Should I tell my religious parents that I'm bisexual now, or wait until I am older?
Q. So 15 and bisexual. I lean more to the guys side but I can some girl do turn me on, but I problem is that I want to break the news to my parents, and knowing my mom being so religious and traditional and my dad who I barely talk to. I know that ...
A. 16 January 2013: For your safety and well being I suggest you wait. As long as you do not engage in any dangerous or risky sexual behaviours, it sounds like you would be better off not saying anything. Your mother has already told you how she would react, and your ... (read in full...)
She doesn't want to change her Facebook status to 'in a relationship'....
Q. Im in a ldr with a wonderful girl for about 8 months, i've been introduced to her friends and family, in fact we spend christmas and new years together. i have pictures on my fb showing us together and she has shown me in other ways she cares about ...
A. 16 January 2013: Perhaps you could wait a few months and see if anything changes. 8 months is still early days. If you are getting on really well and are enjoying each others' company why spoil it? FB isn't the be-all and end-all. If you think however that she seems ... (read in full...)
How to get over someone you have to see everyday?
Q. Okay so I guess at this point I have no choice but to try and get over this man that seemingly captured my heart. My question is, how do you get over someone you have to see every day?...
A. 16 January 2013: You may not or it may take a lot longer and be more painful. Can you change your situation so that you can move on? Every time you see him you will think about what you had. There are endorphins that are connected to feelings of romantic love. Every ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend never replies to my messages on time and it really bugs me!
Q. there is something that bothers me so much about my girlfriend and is that she does not reply my messages on time, if i text her she takes even hours to text me back and if i send her a fb message she reads it and then until next day replies. at the ...
A. 16 January 2013: You need to discuss how you feel with your girlfriend and see if you can come to an agreement that suits both of you. She might be playing games (treat 'em mean and keep 'em keen), or she may feel that you are texting to often. You'll never know ... (read in full...)
I feel good but bad at he same time. I told my FWB that I'd developed feelings for him. Now he wants a break?
Q. Oh gosh, okay, sorry if this is a little long it may just end up viewed as venting. I've been seeing this guy and I've posted about this situation a couple of months ago. Well, we continued seeing each other and it seems now that it was clearly ...
A. 16 January 2013: Don't be sorry that you told this guy how you feel. It is better that you know if his feelings are the same so that you stop wasting yourself on him. I really feel for you because those powerful feelings of love are as strong as any drug and you are ... (read in full...)
How can I tell this girl who I've kissed that I think she's the one? Trouble is it's now a LDR
Q. Hi im 14 and live in one place in my state but there is this girl who I like but she lives in another place in my state. I don't know how to tell her my feelings, especially that she's the girl for me. But the major problem is that we've kissed b...
A. 16 January 2013: Who is saying that she's not the girl for you and why. If it is your parents and close friends it might be a good idea to think about what their objections are.
14 might feel grown up to you now but it is actually still very young. It is like... (read in full...)
Is it a good idea to consider changing my job? I like the people I work with now. But I'm bored at work.
Q. I don't know what I should do careerwise. My part-time work is in a nice place, but I'm not very motivated there, perhaps I'm a somewhat indolent person. Plus I must admit that I've never been one of those enthusiastic career-oriented women who wa...
A. 16 January 2013: First make sure it's what you want not what you think it's what society expects of you. If you're not overly ambitious and don't want a big career and you don't need the extra money then why bother. If you're bored and ready for a change I would... (read in full...)
Couldn't take his attitude any more.
Q. Ive been on and off with this pig. hes attitude is foul. he keeps standing me up and he does things i realy dont approve. hes made me suffer for so long. he pretended i was acually going to his last saturday night (saturday before the last one) and ...
A. 16 January 2013: This guy's behaviour is stalking. He wants to KEEP you not to LOVE you. If possible talk to your parents and tell him this guy won't leave you alone. You might need the help and support of family and or friends. You say off again/on again ... (read in full...)
She doesn't listen to or take any of my advice and it's really beginning to annoy me!
Q. my friend split up from her boyfriend of 16 months, 3 months ago. he was her first boyfriend and I've been dreading their break up for ages as I am friends with both of them! - my friend is a bit of an attention seeker and acts just to get attention ...
A. 16 January 2013: I have a motto on advice; if I'm free to give it, you're free to ignore it. Don't give your friend advice if you don't like what she does or doesn't do with it. Actually has she asked you for advice or does she just want a friend to listen. ... (read in full...)
Is there any truth to these lies and excuses from my husband?
Q. On 3 different occasions I found condoms in my husbands truck. To start with, ever since he got this truck it never left his side and after awhile I noticed he was going out of his way to make sure I couldn't go in there. He would lock it up and ...
A. 16 January 2013: You know he is cheating so now you just have to decide what you want to do about it. If you can aford it, it might be a good idea to get some professional advice. Things you might want to do are:
Save up some money of your own that hubby does... (read in full...)
Starting to feel used in this relationship -- am I blowing things out of proportion?
Q. I have a range of niggling issues with my boyfriend who Ive been seeing for 6 months. On the whole he is kind and loving but I have noticed that when we go out for a meal, the cinema or somewhere else I end up paying... he never offers or reaches ...
A. 16 January 2013: OMG Run don't walk away from this loser. And next time don't waste 6 months on a person like this. You don't need a man in your life if it's only to use you and disrespect you. He IS disrespecting you. Why didn't he invite you with him and his ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to ignore my friend? Is she avoiding me?
Q. Hey dear cupids! I have an issue. Basically it's coming up to my birthday and I have organised a meal out with my close friends. I have been contacting this girl for a while now asking about whether or not she's coming and i have been waiting for ...
A. 16 January 2013: Answer this. How does this relationship affect your self esteem. I bet it makes you question your value as a person and a friend. Do yourself a favour and move on. You sound like a giver, which means you may be attracting takers. Try and foster ... (read in full...)
My husband and I get into nasty arguments, help!
Q. Need some help.... recently my Husband and i have been arguing alot, almost on a weekly basis. He says very nasty hurtful things and the tone in which he says these things is as if he really hates me. I've tried talking to him about it but he tells ...
A. 16 January 2013: I am living in a similarly bad situation and am sorry to say have been doing so for 35 years. The pattern is abusive behaviour, denial, lying or altering the truth, reluctant admission, promises to change but doesn't. He doesn't seek any help for ... (read in full...)
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