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Am I just an arrogant american?

Q.   Is it wrong for thinking my home country (U.S.A.) is the greatest country in the world? I come from a military family, and have such a deep respect for our armed forces. I am not the most patriotic person in the world, of course I do not trust the ...

A.   31 May 2011: Well, I know I get the feeling of Australia being he best ever all the time. But if you go arou d telling everyone it is and you feel arrogant, remember this: Having an opinion is like having a penis. It's good to have one, it's good to be proud of ... (read in full...)

Why isn't there any English dating sites?

Q.   There seems to be every dating site for everyone else: muslim, latinos, asians, but none for English. Why is this? My family originates from England and my father was born there. My dads side is still very English in their ways. I like dating E...

A.   31 May 2011: Australian men not good enough for you?... (read in full...)

I need help in how to ask out this girl and not feel pathetic!

Q.   Hey guys and ladies. It's been too long since I've been here. I think I was either in Primary school or just between. Now I'm in Highschool and in year 11. I am not as self conscious as I once was, and am now pretty out there. But there is one ...

A.   29 May 2011: Ah, very true. I have been told exactly that in the past. If she's neutral about it, I could convince her to slightly like it, so it won't be as Abadan. The reason why I like her is not only is she unique, she is a friend of mine and hangs in our... (read in full...)

I cum too fast and it's ruining my relationship!

Q.   hello here is a little background.. I'm 26 years old, and I live with my 19 years old GF, we now eachother for 1 year and been in relationship for about 5 months, she is by far the most pretty woman I ever had, she is just gorgeous with a ...

A.   21 October 2009: Since I can't have sex due to my age and lack of girlfirend, I'm going to suggest something Charlie Harper said on 'Two and a half men': 'To stop the hose [insert proper line here], you gotta think of something that's not sexy.' Alan: What do... (read in full...)

Will using a vibrator make it harder for me to orgasm during sex?

Q.   okay so i use a back masager or idk but it just vibrates but anyways i use that to have orgasms i put it right on my clit i dont move it around or anything i jus set it there..im just wondering can that make it harder for me to hav an orgasm during ...

A.   19 August 2009: Yep, ALOT has changed. But alas, it is true.... (read in full...)

Will using a vibrator make it harder for me to orgasm during sex?

Q.   okay so i use a back masager or idk but it just vibrates but anyways i use that to have orgasms i put it right on my clit i dont move it around or anything i jus set it there..im just wondering can that make it harder for me to hav an orgasm during ...

A.   18 August 2009: It will have a effect on the arousal of the clit. The more you use it, the body gets used to the vibrations and when you have ordinary sex without it, it's harder to achieve a full orgasm because it's used to the vibrations produced by the ... (read in full...)

Underage next door female coming on to me

Q.   Hello, I am a 20 year old male, and I moved to a new neighborhood about three years ago. Over the last three years we have become friendly with everyone on the block and my little brother enjoys playing with the neighborhood children. One of m...

A.   9 August 2009: Wow, nice to know you show respect for her! Just try and avoid her. If that fails, tell her you have a partner and get a female friend to help you out. If that still doesn't push her away, GO FOR IT! Joking, just don't make as much contact wit... (read in full...)

He hid his profile on the dating site?

Q.   I’m on a dating site and recently I emailed a guy who I liked the sound of. He responded and we’ve been emailing ever since. After our first email exchange he hid his profile. I can still email him but his profile isn’t visible to anyone else o...

A.   18 June 2009: Maybe he wants to see how you two go and not be pestered by other women. Maybe he just wants to talk to YOu and YOU only. That's very nice of him to think of you and just you. :3... (read in full...)

Is it legal for a 17/12 relationship without sex in Canada, I want to date her, but worried about legal aspects?

Q.   I'm 17 years old and have found out that too much of a good thing can be bad. I had a 27 year old GF that had a crazy apatite for sex.She would engage me sexually every time we met(always at her place) and we would have a lot of rough,hard sex f...

A.   4 June 2009: You soun like a nice bloke, and it's great that you have the brain cells to check first. But no, it's not ok. Just wait another 4 years and see if she's still with you.... (read in full...)

She asked what was in my pocket, but I had gotten an erection! So embarrassed!

Q.   Hi, I'm 14, about to be a freshman in high school, and I have a problem. I've been best friends with this girl for longer than I can remember. Last week, our school had the end-of-year Spring Fling (a dance). We went together as friends. When I went ...

A.   19 May 2009: Haha, GoGreen's reply made me laugh. She SHOULD be honoured dude. And this is coming from a guy who gets an erection just from seeing my GF. But I'm single at the mo. So, can't tell any tales.... (read in full...)

I got pregnant from being raped but lied and told husband the baby was his

Q.   i need help, my husband and i is sufffering right now, he works abroad, last june3 i was raped, and a month ago he comes home,after that i noticed i was pregnant but not with my husband and with the person who raped me whom i dont know from nowhere. ...

A.   15 May 2009: Don't worry, he's just a little upset. But I personally wouldn't do that, that's just coward. Walking out and not listening. That's just awful. If you think he's givin up, move on. (But I don't want this to happen. If this option happens, ... (read in full...)

I got pregnant from being raped but lied and told husband the baby was his

Q.   i need help, my husband and i is sufffering right now, he works abroad, last june3 i was raped, and a month ago he comes home,after that i noticed i was pregnant but not with my husband and with the person who raped me whom i dont know from nowhere. ...

A.   14 May 2009: With the family, just brush off their comments. YOU'RE BETTER THAN THEM! THEY HAVEN'T GONE THROUGH WHAT YOU'VE BEEN THROUGH! Sorry for Caps, just that it sickens me that they could hate you for an incident they know little about. Don't ... (read in full...)

I got pregnant from being raped but lied and told husband the baby was his

Q.   i need help, my husband and i is sufffering right now, he works abroad, last june3 i was raped, and a month ago he comes home,after that i noticed i was pregnant but not with my husband and with the person who raped me whom i dont know from nowhere. ...

A.   12 May 2009: Look, just tell him and say when it happened and every detail. Like the rapers facial features and clothing. If your husband still doesn't believe you, just go to the police and tell them. They will try their best to find them. But it's d... (read in full...)

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