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Are they THE ONE?

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10 January 2010: A couple of years ago I posted here raising my doubts about the relationship I was in. It seemed perfect in so many ways - best of friends for years, then amicable relationship for about 5 yrs with good communication and few ups and downs, but ...

Anxiety and insomnia problems...

Q.   Does anyone know any good websites for helping with anxiety and insomnia?? I currently have real problems getting to sleep naturally (due to anxiety/panic attacks) and I worry it will affect my life/relationships! I have tried counsell...

A.   18 January 2010: Hi! These are things that have helped me - so you might finf them useful :) - Breathing exercise & visualisation: Sit/stand comfortably with your back straight and imagine yourself as a tree rooted through your feet into the ground, your roo... (read in full...)

We like very different things and I would like to be 99% sure I want to marry him! Advice, please?

Q.   I've been with my bf for about 4 yrs, but have known him for about 7, when we were just good friends. I love him to bits, he's still my best friend in the world, he's kind, considerate, etc etc. my only issues are that we like doing very different ...

A.   10 January 2010: I thought I should update this because so much as changed. I can't emphasise enough - when you know YOU KNOW. I don't believe you need to be 99.9% sure of tying the knot with someone - there is no doubt when you've found THE ONE. Since this rel... (read in full...)

How can I manage to have a normal relationship where sex and love don't have to be separate? Help me.

Q.   Please help. Any advice would be so appreciated. My self destructive behaviour is destroying my relationship happiness. I don't know how to escape it. My dad left when I was two because my mum cheated on him. She then moved my step-dad in str...

A.   9 September 2007: God you sound just like me with regards to how you're feeling and what you are like in relationships.. I'd love to be able to give advice, but I can't give any here. You're not alone though.... (read in full...)

We like very different things and I would like to be 99% sure I want to marry him! Advice, please?

Q.   I've been with my bf for about 4 yrs, but have known him for about 7, when we were just good friends. I love him to bits, he's still my best friend in the world, he's kind, considerate, etc etc. my only issues are that we like doing very different ...

A.   3 September 2007: Thanks. I will organise some 'adventures' and see how it goes - and I guess I should be grateful that he doesn't stop me from doing anything I want to. Not to put an ultimatum time limit on it, but I personally want to achieve a definite conclusion ... (read in full...)

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