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My girlfriends past annoys me. How can I get over that?

Q.   Hello there, Im think im going nuts over silly things , i fell in love this summer with an amazing girl shes 24 and Im 27. i was working as a scuba diving instructor and one of my brothers mates rang me and asked if he could bring his new girfrien...

A.   21 November 2007: Sounds to me like your jealous at the thought that your girl could be happy with anybody but you. The truth is your not the first love of her life and you cant change that. You need to move on and push your jealousy aside or it will end in tears fo... (read in full...)

Will this long distance relationship work?

Q.   i met a guy trough internet. i never thought that we will connect this much. we are talking for hours every day. i am not sure, but i think that i have feeling for him, and he says that he is in love with me. what should i do? can this kind of ...

A.   21 November 2007: Honestly? No. You've never met the man so how can he be falling in live with you. He could be a complete fake you dont no who your talking to! Don't trust him no matter what. Cupid-oOx 33... (read in full...)

Any ideas as to how I could possibly make it up to her and maybe be have another chance with her?

Q.   Hiya, let me start by saying a few years ago i became unwell (mentaly), a couple who stuck by me through this time, started to have a relationship breakdown. In 05 they split but got back together again a few months later, but obviously wasn't t...

A.   21 November 2007: Heres the thing. You missed the window of oppurtunity and when its gone its gone forever but if your really interested set your phone number to with held (141) And tell her how you feel then reveal your self. It may sound crazy but it worke... (read in full...)

My husband shows zero affection towards me... Am I entitled to divorce him or should I stay for the kids?

Q.   I have not been happily married for about 10 years, but no one would ever know. Through the years, we have had UPS and DOWNS. I have been to marriage counceling ALONE several times to save our marriage. He will not go. My husband is not ...

A.   21 November 2007: Hunny bun. Ino your staying for the kids and everything but you have a major problem. you need to get out and take the kids with you no girl should or deserves too be treated like a piece of dirt. And in your case thats obviously the pr... (read in full...)

I'm rather shy, whereas he's outgoing. Do I have a chance?

Q.   How can you tell if a guy is going to ask you out? Will I ever have a bf? I'm almost 16 and never had a bf because I'm quiet and shy. I like a senior, who I think likes me, but he's outgoing. Do I even have a chance? ...

A.   21 November 2007: Yes. But if you dont try you never succeed. If he likes you, what have you got too loose? Other than not having a hance with him So Go get him ! hes waiting Your... Cupid-oOx 33... (read in full...)

Got a crush on my teacher. I am hoping if I tell him it will go away

Q.   Hi, i need everyones opinion. Dont think of this as ohh its jsut another teacher problem, but actually just tell me an honest answere as i dont know if what im goin to do tomorrow will be a mistake. Okay so i am a senior at my high school and its g...

A.   21 November 2007: Dont tell him. 1. It could ruin your relationship if he doesnt feel the same 2. Its ILEGAL ! Your just going to have to live with that feeling. Dont worry we've all been through it! Anyway hope everything works out perfectly fopr you and if you ... (read in full...)

Anyone with any ideas to get us out of this rut??

Q.   I only get to see my boyfriend a few times a week. We have been going out 2 years and all we seem to do is watch tv and go to the pub. Most nights we only see each other a few hours and i need some ideas as i feel we are stuck in a rut. Anyone got ...

A.   21 November 2007: Sorry to say this but, It's got too end here. It isn't a proper relationship and you dont sound very happy about it. Maybe you'd be happier with somebody else. Alternatively you could talk to him about it and tell him how you feel. Your choi... (read in full...)

Is he attracted to me or is he just doing his job??

Q.   I am a member at my local gym and there is this really nice, kind, attractive instructor there. He has been helping me with my proggramme for about a year now.We laugh together and get on well. I know he has got a girlfriend.He hasn't told me but s...

A.   21 November 2007: Do you like him? There are a few questions you have to ask yourself, If he is attracted to you like you say he is, maybe your doing his girlfriend a favor?! It sounds like he does have a bit of a crush on you and if he didn't have a girlfriend i... (read in full...)

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