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Hurt and confused after she breaks it off, what should I do?

Q.   So I had been seeing this woman for about 6 months. She is older than me. I am 29 and she is 42 but I the age difference has never been an issue as she has always dated younger guys. We really hit it off and have a lot in common and have gotten ...

A.   8 May 2013: Thank you both for your lengthy answers. I have to accept it if she has a near zero tolerance for alcohol use. Do I have to fully understand it? No, I just don't understand how she was fine with me having a drink or two when we'd go out, but the one ... (read in full...)

I thought she was interested but now I haven't heard from her in days. What now?

Q.   So I met this girl and got her number. I called her up a few days later and left her a voicemail about getting together. Almost two days passed and I didn't hear from her and then she texted me. We set up a date for the next week. It went extremely ...

A.   13 September 2012: Yeah well in my opinion ignoring someone instead of telling them you aren't interested is pretty distasteful and disrespectful. The idea that someone is "too nice to say no" is ridiculous. People need to grow up and tell people how they feel instead ... (read in full...)

I thought she was interested but now I haven't heard from her in days. What now?

Q.   So I met this girl and got her number. I called her up a few days later and left her a voicemail about getting together. Almost two days passed and I didn't hear from her and then she texted me. We set up a date for the next week. It went extremely ...

A.   13 September 2012: Thanks. So it wouldn't be a good idea even to send her a text a few days from now to just see what's up?... (read in full...)

Would a girl say yes when you ask her out and give you her phone number if she weren't interested?

Q.   I finally got the courage to ask out this girl I've had a crush on for a while. She said yes but said she was busy this week but maybe we could get together next week or this weekend sometime. I asked for her phone number and she gave it to me no ...

A.   21 May 2010: Well that is rather annoying and I wish girls wouldn't do that. It's not fair at all to the guy to say yes to his offer for a date, only to reject him after the date. Not fair. Girls, stop doing stuff like that, its cruel and its not fair to the ... (read in full...)

Would a girl say yes when you ask her out and give you her phone number if she weren't interested?

Q.   I finally got the courage to ask out this girl I've had a crush on for a while. She said yes but said she was busy this week but maybe we could get together next week or this weekend sometime. I asked for her phone number and she gave it to me no ...

A.   21 May 2010: Well that is rather annoying and I wish girls wouldn't do that. It's not fair at all to the guy to say yes to his offer for a date, only to reject him after the date. Not fair. Girls, stop doing stuff like that, its cruel and its not fair to the ... (read in full...)

Should I confess everything to my husband?

Q.   i am a wife n a mother. i have been married for the last 5yrs. my husband has gone for offshore job for 2-3 months. last sunday i had sex with my brother-in-law. from that time i am really feeling guilty. should i confess everything to my husband?...

A.   20 January 2010: I think your hustband has a right to now. Keeping this from him is the same as lying to him and deceiving him. He doesn't deserve that. Believe me, I learned the hard way what happens if you keep things from someone and lie to them. You need to ... (read in full...)

How do I get my ex to forgive me for what I did?

Q.   This past December, I reconciled with my ex after a 9 month breakup. Before that breakup, we had been together for 4 years. We were engaged to be married. We weren't getting a long and I started to get cold feet. We were fighting all the time and I ...

A.   20 January 2010: Oh god, to think that I screwed her life up is killing me. To think that she is broken is not a good feeling. To think that I let a good one get away is killing me. I don't know how to live with myself. Another detail I didn't mention in my origi... (read in full...)

How do I get my ex to forgive me for what I did?

Q.   This past December, I reconciled with my ex after a 9 month breakup. Before that breakup, we had been together for 4 years. We were engaged to be married. We weren't getting a long and I started to get cold feet. We were fighting all the time and I ...

A.   19 January 2010: Anonymous - thank you for your input. This is really hard but what else can I do. I wish I never put her through this. I learned a very important lesson, even though I learned it the hard way, and that is to always be honest with people no matter ... (read in full...)

How do I get my ex to forgive me for what I did?

Q.   This past December, I reconciled with my ex after a 9 month breakup. Before that breakup, we had been together for 4 years. We were engaged to be married. We weren't getting a long and I started to get cold feet. We were fighting all the time and I ...

A.   18 January 2010: soon567, did you read my original question? I don't get your last paragraph. Where did I say I dumped her before our wedding? That isn't what happened. We weren't getting along and I got cold feet and we kind of both called it off but stayed ... (read in full...)

How do I get my ex to forgive me for what I did?

Q.   This past December, I reconciled with my ex after a 9 month breakup. Before that breakup, we had been together for 4 years. We were engaged to be married. We weren't getting a long and I started to get cold feet. We were fighting all the time and I ...

A.   18 January 2010: I know this affecting her. I didn't mean to seem like I only cared about how I felt. I care about how she feels too. I know I learned a lesson from this. I just wish that this never happened. I still love her and that is why I have let her go. I ... (read in full...)

How do I get my ex to forgive me for what I did?

Q.   This past December, I reconciled with my ex after a 9 month breakup. Before that breakup, we had been together for 4 years. We were engaged to be married. We weren't getting a long and I started to get cold feet. We were fighting all the time and I ...

A.   17 January 2010: soon567, I really wish you wouldn't portray me as some awful, terrible person. You don't really know me so I think that isn't fair of you to paint me as some kind of villian. This was the only bad thing I ever did to this woman. I loved her with all ... (read in full...)

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