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Does he want me back or has he moved on?

Q.   my ex and i have been broken up for almost a year now. He's the one who broke up with me. Since then, he has never expressed a desire to get back together to my face, but has hinted at it. we had a few months away from one another, but have been in ...

A.   22 January 2006: I'm replying to this as a woman who has gone through a very similar situation. You're reading too much into the clues. He probably ignored you at first because he wasn't sure how you were going to react. He said you were beautiful to a friend ... (read in full...)

I could be pregnant by my married lover...do I tell him?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I have fallen for somebody I cannot have, he is married (by 2 years) but we let temptation get the better of us and I'm now worried im pregnant. I know in myself that I wouldnt be able to keep the child for financial and emotional re...

A.   17 January 2006: You already made the mistake of sleeping with a married man. The thought that you may be pregnant at this point could be just that... a thought. Even though you are saying that you would not be able to keep the child- the reason you want to tell him ... (read in full...)

Should I stay with him or go to be with my ideal man?

Q.   What the hell should I do? Last summer i met my ideal man, he's caring, thoughtful, always gives me compliments, sexy, good in bed and very touchy feely. But the problem is i already have a boyfriend of 4 years who is the total opposite of this. Im...

A.   17 January 2006: You are not happy with the man you're with. Take the initiative and break up with him. Don't do it for the other man though. Do it for yourself. Something is not right. Maybe you'll date the other man. Things may or may not work out. If they don't, ... (read in full...)

I slept with my ex and my boyfriend is returning soon!

Q.   I feel so guilty, my boyfriend has been away for 3 weeks now and i have been faithful to him the entire time, then yesterday my ex came over and i still love him very much and we got caught up on our feelings and i ended up sleeping with him. I lo...

A.   13 January 2006: You need to decide if you want the man you're with. If you still have strong feelings for your ex- you may not be ready for the relationship you're in. I don't know your current situation or why things didn't work out with your ex... but those are ... (read in full...)

Should I be trying harder with the (married) girl I met and fell in love with (online)?

Q.   I met a girl online last January year that I quickly became good friends with. I thought she was very attractive, we shared the same sense of humor, but unfortunately, she has been married for 10 years and has 3 children. So I kept it strictly as ...

A.   13 January 2006: Run like the wind. No matter how much you are in love with this woman- you will be crushed in the end. She has her issues with her husband- but he will always be in the picture whether they are married or not. She has 3 children with him. All may ... (read in full...)

We broke up a year ago. Now I found out he is in a new relationship and it has killed me... Why!?

Q.   Well me and my ex went out for about 4 months. It's been a year since our breakup. In that year, I was totally over him...Until now. All of the sudden, I like him all over again. I found out that he's in a relationship and it kills me. It's been a ...

A.   13 January 2006: You don't like him all over again. You simply haven't found someone else yet (or he hasn't found you). If you're anything like myself- you fall in love quickly...but it doesn't mean that the person you fell for was the right one for you. Just ... (read in full...)

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