)

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