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| | *handra Mcmillan's profile:I am a 20 year old women and to younger people I have not long been through what they are goign through now. However I have had a rough life in some ways. My parents were good to me so i was lucky in that aspect. However I was raped at the age of 14 by 2 men and have suffered with nightmares counceling and even having HIV tests, Luckyly I was clean and I am fighting my past but some are still struggling.
I have 2 teenage step kids and am in a relationship with a man who is 38 I am engaged and we have been together for 5 years in May.
I may not be a doctor, a counclor or even a columnist but I am great at advice and I never judge.
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| Latest articles: Rape victims afraid - I am one but I am not frightened.
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5 October 2008: At 14 years old I was a rebel a girl who thought she could handle herself, go out drinking, sleep with men and do as she wished. I learnt the hard way, as I journied home I was pulled into an alley and brutally beaten and raped by 2 grown men. They ...
Live Life,Love Life,
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5 October 2008: The world has changed so much in the past ten years. Children believing that losing weight and not eating is the best thing to do. People getting in to Debt they know they can never get themselves out of. Teenagers getting pregnant and even though a ...
An older Boyfriend and 2 teenage step-kids at 16
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4 October 2008: In 2004 after turning 16 years old I visited my sister at Uni and we went out to a night out and started getting bothered by a very drunk and aggressive man. I thought I could handle it but before long he was becoming increasingly rough and ...
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Can I find out who the semen belongs to?
Q. Hello,i recently found out my wife cheated on me about 2 months ago. is there any way i can find out who it was with? if i find semen anywhere in my house can i some how get it tested to see who it belongs to.what if i have a suspect and have him ...
A. 5 October 2008: Jim, I am sorry to hear that your wife has been unfaithful. There is testing that can be done on Seman however, you would need a sample of the collected seman and a sample of the persons you beleive it is. It would cost a hell of a lot of money and ... (read in full...)
I get orgasms from porn but not from my boyfriend. Why?
Q. I don't get turned on at all nor do I climax during sex. I usually get wet at the beginning but after a short while I dry up and I lose interest and things start to get mechanical. I just can't seem to be in the mood for sex. I'm not sure if it has ...
A. 5 October 2008: Sex is somthing that you can experiment with and dont forget that. Ask him what his fantasys are what he has always longed to do, ask him if he would like to have porn on whilst your having sex.
Massage and stimulation are great to spice up the ... (read in full...)
We had great sex - but am I in love with him?
Q. This is really difficult to write about because I'm hurting so much but I need advice. About 2 months ago I became romantically involved with my best friend. We basically grew closer and closer and then he moved in to a flat literally 5 mins wal...
A. 5 October 2008: Hi, Love and Sex are weired things to mix up. I think it is tough on both you and him. He is most likely trying to stay friends with you because you mean to much to him to just constantly have sex with. He see's you as a trusted, respectable friend. ... (read in full...)
I give him oral, but he doesn't orgasm. Why not?
Q. right i have just started giving my boyfriend (of 6 months) blow jobs, i have gave him two so far but he hasnt ever cum. he seems like he enjoys it because recently when i did it he was gripping hold of the metal bars on his bed and holding my h...
A. 5 October 2008: I dont think it is all about not doing it for long enough. Maybe he doesnt want to cum because he is afraid he will get it in your mouth and you would be mad. It might also be he holds back so you can do it for longer and it hightens 4play. tell him ... (read in full...)
Should my partner and I of 6 months (age difference 18-25) have a baby?
Q. I want to have a baby. I'm 18, and my boyfriend is 25. I know I sound like a massive bogan saying this - but I'm not. I work in a hospital and I am currently studying nursing and health services managment and a good university in Queensland. My ...
A. 5 October 2008: Hi, I would say that the age difference and your age is fine to have a baby. However you still live with your mum and dad and your partner lives with a house mate. You are trying to become a nurse. You have so much time to have children and your ... (read in full...)
I feel like a failed mother as my son masturbates all the time.
Q. I am I concerned mother, my son is 14 years old, and he masturbates, but the thing is that, he masturbates anywhere he wants, last night we were having dinner, whith my husband, my other son and my two daughters, and he just started masturbating ...
A. 5 October 2008: The way your son is acting is strange to me. A lot of boys now a days are open in sayin things to their mates and even their parents about masterbating and their other sexual experiences. but getting his little brother to do it too him is incest and ... (read in full...)
I don't know why I am bleeding?
Q. i dont know why i am bleeding. okay so i stopped havin sex wit my boyfriend because our annaversery was coming up and i wanted to make him wait for about 6 weeks.but i jus told him i didnt want to have sex anymore. right after i told him i had my p...
A. 4 October 2008: Hi, the advice I can give is to go to see your GP and ask them if there is anything that can cause this type of bleeding. I would also say that no one should ever have to do anything they dont want to. Please dont allow your boyfriend to treat you ... (read in full...)
Is it weird for a 24-year-old to be dating me, an underage girl?
Q. i have a boyfriend thats 24 and am 13.....i need help dont know what to do is it wierd for him to love me ?or is he a rapist and am i stupid for dating him ?...
A. 4 October 2008: Hi I would say that people can fall in love at any age but at 24 he should no that dating a 13 year old is not right. It is staturary rape even if you concent. The law and your parents might not see him as you do. He may have a thing for younger ... (read in full...)
Am I gay, or is this just my hormones at the age of 17?
Q. Ok, I am 17. I dont have anything against being gay but i definitely dont want to be gay. I can masturbate to both gay porn and straight porn. It is easier for me to orgasm with gay, but i still get erections looking at straight porn videos. Am i g...
A. 4 October 2008: I would say that if you are not actually thinkin about men in a sexual nature then you may just have a bit of a kinky mind. What difference is there in men watching lesbian porn and gay porn. It also depends on what you actually get excited about. ... (read in full...)
Could the past sexual abuse from my ex, be the cause of this pain?
Q. I'm really scared right now. I think something is really wrong with me. Earlier this year I was in an abusive relationship. In particular my bf was sexually abusive towards me. Ever since then, my clitoris has been really painful to the slightest...
A. 4 October 2008: Hi this is a possible medicle explanation and I am not saying you are unclean but this happens in a lot of women who bath all the time but sometimes it can be from rubbing of clothing or even in rare cases too much sex in a row or washing and ... (read in full...)
How can I be a better sister if he hates me?
Q. Hi. Sorry it’s so long. I'm 16 years old. I’ve written on this subject before, but now things are much worse. My brother has aspergers syndrome, which is on the autism spectrum. It means, among other things, that he is very narrow minded, quick to...
A. 4 October 2008: I know that the advice I give is not from some one who has or is going through what you are goign through and I do not live in the environment with you and your brother. Your brother does not hate you as you have said he gets angry easily and this ... (read in full...)
Does multiple partners (60 plus) "tear up" a womans vagina?
Q. Does multiple partners (60+) "tear up" a womans vagina?...
A. 4 October 2008: Having multiple partners is not something that can cause serious problems to my knowledge. However all men are built in different ways and their penis's are different widths, lengths and even curve differently. Too much sex can make you painfull and ... (read in full...)
I am very lonely, no one seems interested in having new friends.
Q. I have previously posted about 7 months ago saying......"been feeling quiet lonley now i have graduated from uni recently and all my friends have moved away and the ones that stayed are more friendly with my ex. me and ex dated all through uni but ...
A. 4 October 2008: The world is changing and people dont seem to have time to speak to each other. Uni is a great time whilst its happening partying and meeting new people but when it is over you do feel lonely. Think of things you enjoy doing and go and do somthing ... (read in full...)
How do I go down on my girlfriend?
Q. My ex-girlfriend taught me a technique that produced her first blended orgasm where I would gently suck around her clitoris and hum while my lips were pursed and shake my head left and right to gently pull the surrounding skin area while stimulating ...
A. 3 October 2008: Use your tongue around and on the clit and do the alphabet A-Z moving the tongue in the shape of the letters,ask her how she likes it. experiment and have fun with it.
Stimulate it with warm and cold put an ice cube in your mouth and lick and then... (read in full...)
His parents don't like him seeing me so he "sneaks around" to see me and I hate it.
Q. help i dont know what to do well okay here goes. me and my bf have been going out 4 about half a year now and we love each other to bits. his parents were fine about it till earlier on in may and that made them dislike me. Now they still haven...
A. 3 October 2008: hi, I dont know what happend in May but what ever it was it sounds like it was something quit bad. His parents are trying to stop their son from having any heartache as every parent wants for their child. They may not like you but if you are 16 or ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to have a period after the date you could have gotten pregnant?
Q. I'm only 15 years old and I know the consequences but I was curious. Is it possible to have a period after the date you could have gotten pregnant because I am having many symptoms of pregnancy but I have had a period after the possiby date of ...
A. 3 October 2008: Hi, some women can bleed through out pregnancy but I would say that you need to do a pregnancy test and even if it is negative speak with your GP as there is a chance you may have had a misscarraige. Miscarraige's are very common aspecially in the ... (read in full...)
Two months pregnant and my father wants me to have an abortion. My boyfriend gets very angry.
Q. Hi Im 2 months pregnant and found out 3 weeks ago. I am very confused about what to do. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and he is 7 years older than me he says he really wants me to keep the baby and we will get married when we are old ...
A. 3 October 2008: I send this with the respect of both you and the father of the child. Having a baby is a difficult thing and it does not get any easier. If you are having doubts at the begining of the pregnancy think carefully about the decision you make.There are ... (read in full...)
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