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My husband's mistress faked a pregnancy!

Q.   My husband's mistress faked a pregnancy and he asked her to terminate the pregnancy. They had many ugly fights following that. Then he finally told me yesterday that she said she isn't pregnant and just wanted to see if he cares about her. Since ...

A.   9 February 2011: I have to say, your husband doesn't seem to be a very nice person. You have obviously accepted him having someone else as well as you, but I would worry that he is a selfish person, and that he wishes to take what he wants with no conseque... (read in full...)

Is my husband gay or bi? What should I do???

Q.   My husband (of 27 years) was sexually abused when he was 8, by a man. Over a year ago I caught him looking at gay porn. He said he does not enjoy it does not masturbate to it, that it is just some sick obsession he has, almost like a self ...

A.   9 February 2011: Definitely you should support him to go ahead and get some counselling. Often, the abused become the abusers ... I am not saying he is doing this, but he is looking. He has been emotionally and mentally scarred by the bad experience he had, and... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is distant and she acts like I don't exist! What should I do?

Q.   Recently, my girlfriend has become distant, especially since her mum and son went on holiday. Now, she's acting like I don't exist anymore. What should I do? ...

A.   9 February 2011: It depends on the reason for her distance. You haven't given much information on your relationship with her, and whether you have had any problems. How well do you know her? Take the time to talk to her gently and without any anger about wh... (read in full...)

Try to get back together or let her go?

Q.   So here is the deal; Me and my girlfriend were together for almost two years and everything went fine. Sure we had our little arguments but we never had a real fight. It always felt like we completed each other in many ways. Then a few months a...

A.   9 February 2011: well, I have a feeling that if it didn't work once, then its unlikely to work again :( Its best to always move forwards. I know you have learned that the way you behaved was wrong, but its so easy to slip back into the way we really are inside, ... (read in full...)

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