It seems that everything I do is pointless
Q. I am not okay with myself. I've been told to be positive and that the situation I am in is not the end of the world by many people but it doesn't help. My Mother and family tear me down at every chance about how much of a failure I am and ask how am ...
A. 9 January 2015: I'm sorry for what you're going through.
What are you studying? Is this something you have an interest in? Perhaps this is not the right path for you? Have you ever considered other types of schooling? Perhaps trade school?
As far as you... (read in full...)
She's blamed me for her sexting, flirting and flashing on webchat. Is this classed as cheating? Can I trust her?
Q. i have been with my fiancee for almost 4 years now and we are actively planning our wedding. she has confessed to me that she has been flirting with her ex on text, flirting with other guys on web chat and has also been flashing on webchat....
A. 5 January 2015: Yes, this constitutes cheating.
Her behavior is highly inappropriate and disrespectful towards you.
I suggest you do as Honeypie and WiseOwlE have suggested and proceed by *not* marrying her.... (read in full...)
I can't help thinking the worst. Is his past browsing history a sign that he's becoming a man I no longer feel I know?
Q. Hi I would really appreciate some help I feel like my boyfriend of 3 years is becoming someone I don't know. I love him so much and couldn't really imagine life without him but I keep finding little things that make me feel unwanted; I foun...
A. 5 January 2015: He's likely been watching porn since he was a teenager and his usage of it is truly not a reflection on you whatsoever.
A few years back, I felt extremely betrayed when I found out that my husband was watching porn. I was very heartbroken and depr... (read in full...)
I get my needs met online and my husband uses porn.
Q. I feel justified in getting feedback online from Men about my body to get my emotional needs met . I would never meet with one but it makes me feel desired loved and attractive My husband uses porn and says that there's no harm in it as he will ne...
A. 4 January 2015: That's because it's not the same way. If it were, then you would also just be watching porn.
Ultimately, the only opinion that matters on this subject is that of your husband's. I'm assuming he's unaware?
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I get my needs met online and my husband uses porn.
Q. I feel justified in getting feedback online from Men about my body to get my emotional needs met . I would never meet with one but it makes me feel desired loved and attractive My husband uses porn and says that there's no harm in it as he will ne...
A. 4 January 2015: He's watching porn because it's enjoyable, it's something different and it's exciting.
Do you not also find talking to random men enjoyable, different and exciting?
Is he aware of what you're up to?
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I dealt with a lot of drama last year, and now have no motivation to work!
Q. I had a lot of drama last year. Unexpected breakup because I didn't realize how unsupportive my fiancé was until I started to become overcome with work related stress(office politics really, not the work itself, death of a relative, typical family ...
A. 3 January 2015: I'm sorry for what you're going through right now.
I recommend continuing to see the therapist and psychiatrist in order to rule out any underlying mental health issues.
I also recommend eating healthy, daily exercise to boost your mood and ge... (read in full...)
Where can I go to meet girls appropriate for my age?
Q. Can't login because my email "isn't in the right format". But whatever... I've been feeling a bit isolated since I left my high school during my sophomore year to go to school online. Long story short (well, not really short), it's gotten kind of ...
A. 31 December 2014: Perhaps it's time to ditch online schooling? You could meet plenty of women if you were physically attending school.
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