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Do you think i"ve made a mistake?

Q.   Mod Note:Posters Title was not available I just broke up with my boyfriend of four years and I already feel horrible. I've been waiting for him to get his act together for years; he was a high achiever when he was younger and now he's stuck in a rut....

A.   31 July 2010: give it time....only you will know if its a mistake or not!! 4 years is a long time so you are gonna feel lost... Why not talk to him..tell him why you felt you needed to part..maybe its the kick up the bum he needs x Chin up sugar x ... (read in full...)

He wants me to choose between him and his brother...

Q.   I have a boyfriend and we have been going out for a long time i love him a lot and his older brother is my best friend. His brother was acting a little wierd around me and then he told me that he loved me and that i have to chose between him and his ...

A.   31 July 2010: you dont have to choose!! You need to tell your friend that you dont feel the same way but you do value his friendship and want it to carry on and he shouldnt be asking you to choose....its not fair on you being punished for his feelings! If he i... (read in full...)

How to help a shy man...

Q.   i've been trying to find a girlfriend for my very shy friend. But they won't go out with him just because he is shy. He thinks women don't like shy men that they want confident men. He thinks he wasting his time trying because he is shy....

A.   31 July 2010: Not all woman want bold bulshy characters. Shy is not a bad thing at all.... He might have to work on the confidence thing as no one likes having a conversation where they feel like they're pulling teeth. But i'm sure shy works for most of us...... (read in full...)

Do I need to worry about my boyfriends girl-mate?

Q.   Hi, I've been with my bf 5 months now and I know that isnt too long but I really feel strongly about him and things have been pretty perfect until very recently. He was staying over with me the other night when his friend called him up at 450am so...

A.   27 July 2010: Pardon!!! I love you too?? No I feel your pain babe... I would be devastated if i would've heard that but you do have remember that we're not all after someone elses man. Maybe they are just friends and he is her support, maybe she likes him and ... (read in full...)

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