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Struggling to cope after miscarriage and now I am insecure he has cheated! Help!

Q.   Hi long story now but here goes. I had a miscarriage 3 weeks ago and I had to have an CRPC to remove what was left. After that I came home. Me and bf were both very upset about it but he has also been quite insensitive at times, i.e. on the evening ...

A.   5 December 2011: So I'm confused, did he Actully cheat or didn't he? If he did and you guys are going threw this tough period then leave him! If he realy loves you, he would have supported you and kept you company, a baby is a serious thing, and hurts emotionally, ... (read in full...)

Am I wrong to be so upset? Why did my husband have to snap back and say such a harsh thing to me in front of company?

Q.   Ok so I was out to dinner with my husband 31 and I'm 23, we were with his best friend and girl friend of that bestfriend. we were about to make an order and my husband goes "umm do you have meat here?" He was asking for somthing specific but I'm ...

A.   5 December 2011: Yes I can understand how that could come off rude, guess I assumed he got my humor, though it wasn't funny,and yes he should of pulled me to the side and said somthing, not yell at me and make a low comment like that, I'm not just some girl! He ... (read in full...)

I'd like if she had a threesome!

Q.   I'd enjoy if my wife has a MMF threesome but she doesnt know this fantasy i have. What do i do? Should i ask her? I think she would never does such thing like that but anyway i want this!...

A.   27 September 2011: Well coming from being a wife and knowing my husband would like one too. I found it disrespectful, you married her to be with only her not somone else. Sex is a very intimate thing, bringing someone else in the picture doesint seem like your taking ... (read in full...)

Can sperm swim in water?

Q.   I know this is a bit of a daft question, but can sperm swim in water? Like if you're fooling around in the bath and the guy comes, if you're not on any sort of contraception is there a risk, however slight, of getting pregnant? Thanks for any ...

A.   25 September 2011: umm, im not 100% sure but i belive sperm die in hot water, and men have a lower sperm count in hot water to i belive. they say it all the time about being in a jacuzii but then again its just a saying.... (read in full...)

2 year anniversary, no gift???

Q.   So I've been married for 7 months now, still fresh! And me and my hubby are very much in love. We have been officially dating for 2 years now last week. We had a talk after we were married that wed still celebrate our dating anniversary as well as ...

A.   12 September 2011: Thanx for the help! I'll deff talk to him... When I gave him the gift he was extremely excited n happy. He thanked me and asked me how I got it hear consider the size of it, he enjoyed my story. I'd say he probably felt akward as well since he ... (read in full...)

I'm very pregnant and he's spending all his time at work

Q.   Hi everybody, I am currently heavily pregnant with my first baby, whose due in about 4 weeks, and I've been having a really rough pregnancy, despite all the usual complaints associated with having a baby, my dad's been in hospital recently, and my h...

A.   12 September 2011: I feel for you, I'm not prego but I have been married for 7 months and my husband has a very busy job always working, always on phone, we hardly do it cuz he's to tired n watches his tv. Obviously your gunna tell him its a girl, but the right mo... (read in full...)

Has anyone worried about having an unattractive child?

Q.   so this isnt a bf/gf type question but i do need a bit of advice. Has anyone ever been worried about having an unattractive child? It may seem selfish....but i cant believe im the only one who has ever worried. Help please?...

A.   12 September 2011: Yep! Your not alone.. I get it, obviously your going to love your baby no matter what!!! Your only human to think about that, the only reason why people don't talk about it is because there baby is ugly lol no affense but no body will say there ... (read in full...)

All of my best friends keep leaving me or hurting me, what am I doing wrong?

Q.   I had a best friend for 7 years, and we fought all the time, but we were like sisters, inseparable! Always there for each other. Then a new girl came along and screwed everything up, try to turn us against each other. I was going through a personal ...

A.   21 May 2011: I don't believe I did anything, I dnt do drugs, I dnt drink, I dnt party 24/7, I'm very respectful towards everyone. I dnt lie or make ppl do it or do bad things. I'm the kind of person that if you need me ill be right there. And if I do something ... (read in full...)

Why doesn't my hubby want to make love to me?

Q.   I'm newly married for 3 months n I'm 22 and my husband is 30. I was a virgin when I married him and he is not. From what he says he's had many girlfriends and had sex with lots of people, obviously he went through that clubbing and player stage. ...

A.   19 May 2011: I think he may be dealing with the 1st category. So let's hope my life gets easier, all those girl before must have screwed him but big time, and I'm dealing with the affects of it. Let's hope things change... (read in full...)

How do I get my hubby to tone it down a little?

Q.   Hi, i need some advice. My husband speak loud. He said this is his normal way of talking. Im trying to get used to it. The problem is im having now a nervous attack. Only one little loud thing i got totally nervous. I try hard to explain that to ...

A.   18 May 2011: Well I'm Italian and that runs in my fam, no changing it, I even do it sometimes, I hate it but its out of habit. So if he's Italian or some type of Europen like Portuguese ect that may be it. They do have anger management classes though, or maybe ... (read in full...)

Why doesn't my hubby want to make love to me?

Q.   I'm newly married for 3 months n I'm 22 and my husband is 30. I was a virgin when I married him and he is not. From what he says he's had many girlfriends and had sex with lots of people, obviously he went through that clubbing and player stage. ...

A.   18 May 2011: Yea I def wanna give him a 3 strike thing, your right also about the NICE girl bit. He always said that, and his cousins to, I'm totally getting that after math feeling now. I hope thats not how he realy thinks though, then that would suck, its like ... (read in full...)

Why doesn't my hubby want to make love to me?

Q.   I'm newly married for 3 months n I'm 22 and my husband is 30. I was a virgin when I married him and he is not. From what he says he's had many girlfriends and had sex with lots of people, obviously he went through that clubbing and player stage. ...

A.   17 May 2011: Thanx guys I will try to talk to him just two days ago I said we should go to a counceler, but he dosint believe In them. We are very religious Christians and as long as you trust in god marriage will be fine. So its gunna be tough to get the ... (read in full...)

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