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Its like we never broke up, why is this happening?

Q.   Hi ok so me and this guy were together for a year he tells me he wants to be friends .... So i agree then he says that he wants to stay in my life we now have been having sex alot like every weekend so its like we never broke up why is this ...

A.   8 August 2011: Most likely throughout the week, he's having sex with somebody else. He still wants the physical part of a relationship with you, but not the total package. You're better than that! Go be with someone that wants ALL of you!!... (read in full...)

Help me get over my baby daddy

Q.   I am 24 years old with 2 little girls, a 3 yr old and a 7 month old. I was with my boyfriend for 15 months, I got pregnant right away. During a routine ultrasound, it was discovered that our baby will be born with spina bifida. That's when the spine ...

A.   14 August 2010: mb0000, no I am not with him anymore. I don't even speak to him. He refuses to be a part of our daughter's life so he's not worth it-at all! I've moved to another city, working full time and in school. I'm also doing it all by myself!! So all in ... (read in full...)

Please help.. she tried to make me jealous I think, and it worked!

Q.   i am a 24 yrs old male. i had a sex with my coworker who already has 3 kids and is 29 yrs old. she is divoreced and loves sex. we had it for 3 times now.it was my 1st time in life that i had sex with her. but now, i think i am really serious with...

A.   10 August 2009: She's just using you for the sex and not wanting to date you. But if she does want to date you, she's going about it a very, very immature way. Trying to make you jealous by talking about other guys to you. Women can tell when a guy likes them and ... (read in full...)

Just out of a bad relationship and this other guy wants to date me. How do I tell him...I'm not ready!!

Q.   I just got out of a tumultuous relationship with my child's father. I don't want to be in another relationship right away. I just want to hang out, mostly by myself, go back to school, take care of my girls and just get a grip on life. But my ...

A.   10 August 2009: Yeah, I do admit it does sound like a date, but like I said, I told him I wasn't ready. Whenever I do decide to date again, I don't want to date him! A part of the reason we broke up beforehand was because I felt like he wasn't family or husband ... (read in full...)

I don't know how to handle my step-dad without hurting anyone?

Q.   I dont know what to do, my step dad has just told me he has feelings for me. I have no feeling for him, apart from him being my step dad . What do i do , i dont want to tell my mum. She is in love with him. I love her and dont want to hurt her by...

A.   10 August 2009: Definitely tell your mother. You think that you would be hurting her by telling her, but he's hurting her by coming on to you, his wife's daughter. How long has he been your step-father?... (read in full...)

I'm becoming attracted to me best friend's ex.

Q.   i've started flirting with my best friend's ex girl, i never thought of her as atractive till she told me about her sexual fantasies and such, now i feel like i'd love to tap that, but what do i do?...

A.   10 August 2009: Don't do it! If he's really your best friend, you wouldn't want to hurt him. You can, I guess, ask him if he wouldn't mind, but either way, you're taking a chance of ruining a friendship, so is she really worth it?... (read in full...)

Please help.. she tried to make me jealous I think, and it worked!

Q.   i am a 24 yrs old male. i had a sex with my coworker who already has 3 kids and is 29 yrs old. she is divoreced and loves sex. we had it for 3 times now.it was my 1st time in life that i had sex with her. but now, i think i am really serious with...

A.   10 August 2009: Umm, I think you're looking too much into this. I've been in situations like this before and I've had to tell the guy so many times, it was just sex. I don't want a relationship. Don't let sex be the thing that decides a relationship. If you truly, ... (read in full...)

Help me get over my baby daddy

Q.   I am 24 years old with 2 little girls, a 3 yr old and a 7 month old. I was with my boyfriend for 15 months, I got pregnant right away. During a routine ultrasound, it was discovered that our baby will be born with spina bifida. That's when the spine ...

A.   10 August 2009: I just want to say thanks again! I think I'm doing fine about everything. I think I'm over him. He just left here because I asked him to go to the store and get some Motrin for the baby. It's been one week since he's seen her, he didn't even sit ... (read in full...)

I have a boyfriend, but my parents don't want me to be with him cause of his race! I don't know what to do

Q.   Hi, I'm a 16 year old girl who lives with parents, grandma, and two siblings. About a year and a half ago I met the man of my life. I was only 15 and it sounds crazy but NOW I know he's the one I want. I'm gonna turn 17 in about 3 months. The prob...

A.   10 August 2009: I am so sorry! I had the same problem with my mom when I was 19. I'm black and I fell for a white guy and we eventually became engaged. My mom threw a fit! She told me, she did not want to meet him, or have anything whatsoever to do with me again! ... (read in full...)

How do I tell him he's become unattractive to me now?

Q.   Lately I haven't been sexually attracted to my fiance, and have been looking more at other men and women. His weight gain has increased so much, and I think that this could be why i'm so uninterested. I don't know how I would go about telling him ...

A.   10 August 2009: I personally think that you would hurt him MORE if you didn't tell him and go ahead and cheat on him, than if you told him that his increased weight has become a problem for you. I think that it would be fair to the both of you if you did tell him. ... (read in full...)

Help me get over my baby daddy

Q.   I am 24 years old with 2 little girls, a 3 yr old and a 7 month old. I was with my boyfriend for 15 months, I got pregnant right away. During a routine ultrasound, it was discovered that our baby will be born with spina bifida. That's when the spine ...

A.   8 August 2009: I just want to say thank you guys so much for your responses. I'm sitting here crying because all that you're saying is true. I know it's true because I've told myself the exact same thing, what ALL of you have said. I'm going back to school at the ... (read in full...)

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