Does he take me for granted? Am I not a Priority in his life? NO birthday present from him either!!
Q. Hi all, I need a little help trying to decipher my boyfriend's behaviour over the weekend. We have been together for 6 months and are in a long distance relationship. He is sweet and has had a tough year with his dad dying and moving house a...
A. 26 October 2012: OK everyone,
He still hasn't been in contact with me.
I have been getting on with life but feel as though this needs to be settled. I don't really want to call him but this seems ridiculous!
Should I just leave it alone or send him an email?
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Does he take me for granted? Am I not a Priority in his life? NO birthday present from him either!!
Q. Hi all, I need a little help trying to decipher my boyfriend's behaviour over the weekend. We have been together for 6 months and are in a long distance relationship. He is sweet and has had a tough year with his dad dying and moving house a...
A. 15 October 2012: I am going to give it until the end of the week to see if I hear from him. If I don't, I have already written a letter to email to him. I would prefer to speak to him on the phone but he doesn't answer so an email will have to do!
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Does he take me for granted? Am I not a Priority in his life? NO birthday present from him either!!
Q. Hi all, I need a little help trying to decipher my boyfriend's behaviour over the weekend. We have been together for 6 months and are in a long distance relationship. He is sweet and has had a tough year with his dad dying and moving house a...
A. 14 October 2012: I haven't heard from him since he left my town last Sunday.
I left my phone in his hire car and he had to send it back to me but he has know that I recieved it on Thursday afternoon.
i feel as though this has become a long distance booty c... (read in full...)
Four months absence. Some tips please on how to look amazing for him when he returns and we go on a date together?
Q. I have a boyfriend who has been to america and is home next week. I havent seen him for 4 months as thats how long he goes away for. On his first night back when i will be first seeing him we have arranged to go out for a meal and then onto the...
A. 13 October 2012: You need to play up your best assets. Don't wear too much make up. Be natural. What is his star sign? That is a good way to find out what your man likes.
Most importantly I think that you need to be wearing something new (it always makes you feel... (read in full...)
Does he take me for granted? Am I not a Priority in his life? NO birthday present from him either!!
Q. Hi all, I need a little help trying to decipher my boyfriend's behaviour over the weekend. We have been together for 6 months and are in a long distance relationship. He is sweet and has had a tough year with his dad dying and moving house a...
A. 13 October 2012: I don't know about the porn thing. It is a possiblility. I just get the feeling that he doesn't have the energy for me at the moment. That I am not a priority in his life. Maybe now that we have reached the 6 months point he is wonderng if he c... (read in full...)
Does he take me for granted? Am I not a Priority in his life? NO birthday present from him either!!
Q. Hi all, I need a little help trying to decipher my boyfriend's behaviour over the weekend. We have been together for 6 months and are in a long distance relationship. He is sweet and has had a tough year with his dad dying and moving house a...
A. 13 October 2012: Thank you for the advice. If he had not been through so much this year I would definately be considering breaking up with him. The thing is this: if I break up with him he may consider it as a huge betrayal because this is the time that he really n... (read in full...)
Should I call her and set the record straight?
Q. Hi there, last week I went to dinner at a friend's house. This friend used to be my boss and I met my current boyfriend through her. There were a few women at the dinner party and the topic of conversation got onto sex. I said that I won't do ...
A. 3 September 2012: Thank you. I am an extremely private person so when I let things like this slip I get very paranoid. I agree with everything that you have posted and will not bring it up at all. Thanks again... (read in full...)
Men's advice please on what I should do about very distant man
Q. Hello, I am in a very confused state because of a man I am currently dating. We live in different cities. He is 40 (I am 30) and has recently divorced (seperated for 3 years). The relationship has been great and we are obviously crazy about each...
A. 15 August 2012: Ok, so it has been 5 days since I last contacted him and 8 days since I got his last text.
Do you think that I should text him to tell him that I understand if he needs space and that I am here to listen if he wants to talk OR do I just keep goi... (read in full...)
He just got divorced 3 weeks ago. Is it too soon for him to be dating?
Q. A man that I have been seeing over the past month has been seperated from his wife for 3 years but only got divorced officially 3 weeks ago. He seems fine and happy to move on but do you think it is too early for him to be dating someone else? I ...
A. 14 April 2012: Thank you
I haven't asked him why they divorced but a friend told me that she cheated. Does that make a difference?
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I don't want any drama but feel like I am being taken advantage of....
Q. A man that I was seeing for 3 months has gone overseas. He has been gone for 4 months and I knew as soon as I started dating him that he would be leaving very soon to take this trip. We were crazy for each other so we went ahead and kept dating ...
A. 27 July 2011: These Facebook messages are wall posts. I don't have his password.... (read in full...)
I don't want any drama but feel like I am being taken advantage of....
Q. A man that I was seeing for 3 months has gone overseas. He has been gone for 4 months and I knew as soon as I started dating him that he would be leaving very soon to take this trip. We were crazy for each other so we went ahead and kept dating ...
A. 27 July 2011: This is the reply that I recieved this morning after asking him what the deal was with him meeting up with this girl......
"Yeah, a contact I met when Jack and I were in Cuzco. She is a local and said if I was going to be in Quito to make contact ... (read in full...)
I don't want any drama but feel like I am being taken advantage of....
Q. A man that I was seeing for 3 months has gone overseas. He has been gone for 4 months and I knew as soon as I started dating him that he would be leaving very soon to take this trip. We were crazy for each other so we went ahead and kept dating ...
A. 25 July 2011: I wrote to him this morning and told him that I can see that he is meeting up with someone in Ecuador and what is this?... (read in full...)
I don't want any drama but feel like I am being taken advantage of....
Q. A man that I was seeing for 3 months has gone overseas. He has been gone for 4 months and I knew as soon as I started dating him that he would be leaving very soon to take this trip. We were crazy for each other so we went ahead and kept dating ...
A. 25 July 2011: Further detailed conversation that was on FB this morning: HER: You could go to X , a really nice city, and then to the Y National Park, pretty close to X, it has a lot of lagoons and some wild animals, even condors (but you already watched ... (read in full...)
I don't want any drama but feel like I am being taken advantage of....
Q. A man that I was seeing for 3 months has gone overseas. He has been gone for 4 months and I knew as soon as I started dating him that he would be leaving very soon to take this trip. We were crazy for each other so we went ahead and kept dating ...
A. 25 July 2011: This is the conversation from Facebook:
HIM- Hi ...how are you? I´m flying to Lima from Brazil in a few days...then will be making my way up to Equador! I hope we will get a chance to catch up :)
HER: Jarrah! that's great! sure we will,... (read in full...)
I don't want any drama but feel like I am being taken advantage of....
Q. A man that I was seeing for 3 months has gone overseas. He has been gone for 4 months and I knew as soon as I started dating him that he would be leaving very soon to take this trip. We were crazy for each other so we went ahead and kept dating ...
A. 25 July 2011: I think I should say something just not sure how to go about it........ (read in full...)
I don't want any drama but feel like I am being taken advantage of....
Q. A man that I was seeing for 3 months has gone overseas. He has been gone for 4 months and I knew as soon as I started dating him that he would be leaving very soon to take this trip. We were crazy for each other so we went ahead and kept dating ...
A. 25 July 2011: He hasn't told me exactly when he is getting back but he did hint that it may be at the beginning of October. I'm not really sure, though.... (read in full...)
Should I move on with things? Or do I wait for him?
Q. The man that I have been seeing for the past 3 months left to travel around South America for the next 6 months about 2 weeks ago. We were very much "together" before he went away and spent as much time together in those 3 months as possible. I had ...
A. 30 March 2011: Thanks Kahlan. I will be communicating with him while he is away through email. He has been gone 12 days and I have had 3 emails and a few texts from him.
The day before he left he said that he was not going to be sleeping with anyone. A few week... (read in full...)
He's leaving on a long-planned trip; how do I keep some control?
Q. Hi. I have been seeing a man for 3 months. The very first night that we met, he told me that he was leaving for overseas in March for 7 months and that he wasn't looking for a relationship. I wasn't looking either at the time. We have so much in ...
A. 27 February 2011: Do I stop sleeping with him for now?... (read in full...)
He's leaving on a long-planned trip; how do I keep some control?
Q. Hi. I have been seeing a man for 3 months. The very first night that we met, he told me that he was leaving for overseas in March for 7 months and that he wasn't looking for a relationship. I wasn't looking either at the time. We have so much in ...
A. 27 February 2011: Hi Abella,
Thank you so much for that reply. Really helpful. I know that you are right and a friend said exactly the same thing to me on the phone last night. I just need to keep really busy. I work full time and am studying so I'm sure things w... (read in full...)
His ex is staying over at his house for the weekend - am I wrong to feel hurt?
Q. The man that I have been seeing for just over 2 months has an ex girlfriend coming to stay at his house for the weekend. He still lives with his family so it is a full house. He asked to stay at his place before I met him so he feels as though it is ...
A. 10 February 2011: More detail: They were never an exclusive "item" but were intimate. They are still friends and she is friends with his sister.... (read in full...)
His ex is staying over at his house for the weekend - am I wrong to feel hurt?
Q. The man that I have been seeing for just over 2 months has an ex girlfriend coming to stay at his house for the weekend. He still lives with his family so it is a full house. He asked to stay at his place before I met him so he feels as though it is ...
A. 9 February 2011: Hi Jonas,
His ex will be staying in a spare room. Also, I really don't want to go to the party because I don't like meeting my current boyfriend's exes.......ever! I like to think of them as out of the picture. Why do I need to meet them? I would ... (read in full...)
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