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My home is a battleground..my wife and my oldest son are bickering all the time!

Q.   I am 35 years old and have been married for 10 years now. I have 3 kids the oldest is 11 and from a relationship the other 2 are with my wife. For the past couple years things have been pretty bad at home fighting, bickering, major tension between ...

A.   20 December 2005: Step-families require a delicate touch. But for a start, an 11 year old should not feel free to 'bicker' with a parental figure - he needs to be respectful of her. Her own children will have grown up under this discpline and she should not have to ... (read in full...)

Dating my bf for 6 months..so do I buy gifts for his cousins and brothers, too?

Q.   Should I buy my bf's cousins and brothers present for christmas? i've only been going with my bf for 6 months and i'm thinking of just getting him cologne for christmas but now I have like 5 other people I was thinking of getting stuff more--not ...

A.   20 December 2005: Card will do. Gifts are tokens of affection, and certainly shouldn't be expected by his family from you. A card saying how pleased you are to know them and how much you're looking forward to getting to know them more will mean more than stuff.... (read in full...)

This new bf is wonderful so why...do I still feel like I am not worthy?

Q.   Why do you think a 24 year old would want to date a 20 year old? I mean, there's more to it than age, but I was never the type of girl that got asked out by guys because I was overweight and had low self esteem and bad skin. I grew up never thinking ...

A.   20 December 2005: Maybe now isn't the best time for you to be in a relationship if you can't accept love. You need to know that you're worthy of him before he will be able to convince you, otherwise you're placing his opinion higher than your own and devaluing ... (read in full...)

My guy has to get permission from Mum before he can see me. Is this a deal-breaker?

Q.   I am 18 and have been dating a guy of 19 for seven months. I believe he is my one true love. His mother is possessive and controlling, and he has to ask her for permission to see me. She often says no. He lives around the corner and this is killing ...

A.   20 December 2005: The real question is why does he let his mother control him like this? People can only control you as much as you let them. When I was dating my husband we had a similar jealousy issue with his step-mother. In the end we just told her 'tough ... (read in full...)

When my girlfriend is more horny than I am, she guilts me into sex, then says "forget it!"

Q.   Hi, basically my girlfriend is horny 24/7 and always wants sex any given moment. I like sex, but I'm not as horny as her! Whenever I'm not in the mood and I'd much rather sleep, I just say "I don't feel like having sex tonight babe", or somethin...

A.   20 December 2005: No, but when she says forget it, forget it! There's no woman on earth who would want to sleep with a man who doesn't want to sleep with her. If your sex drives don't match, she has to decide whether it is a problem for her or not. Sounds like ... (read in full...)

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