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What is going on with my teacher?

Q.   Hey everyone, so I've talked about this teacher before. Last time I ased if there was anything going in between us...of course there isn't, but I'm having to ask again. So my friend who knows this teacher really well too and she recently noticed...

A.   31 March 2011: To me it seems like you feel neither appreciation or concern for this attention. If it bothers you, please see someone! If you have a class with him, it'll be difficult to avoid him :( he really does seem interested, and I suggest not going anywhere ... (read in full...)

Should I lose my virginity to my friends with benefits guy?

Q.   Long story short i have a Friend with Benefits we have met before, but we Haven't yet met up for 'sexual favours' and I know that he just wants me for sex and sh*t, but that's all I looking for anyways but I'm a virgin (he knows this) ...

A.   30 March 2011: Different opinions everywhere! I have a friend like that and I'm not the only girl he sees, but I find myself okay with that because he treats me SO well and as far as I know, differently. I was close to him and was flattered because he liked me. ... (read in full...)

Do men actually like this?

Q.   Do guys like giving oral to girls??? I mean do they like fingering, and going down and you know? The taste, the look, when it's clean and partially shaven. I am so trying to explain this well, but just really wanted to know if they like kissin...

A.   28 March 2011: It's seriously hard to imagine anyone liking that before you've had it. I was REALLY nervous when my boyfriend began because i thought i would dissatisfy him in some way but it is one of the best feelings for a woman he ended up loving it since we ... (read in full...)

Still feel drawn toward a bad-news ex

Q.   I cannot stop loveing her its consumeing me. Ive posted about this before but things have changed and i need some more help. To anyone reading this i thank you just for takeing the time. Five years ago i began a relationship with a girl three y...

A.   27 March 2011: Hey man I'm so sorry :( it sounds like a ton is happening in your life and yeah it sucks to deal with. Anne shouldn't be given the time of day. I thnk you should move on completely. It may feel like you have to go back to her but if all she does is ... (read in full...)

What do I say to my daughter who wants birth control?

Q.   My 16 year old daughter came up to me last night while I was making dinner and asked for birth control. At first I didn't say anything I was in total shock. Let me give you some back story. She's a good kid. She's no straight A student and she'...

A.   27 March 2011: Our society today is all about sex and its good its bad do it dont do it, its not weird that youre overwhelmed. Birth control isnt just for the prevention of pregnancy, it helps with pms and cramps and periods in general. Your daughter is 16 and ... (read in full...)

I spent a year getting over my ex-bf...and now he wants me back! What should I do?

Q.   My ex boyfriend and I were together for 20 months. He was my first long-relationship. When we broke up he told me that he had been cheating on me and was bored of us. After our breakup him and the girl he cheated on me with got together and they ...

A.   27 March 2011: Don't do it! Well, I wouldn't :( it's not fair to you since you spent all this time getting over him. Given his reputation, he might be using you as a transition for this break up he's going through. Be strong and resist the erge to go back to the ... (read in full...)

How do I cope with the possibility of seeing my ex out and about?

Q.   Hey everyone! I have a problem dealing with an ex. There was an event that I knew he would be at and I ended up going. However, midway throughout the event I decided to leave because I felt very uncomfortable knowing he would be arriving. I wanted ...

A.   27 March 2011: Depending on how recent the break up was, it sounds like youre not giving yourself a lot of time to move on. The nervousness is to be expected and he might feel nervous to. Perhaps go out with friends where you know he won't be and try to focus on ... (read in full...)

I'm happy with my bf and my new life, but I still obsess over my ex! Am I sad and pathetic?

Q.   Just over 2 years ago, I met this guy at a party and for just over a year after that we were seeing each other on and off but the whole thing was really strange and there were always things stopping us being together and we wouldn't speak for ...

A.   27 March 2011: Well it's natural to want to reconnect :) It also has been a long time and if you want to, go for it! He might be unwilling and you don't know what his situation is or know why he cut you out of his life, but kudos for moving on! :D... (read in full...)

I'm shy around girls. How can I change this?

Q.   This question will probably be very hard to answer. I have huge problems talking to girls, whether they are good-looking or not. I never know what to say or how to be charming and sweet etc. I also have problems talking to guys (making new frie...

A.   27 March 2011: What person isn't shy to a degree? I see your problem. I have an issue with making friends too, especially since changing schools. The person you want to talk to could be as shy as you so you're not alone. But sometimes, you really have to throw the ... (read in full...)

My ex and I are friends, I told him I had sex with someone else and he screamed at me!

Q.   I broke up with my boyfriend of over a year a few weeks ago. Still wanting to remain friends, I decided we should still be able to talk about anything. I had sex with a friend of mine a few days ago. For some INCREDIBLY stupid reason, I told my ex. ...

A.   27 March 2011: Thank You everyone for answers :) I can totally see everyones point! Because he was so jealous, I never made any close girlfriends. He's seriously emotional and I really should give him time. Thank you again!... (read in full...)

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