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How do I break the link with this married man?

Q.   I'm 40 something married for 14 years and very much hopelessly in love with another man. I noticed him for the first time 3 years ago. Before then he was completely invisible to me in social settings with my husband. We collided while traveling to a ...

A.   28 July 2009: My husband has heard it in all forms. He flat-lined on our honeymoon 14 years ago and has never showed signs of improvement. I'm exhausted past the point of illustration and appeals to meet my needs. He is by nature consistently slow to act on any ... (read in full...)

I'm the Other Woman...How do I break away from this man?

Q.   I need help! Help me get over this mm, I don’t like this relationship that I’m in, as good, great and as much as I love it.. I don’t want to be the other woman.. it hurts.. hurts like hell!!! So help me… how do I break away from this man! I’m ...

A.   28 July 2009: Believe me. I understand. People will judge either way so try not to tell if you can. The negative feedback will make it worse. The best cure is logic and the effective use of time away. Get busy doing stuff, work, activities, volunteering anything ... (read in full...)

How do I break the link with this married man?

Q.   I'm 40 something married for 14 years and very much hopelessly in love with another man. I noticed him for the first time 3 years ago. Before then he was completely invisible to me in social settings with my husband. We collided while traveling to a ...

A.   28 July 2009: Thank you for the newest comments. I agree with some and welcome all. A wise woman should never get involved with an entangled married man. Because of organized societal structure unenlightened persons cannot be objective in such matters to include ... (read in full...)

How do I break the link with this married man?

Q.   I'm 40 something married for 14 years and very much hopelessly in love with another man. I noticed him for the first time 3 years ago. Before then he was completely invisible to me in social settings with my husband. We collided while traveling to a ...

A.   27 July 2009: Never implied I'd coldly decided to help myself to another woman's man. It sounds so removed and inconsiderate. Re-read completely the storyline and keep in mind these further posts are merely updates. Obviously, I'm considerate to consult with ... (read in full...)

How do I break the link with this married man?

Q.   I'm 40 something married for 14 years and very much hopelessly in love with another man. I noticed him for the first time 3 years ago. Before then he was completely invisible to me in social settings with my husband. We collided while traveling to a ...

A.   26 July 2009: Thank you for understanding. Now here's the kicker. I tried unsuccessfully to break with him over the phone a couple of days ago. He said he has deep feelings for me and wants to allow it to develop. He says he wasn't looking for this to happen, but ... (read in full...)

How do I break the link with this married man?

Q.   I'm 40 something married for 14 years and very much hopelessly in love with another man. I noticed him for the first time 3 years ago. Before then he was completely invisible to me in social settings with my husband. We collided while traveling to a ...

A.   22 July 2009: Thanks for the input. Composing this SOS yesterday actually prompted me to address with my husband the underlying issues forcing my hand. The goal was to break with my love interest. I started the evening mourning the loss of my 3 year love affair. ... (read in full...)

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