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She won't tell me to my face that she made a mistake breaking up with me!

Q.   Six months ago, I dated this girl for a month. She broke up because she said she still had feelings for previous ex whom she dated off and on for over a year. She said she doesn't think she will ever go back to him because he's a jerk. Now six ...

A.   19 June 2012: She's probably upset that she left you and feels like she could never make it up to you. Try to be supportive. Don't push her to admit what she did, at least not until you guys are in better speaking terms. If you want to be with her, just let her ... (read in full...)

I'm wondering if I should be mad at my boyfriend for returning my sister's call first!

Q.   Hey everyone I don't know if I should be mad at my boyfriend but he did something I didn't like. Ok so I called my boyfriend, he didn't pick up his phone, I wasn't mad though but my sister called him ( she's 14), he didn't pick up either. But l...

A.   19 June 2012: I think it's normal to be mad at him for doing that. You're his girlfriend and he should be talking to you, not your sister. He might have wanted some space if you guys were spending too much time together. Maybe he wanted to ask your sister a... (read in full...)

A good screen name?

Q.   I need a good screen name .. I'm kinda like a closet emo, like people call me emo but I haven't admitted it. Any suggestions .. please no hate. And just for the record I am in no way a wannabe, trust me I know 1 who just copied me....

A.   3 November 2011: Being emo is never a good thing, and shouldn't be long term. However, if you want a screen name that defines you at this current time, I think you should try something like dark_emo13, emo_girl13, gothic_shadow. Anything of the sort. I mean the ... (read in full...)

How can I get my school-boy crush to talk to me?

Q.   Heyy :) Right so here's my dilema. There is this boy at school in the year above me and i really like him! When i was waiting for my firends outside of school to walk home with, he came out and started talking to my mate, but all the time he was t...

A.   16 May 2011: Well, if you want him to talk to you, maybe you should talk to him. At times like this, it's okay. If you have lunch at the same time, you can walk up to his lunch table and say, "You mind if I sit here" and if he says, not at all, you would have ... (read in full...)

Does Smiling REALLY matter?

Q.   Does "smiling" REALLY matter?? Been "told" I'm "pretty" and have a nice "smile" (hardly ever use it though) but I never believe it. I don't think I'm "pretty" at all. ...

A.   16 May 2011: Smiles bring happiness to yourself and others. It doesn't really matter, seeing that I don't smile much myself, but people say that a smile looks better on me than a frown. You should really only smile when you are happy, or if you want to smile to ... (read in full...)

I need help !

Q.   I need some help and this is my last resort. I'm 14 years old, and well things have been building up in my head for a long time and now its starting to come out. My whole life people have made me feel like scum people who clamied to be my frien...

A.   13 May 2011: Sometimes, I feel the same way. Don't worry, there's always people that can help! Try talking to your parents, if that doesn't work, try talking to anyone else you can really trust. Try talking to any teachers, or maybe you can go to some group ... (read in full...)

Obsessed with a girl for 4 years! How do I get over her??

Q.   Hi, i'm Sean. I'll try to make this as interesting and as short as possible, sorry if it is otherwise. About 4 years ago, i met this girl on the internet, and since that day we could not stop talking to each other. We talked to each other e...

A.   8 May 2011: You remind me of my self before... :| I used to feel the same way about this girl that I met in school, and I was pretty much crazy about her, and trying to do anything to see or talk to her. I was really emotional at the time; I feel your pain. An... (read in full...)

I'm 37 and scared that the man and the children aren't going to happen for me!

Q.   I'm newly single, very upset about it but enough is enough after he cheated one night and I won't tolerate cheating so I am moving on. I worry though as I'm 37 and really hope to meet someone and have a child. I don't have any yet, circumstanc...

A.   7 May 2011: Try going to new places and meeting new people and hopefully, you'll find someone that will be with you. Don't worry too much about looks, and make sure it's someone that can understand you. Someone responsible, caring, loving, strong...you get the ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend was diagnosed with depression and I feel like I'm walking on eggshells

Q.   Hey. So after a really, really bad "episode," my boyfriend was recently diagnosed with depression. He and his parents and his doctor decided the best way to handle it is through psychotherapy only without the use of antidepressants. Most of time h...

A.   7 May 2011: Some people that are depressed find it hard to socially with anyone at all. He is pushing you away because he doesn't want to say/do something that will hurt your feelings. What he needs to do is to stay positive, and go to therapy at least once a ... (read in full...)

I have a few relationship/sex questions.

Q.   Hey, this is a question for the girls (and guys, whatever) does size really matter? and Is there such a thing as too big or too small? and What would you rather have: poor relationship, great sex or great relationship, poor sex?...

A.   7 May 2011: For girls, even if they say it doesn't matter, it really does. I mean, you don't have to be on Extenze or anything like that. Most of the time, if a girl really likes you, it won't matter to her. Also, if the girl happens to be a virgin, the bigger ... (read in full...)

I gave her oral but she didn't reciprocate

Q.   I just recently just performed oral sex on my girlfriend yet she didn't return the favour. She always txts me that she does want to but she didn't. I didn't want to tell her about it since she'll just do it out of pity which I don't want. I'm just ...

A.   7 May 2011: Why don't you two perform oral sex on each other at the same time? That probably will get her in the mood to do that for you.... (read in full...)

Does my crush like me???

Q.   Does my crush like me? He looks at me in class, sometimes does silly things when I'm looking, tries to attack me in a friendly way at break, and sometimes says hi to me. He knows I like him, and I have asked him, and I think he is just shy....

A.   6 May 2011: He might like you, if he does anything more than a friend would do for you. He may be trying to be friendly as well. If it turns out that he does like you, there might be something keeping him from asking you out (e.g. he may not be allowed/able to, ... (read in full...)

How do I get girls to hug me, to kiss me and how do I get popular?

Q.   1. How do I get a girl to hug me that goes to my school like a bunch of them that I don't even date 2. And how do I get girls to kiss me for no reason and all ways hang around me 3. And how do I talk to them and get them to all talk and ask...

A.   4 May 2011: Try making a lot of good friends. If you want to be able to hug a girl all friendly, you should be friends with her for a while, and then she should feel comfortable about making any physical contact with you. Same with kissing, they need feel safe ... (read in full...)

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