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I'm 15 years old. My friends aren't really that supportive or helpfull and keeping a relationship is tough. I dont alway make the right choices but I try. Idk who to go to for advise so I did research and found this website. So far it has helpped and I hope it continues to help.

My parents have killed my social life!

Q.   Im 18 years old with absolutely no social life! guess who i blame???? My Parents!!!! Yes i knw if you look at it why blame your parents???..they love u..look out for you..protect you..blah blah but there is a limit! Well let me tell you why........

A.   2 January 2011: It may be because if their past. Maybe they made mistakes and they don't want you making the same.... (read in full...)

Am I too close to my best friend?

Q.   My friend, who is a girl, and I are best friends. We are really close and I trust her with almost everything. We have sleepovers a lot and always sleep in same bed and cuddle. Is that wrong? sometimes we stay up all night just hugging or rubbing ...

A.   2 January 2011: No not at all..... Me and my friend are the same wag. We rub eagothwr backs and everything. It's like people think were lesbians but were like sisters... (read in full...)

Does the crying means he does love me?

Q.   My boyfriend of six months, never once saw him cry, Told me how much he loves me and tears rolled down his face. He said I'm the only good thing in his life and he would take a bullet for me. I'm only 15 and he's 16. Is it possible he really loves ...

A.   2 January 2011: Thank you so much. I have been let down by many people in my life.. my biological dad abused me and my step dad lost the rights to see me due to drugs. I just get scared and worried.......... (read in full...)

I can't figure her out!

Q.   I ended a relationship 6 months ago and have been enjoying single life again while getting my life back on track. 2 months ago on a night out with mates, a girl said she recognized me and we chatted for a bit and that was that. She found me o...

A.   2 January 2011: I know from experience.... She was just looking for a little fun.... (read in full...)

How can I protect my friend from getting hurt?

Q.   How can I help my friend not get hurt? She and this guy (who is three years older than her) have been flirting with eachother a while now. And she's confessed to me recently that her feelings for him are getting stronger. This guy has hurt one of ...

A.   31 December 2010: The only thing you can really do is stick by her. Almost every teenager goes through something like this. There's not much you can do cause she's not going to listen. Just show her your there no matter what and you will always be there. So when it ... (read in full...)

Fight or flight - is it even worth it

Q.   So I've been dating this guy for four months, passionate, loving, attentive and productive relationship. The problem, I was the "other women" - wait, let me explain. He isnt married to her, never has been, they have a baby together, a son (now 7 ...

A.   31 December 2010: I think that's just wrong. Yes it's his son two but talking about getting back togeather. That's bull you can do better. If he loves you he would do anything. So don't stick around . He may cone running back to you. But your causing yourself to much ... (read in full...)

I'm telling the truth but she doesn't believe me!

Q.   me and my girlfriend got in to a argument and the first time we did i walked out and and got drunk and the first time we started talking i slept with a girl but it was nothing a one time thing. now She also dosent believe that i was at home in my ...

A.   31 December 2010: Well if course she's not going to believe you! She's prolly very hurt.. I would be to. I bet she dies believe you. She prolly just wants to prove a point and make it so you never want to do that to her again. Just remind her how much you love her ... (read in full...)

How can you tell when the guy is in it just for sex?

Q.   How do you tell when a guy is only in it for the sex? How can you tell? I just want some advise on things that guys might do if they are only in it for the sex. ...

A.   31 December 2010: I'm going through the same thing. And now that's we have had sex I'm afraid if I stop he won't want to stay in the relatioonship. I love this guy but I'm not sure if he loves me. So I'm going to leave him and see what he does. You should try it. If ... (read in full...)

Will the hurt ever go away, or should I cut my losses and apply for a divorce and let 10 years of marriage go down the drain?

Q.   My husband had a one night stand with a "friend" of mine. I am not sure that I can forgive or forget it. I have tried and we have done the counsleing deal, but I have so much anger inside of me, because I feel as if he has brought this into our ...

A.   31 December 2010: Either move on. Or forgive and forget. People make mistakes but you should prob forget. It's not fair to him or you. I bet he's sorry and he can't change what he's done. I know it's hard. But everything happens for a reason. Hope this helped... (read in full...)

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